Can someone give me a link were to download patch v1.1? and then if you can patch 1.2, 1.3, 1.4 etc (if there is) Because I cant update straight I have to do it bit by bit don't I.
No, you shoudl just download the latest patch 1.41 HERE. That is all you need.
1.1 was actually recalled because it caused a memory leak.