A little advice plz =/ 16 replies

Hey all...

Old timer here ( doubt anyone remembers me? is rhomer still about? ), havent used the forums for a while, but kinda need a chat and some advice and I dno, picked here almost at random.

But, pressing on, i need some advice.

I'm about to start my second year at uni, however, over the summer got a part time job, which was fine. Have been there a few months, however a few nights ago, I was down the pub with some mates casually and bumped into one of my bosses. We had a fair few drinks togther and got on fine, however, I ended up going back to hers and sleeping with her.

Ideally i'd like to keep the job, and also really like the girl in question, however its getting tough for me to work out what she wants.......

She seem normal at work (no different to before the incident) however slighty shy and evasive. Also I asked her if she fancied a few drinks on one evening and she told me no because she was working, however I have seent he rota and she isnt.

Its really confusing as at the time she seemed really into me, yet she was also a little drunk - however morning sex kinda dispells the idea that she jsut didnt know what she was doing....

So any suggestions or advice as to how to handle the situation? =/

Don't do drunk chicks.

SVD_Sniper;4589405Hey all... Old timer here ( doubt anyone remembers me? is rhomer still about? ), havent used the forums for a while, but kinda need a chat and some advice and I dno, picked here almost at random. But, pressing on, i need some advice. I'm about to start my second year at uni, however, over the summer got a part time job, which was fine. Have been there a few months, however a few nights ago, I was down the pub with some mates casually and bumped into one of my bosses. We had a fair few drinks togther and got on fine, however, I ended up going back to hers and sleeping with her. Ideally i'd like to keep the job, and also really like the girl in question, however its getting tough for me to work out what she wants....... She seem normal at work (no different to before the incident) however slighty shy and evasive. Also I asked her if she fancied a few drinks on one evening and she told me no because she was working, however I have seent he rota and she isnt. Its really confusing as at the time she seemed really into me, yet she was also a little drunk - however morning sex kinda dispells the idea that she jsut didnt know what she was doing.... So any suggestions or advice as to how to handle the situation? =/

you slept with your boss? well... how intresting. well, you might as well just go straight up to her and ask why she is being so evasive, thats all i can think of at the moment.

Oh yes, and for possible future threads like this (Judging by your lifestyle, probable), use the Pub Forum.

NiRv4n4;4589500Don't do drunk chicks.[/QUOTE]

We got drunk togther and she was not really any drunker than me......and she was kinda flirtatious long before we went back to her place.

joke Besides if I rule out drunk chicks my lovelife will come to a standstill /joke

crisissuit3;4589514you slept with your boss? well... how intresting. well, you might as well just go straight up to her and ask why she is being so evasive, thats all i can think of at the moment.

I considered it, however at each time we spoke (breifly) it was cut short or was very business-as-usual...really have no idea what to think. :(

edit: [QUOTE=NiRv4n4;4589569]Oh yes, and for possible future threads like this (Judging by your lifestyle, probable), use the Pub Forum.

the what? is it new?

NiRv4n4;4589500Don't do drunk chicks.

lolz

NiRv4n4;4589500Don't do drunk chicks.

Drunk girls need lovin' too.

I would say that you should leave her alone for a few days/weeks. Something like that places her in a very awkward position since she is your boss. I would not talk about this to anyone at your workplace. If her boss hears about it, you can both be out of a job.

Pethegreat;4589599Drunk girls need lovin' too.

I would say that you should leave her alone for a few days/weeks. Something like that places her in a very awkward position since she is your boss. I would not talk about this to anyone at your workplace. If her boss hears about it, you can both be out of a job.

I haven't even told MY RL mates.....<3 internet anonymity (or however-the-fuck its spelt)

discreetly place nude photos of yourself on her desk at random times that should help you find out what she wants :P

SVD_Sniper;4589574 I considered it, however at each time we spoke (breifly) it was cut short or was very business-as-usual...really have no idea what to think. :( [/quote] i think you should try again. have you planned it out? like, meet up here in the secure location and ask whats going on?

NiRv4n4;4589569Oh yes, and for possible future threads like this (Judging by your lifestyle, probable), use the Pub Forum.

The PUB is for intelligent discussion, i dont think life problems really fit there... that was what i thought before i read... [quote=SpaZy;4589651]discreetly place nude photos of yourself on her desk at random times that should help you find out what she wants :P

this.