Am I being a little over worried? 18 replies

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darknights

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#1 11 years ago

Okay I need some input if I'm being a little over worried about the state of my youngest cousin. Just recently on face book, who is in her early-mid teens invited me(and presumbly her other friends and other members of our extended family) to "hug her, tickle her, and to fuck her". Now as her cousin I'm quite shock that she would send an invite to her friends, much more that she is sending out her to all of her older cousins. Now is not out the realm that she knows of these things(cause I sure did thanks(sarcasm) in part due to my friends).

Am I being a little over worried as her older cousin, and in way refusing to see her as a growing child? Cause seeing this makes me want to inform my mother, and in turn my aunt(they live in Hong Kong) about this.

DK out




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#2 11 years ago

Leave her alone, you're being too overprotective. Chances are she doesn't take it seriously, neither should you.




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#3 11 years ago

yeah just ignore it, if she keeps doing it ask her to stop saying things like that to you so you dont have to here about it cause of the whole "cousin" thing

are you sure she meant to send it to you? it wasnt a mistake?




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#4 11 years ago

A group of my friends used someone's mobile to invite their driving instructor to do much the same once. It's probably just some joke or childish prank.




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#5 11 years ago

HairySheep;3731414yeah just ignore it, if she keeps doing it ask her to stop saying things like that to you so you dont have to here about it cause of the whole "cousin" thing

are you sure she meant to send it to you? it wasnt a mistake?

I'm pretty sure it wasn't a mistakte, cause right on her facebook profile page it asks if anyone want to fuck her.

Sure it looks like i'm being over protective, but I pretty sure that any older sibling/cousin is granted that sort of leeway when it comes to looking after your family.




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#6 11 years ago

darknights;3731843I'm pretty sure it wasn't a mistakte, cause right on her facebook profile page it asks if anyone want to fuck her.

Sure it looks like i'm being over protective, but I pretty sure that any older sibling/cousin is granted that sort of leeway when it comes to looking after your family.

I have two teenage cousins around the same age as yours. I really feel it's all about how close they feel to you. I'm sure she showed you because she trusted you enough to have confidence in her that she knew what she was doing, and that this was all just a way for her to be a tease. Girls at this age tend to love attention, and from the sound of it, it's exactly what shes doing.

If you were to approach, I would do it calmly. Try asking her if the whole "do you want to fuck me" thing is a bit much because it can attract the wrong kind of attention she wants and could end up causing serious issues with predators looking for this sort of profile.

The only reason I wouldn't tell the parents yet is because if she trusted you enough to show it to you, it means she values your opinion in some fashion. Expressing it as a person that is looking out for her best interests and not as someone telling her what to do would be the best way to approach it, in my opinion. Since teens around this age are in that rebellious stage (as I'm sure you've read from those in their mid teens on this forum) and will act against anything telling them what to do.


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#7 11 years ago

I would say that it's a little disconcerting. Especially if the part about "anyone wanting to fuck her" is intended for you as a potential. I would talk to her if I were you. Tell her that it makes you uncomfortable that she would direct such things at you, not to mention post it on the web. I wouldn't consider such an opinion overprotective; just common sense.




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#8 11 years ago

Are you absolutely positive she put it up? We had to learn about 'internet bullying' awhile back. Apparently people will find a way to get ahold of someone's myspace, xanga, facebook, etc. password and change all of their stuff to be pretty hateful and cruel. To be honest, I would just bring it up one day, ask her if she's the one that did it, and all that other stuff. I wouldn't bring the parents into this, yet. If she isn't the one that posted that stuff, sure, bring them in.

Pretty sick that kids these days get off on that kind of stuff, but being mean to one another is just how kids are nowadays.




darknights

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#9 11 years ago

well I've emailed her, hopefully I will get an answer in the next 24 hrs, I can hope now




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#10 11 years ago

n0e thats one funny avatar. WTF is that all about lol




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