So, are you seeking any kind of relationship right now? If so, why? If not, why not?
:nodding: because i feel like i have a chance this time.
I am. Because I'm a depressed suicidal person who needs more then friends and therapists to help me through this.
Dragonelf68;4210611I am. Because I'm a depressed suicidal person who needs more then friends and therapists to help me through this.
First know yourself to help yourself. Appreciate yourself, want to help yourself. Accept yourself and get ready to help that person, therapists will never help all your problems. You must work at it too no matter how much help they try to give you , its useless unless you are willing to work at it and put it to some good use. Or even disagree with it.
They do not know you, they guess, you should know you. Then the advice will be good or bad and life will be more clear. How to know yourself ? Stop telling yourself that you are so depressed. Start enjoying your work outs and find truth to who you are.
You are overweight you are also a man of challenge who wants to work hard to change that. Working out should feel good, you are helping yourself.
If you do not know yourself, appreciate yourself a friend can be very dangerous to have.
To get to know yourself talk to others more , compare. Try things that are hard. Go that extra mile when you do not think you can because that is what makes all the difference in this world.
Wether that is walking that mile or trying real hard to talk to someone , it makes all the difference in the world.
I can assure you at this point and forever looks are not everything. When you get older it may be more clear. People love a good personality which you could easily have but if you let your discontent for looks keep bothering you you are never going to have a personality. It is all in how you handle things that people will respect you. When waging wars , its how effective your tatics are that makes you sucessfull . If you just brush some of these insults off and talk to other people, those other people will respect you and want to be your friend. They will not think much of the pop kids picking on you , but they wont think much of a depressed emo person either . So just be you, and let it go. Depression is all in the head I do not care what they say. Imbalances can be found in diet , sleep all very human and human driven things.
As for a relationship, no I try to give others that pleasure. It is just the way things are now.
Good luck dragon.
I wouldn't mind to get a relation but I can't find a good looking woman with higher EQ and IQ wouldn't hurt eather;)...
Ah I have actually asked a girl out today, only problem is that she is deaf and its hard at times to understand her. But I like her so I'm gonna give it a try.
I'm in one currently, so no. ^-^
^lucky little... :cya: oh hi
I didn't make it!
No, because I'm a fat bastard who no-one likes. Please say you like me? I'm so lonely... :bawl: :lol:
I like you...but only because of your self-criticism;). Yeah...and buy a pet.