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YautjaLord

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#1 10 years ago

I had a girlfriend a few good years ago & we were quiet emotional about each other. Then, as a lightning strike, i found her in a company of another, so basically the relationship was totally f***ed up. I dated her for a month & then she broke up on me. I won't get emotional right now :), but what do u do to make that not happen & what steps do u take in meeting girl, dating her & not letting the small f***-ups like the one i had to stand in the way of the relationship, no matter where u r : US, UK, Israel or any other country ?! Besides, the way i see things in Israel, this country is taking American way in meeting a girl (cool/not cool, acceptable/not & other bollocks like that :)). I truly appreciate if u make your replies generous - i spilled my heart out for u. P.S. Dear GF moderators/admins, please don't tell me this is the wrong forum, once again. :lol: The Pub or The Babe Forum is about this subject, too ?! If it is - i'm still new to your forum. :) Thanx anyway. :cheers:




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#2 10 years ago

I usually meet girls when I go out, I do that once or twice a week at least. As for how to keep a relationship, I'm not really the authority on that, but talking things out (how, why, when and so on) can help a lot.




YautjaLord

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#3 10 years ago
the1chaos;3975069I usually meet girls when I go out, I do that once or twice a week at least. As for how to keep a relationship, I'm not really the authority on that, but talking things out (how, why, when and so on) can help a lot.

True. As for dating a girl once in a week - i wish i could do so. :lol: I am talking bout commitment & as such, i need to know the precautions on not to f*** up : i'm 31 years old, so this is something i need desparetlly. :lol: Still, thanx m8.




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#4 10 years ago

Oh no, when I talk about going out I'm referring to a bar or club with a load of friends, or to my student society. That's how I meet new people; girls in particular.

Anyway. There aren't really 'precautions' that I can think of (other than the obvious "remember birthday, valentine and anniversary"). It's however hard to give advice if I don't know how you fuck the relationship up. If you don't know yourself, ask the girls you've dated, or perhaps a good friend.




YautjaLord

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#5 10 years ago

You right - there's always good friend to give the advice bout that stuff & i have them plenty here (Israel). Thanx. Sure appreciated this. Besides - money talks in Israel as well : the way they (girls) look into your eyes, they see if u have enough to spend on 'em, or not. And i talking on meeting just one & thinking of us as couple in long term (that was the scenario with my ex-girlfriend, as well). Been 31 years old & single, is hard in here. But i'll be selfish if i'll claim it is the case in Israel alone. :rofl:




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#6 10 years ago

I've heard of a phone service that calls your insignificant [heh] other and lightly breaks it to them, if they're unassuming, that the relationship is over.




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#7 10 years ago
Xan Lord I am talking bout commitment & as such, i need to know the precautions on not to f*** up : i'm 31 years old, so this is something i need desparetlly. lol.gif Still, thanx m8.

How not to fuck up? Try not to think about fucking up. Cliche, cliche; but just be yourself. If the relation is this fragile, just don't push it too much, don't forget important dates, and don't forget her in general. Oh, and especially if you're really searching a girlfriend, I can't help but second my 'don't rush it' advice.




YautjaLord

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#8 10 years ago
Griffin_NL;3978864How not to fuck up? Try not to think about fucking up. Cliche, cliche; but just be yourself. If the relation is this fragile, just don't push it too much, don't forget important dates, and don't forget her in general. Oh, and especially if you're really searching a girlfriend, I can't help but second my 'don't rush it' advice.

Thanx for advice, m8. From time to time i need a reminder bout those things. :lol: Then again, this logic is printed allover me - i am quiet romantic person. :) Thanx again, surely helps.