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Liquid fire

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#1 10 years ago

OLD saying " Nice guys finish last"

Do nice guys finish last in most things? Things such as getting the woman, or other related struggles? It is an old saying that I never agreed with until today. Some how I feel it makes more sense in my life as of today.

Im sure this is easy to answer and no one will say yes entirely but it may be fun for a few to babble about. OK ON TOPIC still but ABOUT ME, not something you need to reply to, main idea is above this. Frankly I am a nice guy only on the inside not the outside Im a nasty fcker. So Im failing to see how this old idea is effecting me or speaking to me. Perhaps after all the women I turned down interested in me I feel as if maybe if I was good on the inside ,(cant change that) but started acting bad on the outside I would do better with the laddies. I do not understand, I do not want to be a bad boy and attract a bunch of lose hoes or whores but I do not want to not be the sort of man that does not know how to attract the laddies, well I do but I never reel them in very far , I just coy flirt like a jack ass .

Im confused I thought mature girls, the type Im looking for, were attracted to nice guys , loyal , faithful. Sounds better for me and whom ever that would be because in that case it is doubtful that she would ever leave me and I would be someone she would trust . In today's world I can not see at all how a marriage can last not at all , so I definately do not want to start one off of lust. OR is that normal to start that way? I guess I am just searching now ,and not waiting for that magical moment, does that moment exist ? Love at 1st sight BS.

Whatever, I know that my nice inner self may be making me finish last for all I know. I do not invade a woman's space,(ya know some interest get into it ) flirt directly ....How can I even be human !? :lol: Seriously I am a weird sort of person for that. Is it natural and acceptable to show that you like some one and may even want them or is would that make me look like a man whore or some kind of pervert. I do not want to look desperate . I am but I understand a man can be strong in times like these.

Anyways if you read it all remember the topic is before my personal BS.

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-DarthMaul-

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#2 10 years ago

No.

edit: ok I just wanted to make my point lol. I dont think we do. Im pretty much the same thing you speak of(And done the same mistake) but after I stopped letting that little phrase get to me and be myself it all worked out fine. I still flirt, and have dated, but the sad fact is more girls still arent mature enough/get jealous easy/get pressuered/etc.

me and my friend(girl) were talking about just that on AIM, and she said before she dated her friend(which is my best friend) she didnt know if she wanted a nerd or not...then she figuered out theyre the best people. She said Nice guys make her laugh, ar eintellegent, can screw around with, etc. And generally wont do much bad :P treat her like a princess and all...

thats just me.




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#3 10 years ago
Love at 1st sight BS.

No, its just called lust. (which many women tend to confuse with 'love')

I think this thread is pretty much the same thing as time2kill's thread. My thoughts about this remain there. Go look at them if you want to see them because I am lazy.




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#4 10 years ago

Oh its not a me thread necessarily though, its just a do nice guys finish last thread.




themanclaw

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#5 10 years ago

Hopefully no. There is a good chance assholes will be bitten on their ass later in life when reality hits them.

But there is no question; nice guys are definitely under appreciated.




Scientist Dr. Professor

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#6 10 years ago

Nice guys who come across as whimps with no confidence, and that place the pussy on a pedestal, finish last.




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#7 10 years ago

The winner doesn't always get the best prize.




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#8 10 years ago
SeinfeldRules;4226498Nice guys who come across as whimps with no confidence, and that place the pussy on a pedestal, finish last.

Seinfeld said it all. It's the whole "nice guys finish last" mentality that causes nice guys to finish last...




UNDIESRULES

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#9 10 years ago

I have been in the workplace for 18 years now and i think nice guys dont finish last. Its down to peoples' integrity and trustworthiness lots of the time. I am a serving soldier of 10 years and i must be the nicest most chilled out bloke i know and i have done really well in an environment full of loud people who shout to get ahead, yet ive done really well in terms of promotion etc.




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#10 10 years ago
SeinfeldRules;4226498Nice guys who come across as whimps with no confidence, and that place the pussy on a pedestal, finish last.

End of discussion.