Jill, do YOU think nice guys do/should finish last? ;)
Cap'n Rommel;3613062some heavy genelization there :uhm:
Not all "Nice guys" idolized and so on, but yes, s tend to be scared away... which somehow bugs me since I see myself as a "nice guy"..
Sure its importiant to build up a balance, and when you have that balance, then you're "Nice guy", the other thing is just outright annoying, and the alternative is even worse.
But just remember GIRLS boys dont like it either, you also need to find that balance, you might think you got it, think again.
quoted for agreement...
I can't really classify myself as nice.
Sh0wdowN;3604902I consider myself to be.. fluctuating between in-between and 'bad' depending on my company. I can be very mean depending on my opinion of a person (which is usually shaped in my first encounter with said individual, and it takes a lot to change my first impression for the better, and very little for the worse), and I'm very judging. If I'm with a girl who's cute and talkative, I act nice in return, I put effort in keeping an interesting conversation going, et cetera. However, I usually keep my distance when it comes to girl, or, rather, people in general. I stick to a set group of friends and rarely approach others, even at parties. I like to spectate people and observe their behavior.[/quote] That's me... ;)Jill;3604814Okay...let me tell you a little secret. The "nice guys" actually scare girls away. You see...these guys tend to be needy and sorta builds up their entire existance and happiness around her. Most girls don't like needy guys. What happens is that girls sorta feel too much pressure and almost feel like they are being suffocated. The key is this guys.....build a good balanced life for yourself and then find a nice girl to share this with you. Nice guys seem to devote all their time and effort doing things for this girl. "Nice guys" actually think that if they worship the ground that she walks on and sorta idolizes them....that in return she will automaticly do the same for him. They get sorta like unrealistic expectations that disappoints them. That is why many "nice guys" feel that girls stomp their heart which leads to pain and frustration in the end.[/quote]Kewl, I'm doing it right. :pNah, it ain't... chicks dig it, such as when I open a door for them (Even if they're a complete stranger), they love it... :deal: [quote=The-Bleh-Bleh;3607494]Me thinks im more of a nice guy, and im also rather shy... I can kind of have flippy moods from talkative, to well, the escape from all social life kind of mood hahah. This could be why im often considered a weird kid. Well, people that know me are good friends so... ya.
Jeffro;3604928I stopped idolizing women when I realized that they can be total bitches. The thing is, nice guys finish last because they are just plain boring. You have to have a sense of humor, flirt, and tease when you are going out with a girl or on a date. Women like spontaneity and aggressiveness. Not timid hugs and sheepishness. Political correctness will NOT get you a date...[/quote]Ah, another thing I'm doing right...MrFancypants;3604949True, but I guess most of the nice guys are also very shy guys, so most girls never find out how witty they actually are. Besides, shy people don't talk a lot and most women like to know what is going on in a man's head, so you could say that it's the way they sell themselves that causes them to have problems with girls.Hmm, I remember a quote from a movie that the girl was afraid of the guy's silence (Shyness). Would someone care to explain why you would fear it? [quote=Octovon;3605595]Chivalry is dead, its as if it is no longer appreciated by the fairer sex.
You just described me in every respect... :uhm:
[quote=D.Sporky!;3609187]I don't agree with what you call a "nice guy" at all. That's just a streight up needy guy, or as I would call it, a "stupid guy." A nice guy is simply the kind that isn't an asshole/douche all the time. :D
And to further that, a nice guy to me (Which I suppose I am) is one that doesn't want to impose himself on other people... ya' know, stay below radar, don't bug them they won't bug you sort of thing...... I gotta stop that! :banghead: As for nice guys finishing last? Heck yes we do... we finish, bad boys end up in jail or a rut... Bad boys to me are the ones that get a kick out of breaking rules... they're out there and are attention catchers which might be why women are interested in them... maybe? :confused: Then there's the needy guys which to me are starved for a relationship to where they'd do anything to maintain it, and usually go about it the wrong way by idolizing the person. Meh, I'm just flippin' glad to be flirted with by a girl....
In my experience, yes they do.
It's usually the assholes that get what they want.
I've got my friends and family, I don't need a self-conscious woman doubting me because of my ability to be caring.
I'm way cooler than n0e (who isn't though?)
27th May 2004
[RANT] Heh, in light of recent events, Nice guys do finish last. Be a gentlemen? Nah women want to be roughed up it seems.
God these things piss me off. [/RANT]