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crzymnky

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#291 14 years ago

that doesn't have to stop you from having a girlfriend.




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#292 14 years ago

SupaStarAsh I don't have a girlfriend, hell, i have more chance of owning FileFront and the rest of the internet at the moment than i do at getting a girlfriend.[/QUOTE] Evaluating what I perceive to be your current understanding & attitude - then this statement is true.

However, is it a limitation you can escape with some insight? YES.

There is no limit to you having the type of girlfriend(s) you want to have intimate relations with, other than what you are prepared to take on, & I mean specifically in terms of concepts.

The sad fact is that what matters in the mating game (the urge for companionship between the sexes has one implicit drive & no, its not the need to have arguments over DIY as modern man seems to do! :rolleyes:), what matters has been laid down by definite evolutionary steps that have hard encoded all this behaviour into our genetic make up; it is as inescapable, undeniable & unmistakeable, as your organic make-up (i.e. that you are made of chemicals & not others). ( & at the end of the day you have to realise that what works in inter-sexual relationships will not be susceptible to bargaining, pleas, argument, or reasoning of any kind, no matter how brilliant & compelling).

SupaStarAsh Girls (especially around my area) seem to want 'the bad guys' WTF and they can offer them what that good guys can't? Besides illegal drugs and a car that does 12)mph on a 30mph limit, nothing!![/QUOTE] Girls & women, any women, yes even your gran once upon a time or even now perhaps, respond to the same cues that generations of human females before then have responded to for millions of years. Bizarrely rather than these cues being second nature to most men they seem to baffle us, me included, however thanks to the insights of those who have more of an affinity with this topic I can now see the imperative forces behind these apparently nonsensical trade-offs & backwards behaviour.

One of the biggest clues is to think this through: ...could someone convince you to find them attractive (if you did not already in the first place in some remote way at all)? In other words, through pleading & fawning could someone make you see them that way - that automatic response you have towards other girls/boys that can be like a bullet in its immediacy & power?

If you think 'yes' [COLOR="Red"]you need to stop kidding yourself[/COLOR]. This goes for everyone reading this: You know it doesn't work this way, & guess what it never did... so why do you presume that you can convince a girl or anyone else to have these evolutionarily predestined, fundamental feelings towards you?

Remember these are mechanisms underlying behaviours which are powerful & essential. They have a great deal to do with why the human race is so prevalent today. They have everything to do with why you are here today. A bit of half-hearted arguement & teenage angst is not going to bend them to your will.

You follow rookies?

For your own sakes, & well being I hope all that can, are starting to wake up to this brew of fundamental truth.

[QUOTE=SupaStarAsh] I would like a girlfriend, as others have said, who wouldn't, personally i think i could give a girl everything, and i know that i'd be loyal. get to know me, you'll find out i have some very strong opinions on this topic and topics alike.

Well so you think, but with your state of mind, sadly, for yourself, (& I empathise because I was once as clueless as you are friend), you cannot even begin to imagine the behaviours & signals that girls naturally & inevitably respond to - but be shocked by this if you will- it is most likely the opposite of everything you have stated & that you can think it is. Believe. I am not sh*tting you. [QUOTE=SupaStarAsh] but, to answer the thread question rather than rant on and change the whole reason for it. No, i don't currently have a girlfriend, yet i would like one.

Once again it is regretable that there is very little physically existant in this world, preventing you from getting precisely the one you want. That goes for everyone else. By that I mean, possessions, physical attributes, fame, etc. are all advantages for some certainly (but not for the reasons most men presume, women are not born gold-diggers), but they are in no way the elements that seal the deal. For those not clear - I am not talking solely of creating one night stands or passionate rushes that last hours - I am talking of forming fundamental relationships with any woman, any age any creed any nationality anywhere; whether the intent is simpel intimacy of a kiss or till death do us part.

As it is you are doomed to latch on to the first 'one' you wear-down sufficiently into accepting your suplicant ways (women respond to suplicant men negatively - you ever notice this? Start paying attention - examples abound) & you will live in fear that she will leave you for the rest of your lives.

Mother nature is cruel & life is perverse.

The ironic fact is that you will probably be better of without her anyway! She only stayed with you to take advantage, because you have proved to her over & over that you are an easy target, her little bitch, & a sucker. :|

I am not being caustic for the hell of it I am trying to wake up your dormant 'male' behaviours - somewhere deep in your DNA you know how to be a man, we have just somehow 'forgotten'. :uhm:

Here's to your awakening. :beer:




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#293 14 years ago
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SupaStarAshI don't have a girlfriend, hell, i have more chance of owning FileFront and the rest of the internet at the moment than i do at getting a girlfriend.[/quote]Evaluating what I perceive to be your current understanding & attitude - then this statement is true. However, is it a limitation you can escape with some insight? YES.[/quote] [COLOR=blue]Maybe so, however I'm not one for confidence, especially when it comes to girls! I just don't know what to say, or how to go about saying anything! I'm known (among my mates) for being pretty funny along with very sarcastic, but they know me, so they usually understand when I'm being sarcastic / funny, and sarcastic / mean - a girl wouldn't know this, thus make think i was asking for trouble![/COLOR]
nameChangedThere is no limit to you having the type of girlfriend(s) you want to have intimate relations with, other than what you are prepared to take on, & I mean specifically in terms of concepts.[/quote] [COLOR=blue]What exactly do you mean? I have to broaden my choices?[/COLOR]
nameChangedThe sad fact is that what matters in the mating game (the urge for companionship between the sexes has one implicit drive & no, its not the need to have arguments over DIY as modern man seems to do! :rolleyes: , what matters has been laid down by definite evolutionary steps that have hard encoded all this behaviour into our genetic make up; it is as inescapable, undeniable & unmistakeable, as your organic make-up (i.e. that you are made of chemicals & not others). ( & at the end of the day you have to realise that what works in inter-sexual relationships will not be susceptible to bargaining, pleas, argument, or reasoning of any kind, no matter how brilliant & compelling).[/quote] [COLOR=blue]I imagine this is an extended way of saying 'you can't choose who you fall in love with'?[/COLOR]
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SupaStarAshGirls (especially around my area) seem to want 'the bad guys' WTF and they can offer them what that good guys can't? Besides illegal drugs and a car that does 120mph on a 30mph limit, nothing!![/quote]Girls & women, any women, yes even your gran once upon a time or even now perhaps, respond to the same cues that generations of human females before then have responded to for millions of years. Bizarrely rather than these cues being second nature to most men they seem to baffle us, me included, however thanks to the insights of those who have more of an affinity with this topic I can now see the imperative forces behind these apparently nonsensical trade-offs & backwards behaviour.[/quote] [COLOR=blue]A little baffling...[/COLOR]
nameChangedOne of the biggest clues is to think this through: ...could someone convince you to find them attractive (if you did not already in the first place in some remote way at all)? In other words, through pleading & fawning could someone make you see them that way - that automatic response you have towards other girls/boys that can be like a bullet in its immediacy & power?[/quote] [COLOR=blue]This i disagree with, one cannot make another attracted to them by any means of force, if you like someone you like them, if you don't they can't 'make you'[/COLOR]
nameChangedIf you think 'yes' [COLOR=red]you need to stop kidding yourself[/COLOR]. This goes for everyone reading this: You know it doesn't work this way, & guess what it never did... so why do you presume that you can convince a girl or anyone else to have these evolutionarily predestined, fundamental feelings towards you?[/quote] [COLOR=blue]The second half to the above point. I never once said that i will, or am trying to make a girl like me! I understand and realize that if someone isn't interested, besides gain a friendship with them, there is nothing more you can do![/COLOR]
nameChangedRemember these are mechanisms underlying behaviours which are powerful & essential. They have a great deal to do with why the human race is so prevalent today. They have everything to do with why you are here today. A bit of half-hearted arguement & teenage angst is not going to bend them to your will. You follow rookies? For your own sakes, & well being I hope all that can, are starting to wake up to this brew of fundamental truth.[/quote] [COLOR=blue]This i don't fully understand...[/COLOR] [quote=nameChanged] [quote=SupaStarAsh]I would like a girlfriend, as others have said, who wouldn't, personally i think i could give a girl everything, and i know that i'd be loyal. get to know me, you'll find out i have some very strong opinions on this topic and topics alike.
Well so you think, but with your state of mind, sadly, for yourself, (& I empathise because I was once as clueless as you are friend), you cannot even begin to imagine the behaviours & signals that girls naturally & inevitably respond to
[COLOR=blue]Behaviors and signals that girls send out, you are correct, i don't understand them at all (probably because lack of them go my way).[/COLOR] [quote=nameChanged]but be shocked by this if you will- it is most likely the opposite of everything you have stated & that you can think it is. Believe. I am not sh*tting you.
[COLOR=blue]So... your saying the feelings we 'think' were getting, are in fact the opposite![/COLOR] [quote=nameChanged] [quote=SupaStarAsh]but, to answer the thread question rather than rant on and change the whole reason for it. No, i don't currently have a girlfriend, yet i would like one.
Once again it is regretable that there is very little physically existant in this world, preventing you from getting precisely the one you want. That goes for everyone else. By that I mean, possessions, physical attributes, fame, etc. are all advantages for some certainly (but not for the reasons most men presume, women are not born gold-diggers), but they are in no way the elements that seal the deal. For those not clear - I am not talking solely of creating one night stands or passionate rushes that last hours - I am talking of forming fundamental relationships with any woman, any age any creed any nationality anywhere; whether the intent is simpel intimacy of a kiss or till death do us part.
[COLOR=blue]I can understand that, however I'm not looking for a celebrity, nor am i looking for a fling / one night stand! In all honesty, i am against those, i believe that you should not sleep with someone else unless in a relationship, and with that you should not be cheating on a current partner, those that do don't deserve the relationship they are in! this is just a personal opinion from my perspective, it's my morals and i guess how i grew up, and who i have connections with have helped me come to these conclusions![/COLOR] [quote=nameChanged]As it is you are doomed to latch on to the first 'one' you wear-down sufficiently into accepting your suplicant ways (women respond to suplicant men negatively - you ever notice this? Start paying attention - examples abound) & you will live in fear that she will leave you for the rest of your lives.
[COLOR=blue]When i get a girlfriend, if she has faith and trust in me, then that shall be given back! I know relationships need trust, I'm not about to get into a relationship and keep the girl housebound![/COLOR] [quote=nameChanged]I am not being caustic for the hell of it I am trying to wake up your dormant 'male' behaviours - somewhere deep in your DNA you know how to be a man, we have just somehow 'forgotten'.
[COLOR=blue]I haven't 'forgotten' i simply haven't had the chance to show that i know![/COLOR] [quote=crzymnky][quote=neonmole]I don't have a girlfriend because I am a girl. :naughty:
that doesn't have to stop you from having a girlfriend.[/color]

[COLOR=blue][COLOR=blue]I think she was trying to tell us she isn't a Lesbian[/COLOR] :p[/COLOR]




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#294 14 years ago
neonmoleI don't have a girlfriend because I am a girl. :naughty:

Amen to that! :D




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#295 14 years ago

Großadmiral DönitzLets not turn this in "show us a photo" thread.

kthxbye

what he said. I might post a couple of pics if this were a different thread.:naughty:




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#296 14 years ago

We have threads enough to post pics in... (Take in mind we also have the spam forum ;))