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Silberio VIP Member

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#1 6 years ago

Well... Let's just put it like this.

First off, this song:

Alright... Let's put it like this:

I'm being ASS FUCKED. Yep, at least it feels like it... A bad fucking feeling, in my fucking chest, going through whole my toraxical cavity and even giving me damn headaches.

I'm sad... Fucken depressed as a baby seal eaten by a horde of shark-zombies... Yeah, fuck everything, FUCK FUCK FUCK again...

Thing is that ya'll know I met a gal, by internet... And she lives outside fucking Stockholm. Her parents, (Who, by the way, don't know a shit of that I exist) are totall anti-internet-meeting kinda people. She's not of legal age, and lot's of shit and blah blah blah. Basically, I built myself up a relationship out of fucking nowhere, while I'm piled up with shit and as I'm getting more fuckin shit over me... I literally want to kill myself... But I do love her; we love each other.

Now, the problem is... What the fuck am I gonna do? I ain't got cash, she cain't come to me.

So, piss... I don't feel like getting another gal, as I am deeply in fucking love.

So... I just want some advice, what the crap I should do in this crappy situation... Ideas?

Thanks in forehand...


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#2 6 years ago

IMHO you can't really fall in love with someone that you've never even met face to face.

You might think you're in love, but seldom are you actually. After meeting, and being together for a while, you might find out that you are completely incompatible.

But hey, It's difficult to make that call when you've provided no details.

If we knew more specifics about the situation then we could better advise you. But with the little information you've provided us there's not much more that we can offer other than a meaningless, "That sucks bro".




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#3 6 years ago

How many kilometers away is she?




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#4 6 years ago

Wether we are or not in love, we've talked about that... So yes, Destroyer, you're pretty much right on that. But I want to try out... Although I am much more naive than what she is, and I have more possibilities to get to where she is than she has to come to me... That's why I want to try out something, as I am actually pretty sure that it could work out; but that's one thing that will be decided if we get to meet.

I don't know how much more details I could give... We both have great feelings for each other, which I believe is what simple mortals call "love"... So yeah, we "are in love" and her parents don't know I exist, we DO want to meet, although she's more realistic (Parent thing and the emotional burden of having to separated again after a while), the distance... Northern Norway, I could get there with less than 2 months of work (About 3000SEK would let me stay a month or so).


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Destroyer25

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#5 6 years ago

So you live in what, Narvik? She's in Stockholm?

Where online did you specifically meet? How long have you guys had mutual feelings for each other?

I assume that you've exchanged pictures?

How old are the two of you?




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#6 6 years ago

Then work for those two months. Work overtime, if you can. If you make the trip and you find you're both in love, then hooray. If not, you've just made enough money for a good vacation.




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#7 6 years ago
Crazy Wolf;5554749Then work for those two months. Work overtime, if you can. If you make the trip and you find you're both in love, then hooray. If not, you've just made enough money for a good vacation.

I like this solution. Also, get drunk.




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#8 6 years ago

You may want to think about how much you really want to change your life on a girl you never met, and lives in a different country.

BTW, no swearing in thread titles




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#9 6 years ago

No one changed it, no one cares; apparently it'd also be a crime if he did anything with her, considering he said she wasn't of legal age.




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#10 6 years ago

Sorry... It was late, I was half-depressed and stuff... I actually regret a little the making of this thread...

Anyhow, yes, it'd be a crime if I had sex or something with here in those countries (I'm the one in Sweden, BTW), but in a few months, she'd be in "age of consent" or that, so it'd be perfectly legal for me to "do something with her", although that is not my intention really... Strange enough, sex is not my current priority =p

But yes, I think Crazy Wolf's got the right idea... It'd be a nice vacation on a new place anyway... Lot's of Nordic Beer also...

And it ain't much change on my life... I've been planing on visiting all the Nordic countries anyway... Why not spend vacations on her only instead? That if it works, of course.


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