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#1 11 years ago

As a whole not in analysis of an individuall person how do fair do people treat you in life?

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ? B. How much do they trust you ? C. How descent is your relationships with people? D. How often are you back stabed...

misunderstood...etc etc etc.

My family calls me a dumb fock , I dont think that it is too fair.




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#2 11 years ago
briankory;3540205My family calls me a dumb fock , I dont think that it is too fair.

That's not fair at all. If it's any consolation, I actually think you're quite intelligent and good in discussions.

My family acknowledges that I am smart, having a 4.0 GPA. Occasionally my mother will still call me a moron when I do something stupid, but that's just part of life. It happens to everyone. I think I am generally treated well enough, although I do wish my mother would learn to not be so controlling. I know she does it for my own good, but it'd be nice if she stepped off a bit.

The trust issue is a mixed one. My family doesn't trust me any more than they really need to, but they have good reason. I've done some dishonest stuff in past years, though I am better with it nowadays. My friends and other people trust me very much, though, and I hold true to them as much as I can.

My relationships with other people tend to go smoothly. I am friendly by nature and get along easily with most people. Romantic relationships tend to be another story. My first two ended pretty quickly. The first was on good terms, at least, though I still don't talk to the second girl. And the third one...well, you know how that one went.

I don't think I get backstabbed very often, and when I do, I just take it as a sign that whoever did it is really not worth my time. I move on.




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#3 11 years ago

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ?

My family believes I am smarter than I think I am. They also say I am great at writing and drawing, but I think they are just being nice, because I know I am not that good at either. =P

B. How much do they trust you ?

I think they totally trust me. However, I am just really good at lying.

C. How descent is your relationships with people?

I've got a few really good friends and a bunch of other friends which I talk to when I see them but never spend much time with.

D. How often are you back stabed...

Never.




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#4 11 years ago

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ? I let my tests speak for me. And for people who don't know me, I'd say people think I'm a really 'good boy, good grades' kind of kid. But hey, first impressions are where its at so let them think that.

B. How much do they trust you ? With their lives. Seriously, I don't screw around, am Catholic and corteous, thats trsut from all Poles and anyone else.

C. How descent is your relationships with people? Close but never attached. People know I'm a lax guy.

D. How often are you back stabed... I'm not to be honest, I give respect, I get respect back.




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#5 11 years ago

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ? It varies. Some tell me I'm really smart a lot, but a few people only judge me by comparison. e.g., "Yeah, you're kinda smart, but Blair is a lot smarter. I mean, you have to admit that, you're kind of an idiot next to her." As a general rule, though, I think I usually get praise where I deserve it.

B. How much do they trust you ? As much as they should, I guess. People tell me I'm easy to talk to, and a lot of my friends confide in me with...everything. In fact, I'm pretty sure that's my only use for a lot of my friends.

C. How descent is your relationships with people? I have issues with getting close to people, and a lot of times I'm usually just the "back-up" friend, you know, the one you call when your real friends cancel plans with you.

D. How often are you back stabed... A lot. Seriously, I can't count how many times I've started to become good friends with someone, then I start hearing that they're talking behind my back about hating me and shit. Then the next day they're complete dicks to me. That's life I guess.




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#6 11 years ago

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ?

[INDENT]They think it's as a result of being taught at home.[/INDENT]

B. How much do they trust you ?

[INDENT]More than they should, not as much as I'd like.[/INDENT]

C. How descent is your relationships with people?

[INDENT]We get along alright, go out for a few drinks sometimes, talk about stuff. It tends to be alright.[/INDENT]

D. How often are you back stabed...

[INDENT]Once or twice.[/INDENT]




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#7 11 years ago

First things first: Life isn't fair, life sucks, respect is earned not given, get over it. I think if you can accept those things in life, you'll prove them otherwise.

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ? It's usually up to the individual when they try and judge my intelligence. According to a few people I am quite a brilliant individual and according to others I'm a complete dumbass. Intelligence, on a whole, is a very tough thing to determine since the knowledge and know-how is purely individual; we all know and understand certain information and wisdom that other people in this world cannot understand. B. How much do they trust you ?

I would hope that everyone in life isn't someone who trusts a person as soon as they meet them. Trust has to be earned over time, not given; trust is just like respect and if you screw it up respect/trust is a very difficult thing to earn back.

C. How descent is your relationships with people?

The relationships that I do hold, and are tried 'n true, last a lifetime. Personally, if you manage to disrespect me I usually will never talk to you ever ever again. I don't think it's worth my time and sanity playing stupid, emotional mind games.

D. How often are you back stabbed... I've been truly backstabbed once in life by two good friends. It's a stupid, long story, but like I just said, I cut off any and all contact with those who play the dumb emotional bullsh*t with life. For me, it comes easy and I know for others it is very hard to not say a word to who was their best friend.

My Philosophy in life: When it comes to being treated fair, being trusted, and getting stabbed in the back: -I listen to what Buddha said: "Hold everything in life with loose fingers."

-I don't expect everyone to understand me,

-I don't expect things in life to remain constant,

-I do realize that things in life come and go whether they be people or objects,

-the only fair thing in life is its unfairness,

-"he who expects nothing will never be disapointed (Jesus),"

-"Those friends thy have, and their mettle be tried and true, bind them to thine heart with hoops of steel (Shakespeare),"

-Life does suck and once you accept that, then you can start to enjoy it,

-Wisdom cannot be taught, only learned

-theres a quote for everything LOL




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#8 11 years ago

Note: I try not to give a crap about what others thing about me. Even though its hard to do at times.

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ?

I can never tell the difference between an honest positive assessment of my ideas or a play on my ego. I come from a family that doesn't say what they mean, so i'm always suspicious about what people tell me.

B. How much do they trust you?

Friends and family trust me. I do what i can to help my friends and family up to that point in which they either take me for granted or try and take advantage of my good nature.

C. How descent is your relationships with people?

Not very. I have only two people i would call friends in this world. They understand my like few others including my family could ever understand me. It's a rare thing for me to come across someone who i can understand and they can do the same to me.

D. How often are you back stabbed...

Not often. But i do get slapped in the face every once in awhile. Metaphorically speaking of course. Because of this i have trouble trusting people.




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#9 11 years ago

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ? Very well. However, that is not a good thing, people seem to think that intelligence is a bad thing. Losers.

B. How much do they trust you ? Moderately. They won't tell me their greatest secrets, but people do tell me things here and there.

C. How descent is your relationships with people? Friendship? Well, my friends can be mean and hurtful, but I know they don't mean it. We always make up.

Love-related? I always make them serious. I don't believe in fooling around.

D. How often are you back stabed... Occasionally.




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#10 11 years ago

A. How well do they account for your intelligence ? Generally well, although there was this kid I met in a competetion in 9th grade who pretty much tought he was a god and looked down on everyone else, including me. Nobody liked him though... My family hasn't made a hassle about it, but then intelligence seems to be a family trait. (My poor little sister has a lot to live up to with her teachers reminding her about us older siblings... :( )

B. How much do they trust you? More than a dictionary and safe combined? :p Nah, I have a habit of forgetting things, but other than that I can't recall having problem with people not trusting me.

C. How descent is your relationships with people? It could be better, I don't have many really close friends, but at least I know I can trust those I have, and I still have a decently big network of people I know would help me if I needed it.

D. How often are you back stabbed... Actually I can't remember that happening to me, I think backstabbing is more of a female thing anyway.




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