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KoЯsakoff

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#1 12 years ago

I just saw this movie on the tv, and it was about a 15 year old boy becoming a father. Maybe you seen it too, Too young to be a father. It's suppose to be a true story.

Well I would just freak out if I heard now that my girl was going to have a baby. And I'm nearly 20. Let alone if I was 15 and heard it. I can't imagine my life with a little boy/girl coming. Everything would be sooo different. No more the freedom of going out, having fun (well atleast for several years).

But then again, they say the greatest gift in life is a child. Can't say that I know how it feels, but it just feels great to be free and all.

How are your thoughts about this and at what age do you want to have your kids? (Mine would be around 28/30)




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#2 12 years ago

Same here. You're only young once ;). Ofcourse I want a kid or two sometime, but there's no way I'm gonna be a father before 25.

PS: IMO around 30 is the best age for kids.




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#3 12 years ago

A child is only a gift if you are prepared to be a parent. Ask my brother.




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#4 12 years ago

I would freak, if I got one now, seriously.




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#5 12 years ago

Children can be great but only when you really wanted them and can support them. Even if you would desire a child at the age of 15 then it wouldn't be a wise choice seeing you will have hard time maintaining it (you will need to get a job, this however will mean the end of your education).

If I would get one now I would freak out , be mad and cry. I can't support neither desire a kid in this point in time. Depending on what the mother would think I would go for abortion (prefered), adoption (if the mother doesn't want an abortion) or raise it regardless with all the care in the world I can give (when the mother wishes to keep the child). However that is a BIG if since I won't have sex with a woman without knowing her and it will be done with condems and the pill in the beginning when I finally do get a relationship with a girl.




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#6 12 years ago

at 25, to have kids for me would have been great, by the time I'd be 45 he'd be an adult and I could finaly get over with life cause by 45(I hope) I'll be dead.




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#7 12 years ago

I would maybe be a father at 27 or so. I would'nt be posting here if I had one because my life would be screwed. :eek:




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#8 12 years ago

27? When the kid's 30 you'd already almost be 60 :lol:

I'd at least get a college education before starting a family. That's my plan. Besides, I'm too busy with school to have a serious relationship :p




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#9 12 years ago

Well I'd like to finish my education before thinking about children. But the first few years at work will take even more of my time than studying at university. Society doesn't seem to want anybody to have children.

When I see men or women pushing a pram with an expression as if they want to start a fight and talking to their babies with an icy cold voice I don't really want to be a father until I don't have to worry about work or university.




KoЯsakoff

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#10 12 years ago

Inyri ForgeA child is only a gift if you are prepared to be a parent. Ask my brother.[/QUOTE]

How old is he?

Großadmiral DönitzChildren can be great but only when you really wanted them and can support them. Even if you would desire a child at the age of 15 then it wouldn't be a wise choice seeing you will have hard time maintaining it (you will need to get a job, this however will mean the end of your education).

If I would get one now I would freak out , be mad and cry. I can't support neither desire a kid in this point in time. Depending on what the mother would think I would go for abortion (prefered), adoption (if the mother doesn't want an abortion) or raise it regardless with all the care in the world I can give (when the mother wishes to keep the child). However that is a BIG if since I won't have sex with a woman without knowing her and it will be done with condems and the pill in the beginning when I finally do get a relationship with a girl.[/QUOTE] Donutz, I don't mean to be rude, but I didn't really ment to include you :p /me runs at topspeed away from donutz :p Good post btw.. (As usual :uhm: )

Sicariusat 25, to have kids for me would have been great, by the time I'd be 45 he'd be an adult and I could finaly get over with life cause by 45(I hope) I'll be dead.

Not really a bright view on life there dude..

[QUOTE=Inyri Forge]27? When the kid's 30 you'd already almost be 60 :lol:

What's so funny about that? I think thats pretty normal.. [QUOTE=Inyri Forge]I'd at least get a college education before starting a family. That's my plan. Besides, I'm too busy with school to have a serious relationship :p

Good choise, except for one part. You never know who you might fall in love with..