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Liquid fire

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#1 10 years ago

I am growing sick of living at home. My parents drive me crazy sometimes without even trying.I hate how they tell me to spend my money, how they threaten me. I am so sick and tired of not being my own person and being their bitch .

I am not rebellious or anything but living under their roof is getting real old, and real fast. I am sick of it even when they try to help me do things in life. Such as filling out applications. I am sick of even the basics, how they preach morales , and right and wrong.

I am just plain sick of it. I like my room , sort of. I guess that I like living here but as of recent I am desperate for change. I am desperate to be outside more doing things than I am being home. I am sick of this place.

They keep complaining so much that I feel like riding my bike around instead of using the car that they provide me with.




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#2 10 years ago

A child getting sick of their parents?? STOP THE PRESSES!!!!!

This is called life, everyone goes through it.


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#3 10 years ago

How old are you?

What you say sounds completely normal, once you reach a certain age, you just don't want to live with "mom and dad" anymore.

If you have a decent job, and really want out of the house, maybe consider looking for a apartment? But then you have to remember, you really are on your own then. The bills, food, car, and every other expense is all up to you to pay.




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#4 10 years ago

Liquid fire;4355084I am growing sick of living at home. My parents drive me crazy sometimes without even trying.I hate how they tell me to spend my money, how they threaten me. I am so sick and tired of not being my own person and being their bitch .

I am not rebellious or anything but living under their roof is getting real old, and real fast. I am sick of it even when they try to help me do things in life. Such as filling out applications. I am sick of even the basics, how they preach morales , and right and wrong.

I am just plain sick of it. I like my room , sort of. I guess that I like living here but as of recent I am desperate for change. I am desperate to be outside more doing things than I am being home. I am sick of this place.

They keep complaining so much that I feel like riding my bike around instead of using the car that they provide me with.

Yeah, everyone feels like that at one point, it's the sign that it's time to leave home. Hopefully you'll look more kindly upon your time with them after a few years on your own, though.




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#5 10 years ago

Liquid fire;4355084I am growing sick of living at home. My parents drive me crazy sometimes without even trying.I hate how they tell me to spend my money, how they threaten me. I am so sick and tired of not being my own person and being their bitch .

I am not rebellious or anything but living under their roof is getting real old, and real fast. I am sick of it even when they try to help me do things in life. Such as filling out applications. I am sick of even the basics, how they preach morales , and right and wrong.

I am just plain sick of it. I like my room , sort of. I guess that I like living here but as of recent I am desperate for change. I am desperate to be outside more doing things than I am being home. I am sick of this place.

They keep complaining so much that I feel like riding my bike around instead of using the car that they provide me with.

Grow up and move out.




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#6 10 years ago
I am growing sick of living at home.

This is normal depending on your age. This starts between the ages of 13 and 18 in my opinion. I don't have this kind of problem at home.

My parents drive me crazy sometimes without even trying.I hate how they tell me to spend my money, how they threaten me. I am so sick and tired of not being my own person and being their bitch.

Depending on your age, I think that it is a good idea that they make you spend your money. When you get older and move out you will have to rely on yourself not your parents. You will have to make decisions on what to buy and what not to buy. Don't be their b***h. Try talking to them about your problem and maybe they will understand.

I am not rebellious or anything but living under their roof is getting real old, and real fast. I am sick of it even when they try to help me do things in life. Such as filling out applications. I am sick of even the basics, how they preach morales , and right and wrong.

Honestly, I think that you are lucky to live under their roof. I mean, where else would you live? Its better living inside, than outside. I bet the reason they help you do things such as fill out applications, and even preach morals is to prepare you for life. Trust me, once you get older you will thank them for they have done for you! They tell you the right from wrong so that you don't make mistakes in life that they might have done or seen.

I am just plain sick of it. I like my room , sort of. I guess that I like living here but as of recent I am desperate for change. I am desperate to be outside more doing things than I am being home. I am sick of this place.

If you are having problems, than don't spend time inside of the house. Try joining a sport at your school, or finding some type of after school activity like boxing, gym, or even a job(if you don't have one). You can do a lot of things outside than you can do on the inside. Yes, you might be sick of that place because you probably spend most of your time inside of the house. To be honest, I do the same! I come back from school, do homework, go outside play some sports with friends like basketball or just hang out and come back home around 7 and use the computer until I go to sleep.

They keep complaining so much that I feel like riding my bike around instead of using the car that they provide me with.

Sounds like you are 16 or 17, correct? Parents do this, and they will complain about the car. I have a lot of friends that have their license but the parents complain about the car because they want them to be responsible when they are older, and only use the car when they need too.

I am only a teenager, but I think I have a pretty good understanding of parents and how to avoid problems. Hope you respond and tell me if any of this helped you! Good luck, and hopefully you can fix your problems.




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#7 10 years ago

To be honest I am almost 21. I am a social misfit . I had a long talk with my mother. She told me that she wanted time away from her parents sometimes too. How they would argue too , and her parents always were right anyways. She is smart, I am just sort of tired being held back, and holding myself back. Socially I am still very young, I am growing up a bit slower because I slacked hard core when I was supposed to be growing up in the first place.

My house is ok , both my colleges are close by so I am staying at home as I attend both. Sometimes I just seem to want, need a break.




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#8 10 years ago

[COLOR=Teal]Well, you finished high school right? Why not go on to college? That should take you away from your parents. Since you are over 18, your considered an adult. I would just take out a student loan, and go to college. Unless thats not the direction you are aiming for.[/COLOR]




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#9 10 years ago

Thanks for the advice. I'll be alright. I just make these topics time to time . I like to meet friendly people. Thanks for the help its appreciated.

I was just wondering if feeling resentment towards your parents was a natural process when growing up and trying to be your own person. It apparently is. I love my parents but sometimes I want a break, that's all.




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#10 10 years ago

I think if this is happening at 21 it is time to move out. Do it.