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#51 7 years ago
LustyxChan;5609663I use to have the same problem. Men use to always mistake my kindness for flirting.. It got a little annoying after awhile. Just because I was nice, didn't mean I was attracted to them v.v
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#52 7 years ago

Obankobi;5609625I'm trying to hint strongly that I'm not interested, but it's not going well.[/QUOTE]Whilst I've got absolutely no experience in this matter, I'd have thought it more obvious to simply tell the girl you don't fancy the truth straight up. She might not thank you for it, but at least she'll know, and you'll have quit with the hints.

Hints are good and all, but some people are oblivious to them. You might as well just be up front about it.

Obankobi;5609636Also, the immediate crisis is resolved. But I just wanna find love, darnit! [/whining][/QUOTE]With respect, a lot of people want to find love (I do myself) but I don't think it's something that you can necessarily find. For some people (potentially you, me and others) it's more likely to find us.

Whining about it on a gaming forum isn't going to help your cause. ;)

Ryojin;5609639It's quite lonely being the kind of person who tries to not be in relationships, but on the other hand, you don't have all the bullshit drama either.[/QUOTE]You try not to get in relationships? :Puzzled: I think I'd rather be in one than out of one, if nothing else, than for the experience.

That being said, I'd hate to be under the thumb as it's sometimes known. My brother is second to his girlfriend, my dad is second to my mum, and those friends that I have who are in relationships; it's the same. The women essentially control everything, and the guys follow their every rule like a new born puppy. I don't think I could do that. I like my freedom too much, I like being able to do what I want to do when I want to do it, not wanting to ask permission ect.

Obankobi;5609659Hinting was gentler, and it worked fine.[/QUOTE]Initially it didn't, else you wouldn't have made your initial post. =p

[QUOTE=LustyxChan;5609663]I use to have the same problem. Men use to always mistake my kindness for flirting.. It got a little annoying after awhile. Just because I was nice, didn't mean I was attracted to them v.v

Heh, I have two friends like this (both guys). The minute a woman talks to them, they are (in their own minds) in. :rolleyes:

[QUOTE=computernerd;5610249]lol, don't worry guys, we're really quite small in the grand scheme of things

This could be interpreted in a variety of ways.

[QUOTE=Granyaski;5610429]You don't have to be attractive to pull. All about confidence mate.

With respect, I don't know what it's like where you live (obviously quite different) but here, seems to be in contradiction to what you've just posted. I'd agree confidence is a key, but that's only going to get you so far.

[QUOTE=Granyaski;5610429]After my ex I don't get romantically involved and cut myself off if I start to. Not worth the hassle plus I'm 19. I want to go out and party, get my career started, sleep with 3 girls in one night- that sort of thing.

You know that somewhere down the line you're going to develop strong feelings for another girl, don't you? :nodding:

Suffice to say, those of you who seem like your in a slight emotional state because of your singleness... Grab your balls (not too hard mind) and man the fuck up. I've been single (by single, I mean no one-night stands or casual sex either) for near 25 years now, and I'm not moaning about it.

Your time will come. Different lifestyles lead to different choices, such is the reason that some people get plenty, whilst others get little. If you're lucky enough to live on the coast and to know some rich people, you'll likely get invited to one of those wild house parties or something. If you live in the middle of nowhere, then quite simply, you don't have that luxury.

The way I see it, you've got two choices. Either you stick with what you've got and make the most of it, or you change your position and do something about it. :)




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#53 7 years ago

My man says he "loves me", "your the love of my life"...blah blah. But...? Laser pointer




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#54 7 years ago

hooksindo;5610810[B]My man says he "loves me", "your the love of my life"...blah blah. But...?

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This is probably going to be the best post of 2012. Laser point just makes the cake.




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#55 7 years ago

I'm going to reply to on random part of aerilon's post.

WHINE WHINE WHINE

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#56 7 years ago
Aerilon;5610798 You try not to get in relationships? :Puzzled: I think I'd rather be in one than out of one, if nothing else, than for the experience.

It isn't like I've never been in a relationship before... It's just not something that I need in my life right now.


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#57 7 years ago
Aerilon With respect, I don't know what it's like where you live (obviously quite different) but here, seems to be in contradiction to what you've just posted. I'd agree confidence is a key, but that's only going to get you so far.

Well I was born in high Wycombe and have lived in Norfolk for a good part of 11 years. When I visit Wycombe theres always guys who aren't attractive who pull girls way out of their league, hell even I pull sometimes when I go down there. When I visit my dad in Gerrard's Cross and have nights out in London the same shit happens.

I don't believe location plays a part, people are people and people are drawn by confidence.

You know that somewhere down the line you're going to develop strong feelings for another girl, don't you? :nodding:

Haha; never again!




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#58 7 years ago

I think location plays a part, but those locations are all in UK aren't they? I've never heard of Wycombe so I'm not sure. But different cultures respond to different things, confidence is good, but you also need to know what you're being confident about, and what to say when speaking to someone from a different area. =p




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#59 7 years ago
Einherjar Silberio;5609743I depend on someone to feel good, if I'm alone, I'm a big fucking pussy-ass emotional disaster.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Granyaski;5609761]Yeah I'm a bit like that, I'm not a fan of relationships but like having a girl to just compliment me and obviously sexy times.

High five, comrades.

I'm exactly like that myself. I've decided I don't want to do relationships but DO want to have someone around to kiss, cuddle and fuck. I know, right, I'm a complicated son of a bitch and a damn selfish one at that. Deal with it.




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#60 7 years ago

Obankobi;5610841I'm going to reply to on random part of aerilon's post.

WHINE WHINE WHINE[/QUOTE]:doh:

Ryojin;5610852It isn't like I've never been in a relationship before... It's just not something that I need in my life right now.[/QUOTE]Fair enough. I can understand that.

[QUOTE=Granyaski;5611027]I don't believe location plays a part, people are people and people are drawn by confidence.

Again though, confidence is only going to work with some people. Whilst touching on a different part of the argument here, say you (or someone else) set your sight on a girl who doesn't agree with one night stands, no matter how confident you are, you're never going to accomplish your goal. :)

[QUOTE=EdgeOfSanity;5611096]I've decided I don't want to do relationships but DO want to have someone around to kiss, cuddle and fuck. I know, right, I'm a complicated son of a bitch and a damn selfish one at that. Deal with it.

Least you're honest about it. :)