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#1 11 years ago

Well, today, I decided if I was going to tell this girl about how I feel for her, then today would be the day. Doing it on Valentines Day would be arkward if she rejected me or anything, and after would have been just as worse. So I settled on today. Now, I needed a way of telling her how much I like her but do it so she'd remember it. And what better way, than this?

BeMyValentine

Did it pay off?

Yeah.

Has she revealed her feelings for me?

Kinda.

Now, bear in mind, I've never actually properly met this girl. We've been speaking online for around a year now, and we've seen each other in town now and then. Other than that, nothing. We both said we're really good friends, but I've always had a little 'thing' for her. And now she knows. But, suprisingly, she said something tonight which might mean she has feelings for me too:

Charley says: I think from that it's obvious you have stronger feelings than me but.... Charley says: there's something about you that intrigues me (if that's how you spell it) And that's honestly true 'cos if it wasn't then I would've just blocked you when you were pissing me off at times. Charley says: I don't know. See, you can put it into words, and I just can't. [NG] Holocaust | Infinity On High... says: Do you mean, there's something about me that stands out to you? Charley says: You're different, in a way that I've never known before and it makes me want to keep talking to you. But I don't know what it is. Now call me a retard if you will, but what does that mean?

Does she have feelings for me or what?




Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

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#2 11 years ago

I think that she is shocked. She is shocked and she dsn't know what to say or do and how she feels. She has just read that lil message thingy site that you went and created there and she is suprised and shocked about how you feel for her.

Give her time. Don't expect an immediate answer. Give her some time to think about it and let her come to you this time.




Free

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#3 11 years ago

From what I read in the pork' s internal organs I am guessing two things: 1) this " insufficient space on C:" I am getting is pissing me off. 2) she is not sure about her feelings for you.

Bloody hell, I am going to bite C: if that message doesn' t stop! I am deleting something, just hold on a sec! I don' t care if you have the main software, I swear I am going to but you and I am going to throw your electro-magnetic dead body in a bloody river if you don' t stop annoying me with the insuffient space message! AAAAAHR!

EDIT: yeah, she is not sure. Give her time to think about it.




Sunray

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#4 11 years ago

Agreed. Don't press the point for a while and leave it out of conversation. Nothing is worse than being pestered by someone you don't know if you like. I do think that you should actually meet her properly though. Seeing each other in town every now and again. Is that really enough to really know? Maybe. But still talk to her properly in person first. As for the Valantines day thing. I really don't know. I think only you can decide that. Advice can be given, but it is really your decision. If you feel that you would risk it for her, yes. If you are still not sure probably not. It is your choice. Good luck with it whatever though.




Liquid fire

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#5 11 years ago
Federiker;3530298I am going to throw your electro-magnetic dead body .

Wait, what do you mean by electro-magnetic dead body ?




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#6 11 years ago

What I'm about to say will make no sense. I've gone over it plenty of times in my head, and it just doesn't sound right. But I'm going to say it anyway. I'm falling for you. Call me weird, or anything else but that won't stop me feeling the way I do. It's not the sort of love that married people share. But a love that is so strong - that you feel so good about - and it's killing me that I can't see you right now, especially on the special event that is Valentines Day. I know so much about you, and you know quite a lot about me. I want to take it to the next level. We might have only known each other eight months; but personally I feel that's a life time. I've had many emotional reactions about you, but the present state of mind is the best - I'm falling for you, and I can't explain why. I liked you right from the start - we practically clicked immediately. Something about you just felt right and it still does. I don't know why but I feel like you're the only person I wanna spend time with. One second, one minute, one day - or one lifetime. Either will do me fine as long as I'm with you. You're constantly on my mind, and that's the way I like it. I can't explain this feeling. It's the most retarded thing I've ever said or done, and you probably feel the same. But like I said, I won't change my mind. One way or another, I want to spend time with you and I want to do it soon.

I think I love you.

I would have probably removed the underlined portions and just left this:

What I'm about to say will make no sense. I've gone over it plenty of times in my head, and it just doesn't sound right. But I'm going to say it anyway. I'm falling for you. I know so much about you, and you know quite a lot about me. I liked you right from the start - we practically clicked immediately. Something about you just felt right and it still does. One way or another, I want to spend time with you and I want to do it soon.

I think I love you.

That'd be a little less tense, and make it a little easier to absorb for her (considering that conversation in which she stated you stronger feelings than her)while still making the point clear that she is very special to you. But, it's been done, so now you wait for her definitive response. No matter what, do not send more messages or contact her and try to revise or explain what you wrote. If you are talking to her, don't talk about that message at all until she brings it up.




RedDevilXLT

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#7 11 years ago

^ agreed but hind sight is always 20/20. from personal experience, blurting out that you love someone right away without ever dating usually ends up in a "let's be friends" dealy...that usually ends up being awkward.

from what she typed, I'd think she's a little confused and wondering what to do or say herself. I wouldn't hound her for an explanation but give her time to decide what she means and what she wants to do/say.




Eogcloud

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#8 11 years ago

Agreed. Give her time. you don't want to suffocate her with it. but who am I to give advice?? :D




Lukeh

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#9 11 years ago

Just don't push it too much or she'll think you're totally obsessed or something. Girls generally don't go for that.




Eogcloud

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#10 11 years ago
Lukeh;3530650Just don't push it too much or she'll think you're totally obsessed or something. Girls generally don't go for that.

the ones who DO are the ones you REALLY wanna avoid... :lol: