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Liquid fire

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#1 10 years ago

What do you do when you have a college class with your old crush, and she now has a baby and a serious BF/ Husband who is way buffer than you ...

I know that one of the things you may do is feel like crap about it.

All I can think of is her thinking that I am a looser, or something , or how much happier she is with another guy.

Hell, I'll just move on . I guess this is good for me. It would be easier if I did not have to watch her move on with her life...




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#2 10 years ago

If she thinks you're a looser, it's her own problem, since that means she's too blind by her own popularity to care about other people. In which case i feel most sorry for the guy she found.




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#3 10 years ago

Do you look for reasons to whine about your life? Seriously this is like 7th grade shit.




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#4 10 years ago

Vertical345;4778447Do you look for reasons to whine about your life? Seriously this is like 7th grade shit.[/quote]

My life may be relatively simple to you, but this girl is the same girl who I had a crush for over 6-7 years of my life. I was in love, ever been there yet?

This kind of stuff could hurt anyone, even a 100 year old man. Ask any real man, about women, and he will tell you that there is the one woman he will never forget. Maybe if he is drunk, but most guys have that woman in their lives.

[quote=Serio;4778446]If she thinks you're a looser, it's her own problem, since that means she's too blind by her own popularity to care about other people. In which case i feel most sorry for the guy she found.

I guess you're right it wouldn't be too mature of her, but having blown her off, and turning her down, may of have rightfully left spite in her heart. Guess I have to live with it, its just not cool trying to move on with my life like a man, but having to watch her move on with hers too.




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#5 10 years ago

Liquid fire;4778440What do you do when you have a college class with your old crush, and she now has a baby and a serious BF/ Husband who is way buffer than you ...

I know that one of the things you may do is feel like crap about it.

All I can think of is her thinking that I am a looser, or something , or how much happier she is with another guy.

Hell, I'll just move on . I guess this is good for me. It would be easier if I did not have to watch her move on with her life...

all you have to remember is that the dumb ass that got her pregnant now has a baby to pay for. you don't. you don't want a baby.. do you?




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#6 10 years ago

You had a "crush" on someone for 7 years? That is borderline stalker material.

What advice are you really looking for here anyway? You already know what people will say anyway. Don't let it get to you...there are more fish in the sea...it was her loss...life is hard sometimes...you will soon meet a girl that will make you forget her...etc.




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#7 10 years ago

Snozzlefeet;4778450all you have to remember is that the dumb ass that got her pregnant now has a baby to pay for. you don't. you don't want a baby.. do you?[/quote]

No, I don't , haha , strangely this makes me feel better already. I can pick up easily though. There really is an up side to everything.

[quote=Vertical345;4778454]You had a "crush" on someone for 7 years? That is borderline stalker material.

What advice are you really looking for here anyway? You already know what people will say anyway. Don't let it get to you...there are more fish in the sea...it was her loss...life is hard sometimes...you will soon meet a girl that will make you forget her...etc.

Certain women can make a guy weak, its not every day I run to make emo threads. I agree with you though, guess its time to try to grow up a little more again.




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#8 10 years ago
Liquid fire;4778455 I agree with you though, guess its time to try to grow up a little more again.

That's the spirit! See we are making huge progress!




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#9 10 years ago

If she was your 'crush', then why are you getting so worked up over it? It's not like you went out with her or anything. She was just some girl you ogled, and now she's got a kid and a man. What's the big deal?




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#10 10 years ago
Rogue Nine;4778457If she was your 'crush', then why are you getting so worked up over it? It's not like you went out with her or anything. She was just some girl you ogled, and now she's got a kid and a man. What's the big deal?

Forget it , problem solved. Later guys, take care of yourselves, don't let stupid shit like this get you down.