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Covin Narcissus

Love is all.

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#21 10 years ago

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Liquid fire;4778440What do you do when you have a college class with your old crush, and she now has a baby and a serious BF/ Husband who is way buffer than you ...

I know that one of the things you may do is feel like crap about it.

All I can think of is her thinking that I am a looser, or something , or how much happier she is with another guy.

Hell, I'll just move on . I guess this is good for me. It would be easier if I did not have to watch her move on with her life...

She has a husband AND a boyfriend? I'd jump on that bitch quick, shewt.[/SIZE]




Gir_teh_Almighteh

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#22 10 years ago

headbutting, is the cure for this problem.




Death_Korp_Of_KRIEG

Radiation is good.............

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#23 10 years ago

Liquid fire;4778440What do you do when you have a college class with your old crush, and she now has a baby and a serious BF/ Husband who is way buffer than you ...

I know that one of the things you may do is feel like crap about it.

All I can think of is her thinking that I am a looser, or something , or how much happier she is with another guy.

Hell, I'll just move on . I guess this is good for me. It would be easier if I did not have to watch her move on with her life...

fuck man i havnt read any other posts in this thread so i dont care if its been said or what not. but grow the fuck up dude. all i ever see from you is threads about how crap your life is or how your trying to change, stop living in the fucking shadows of every other cunt and be you. Dont live your life in denile, dont live your life in jealousy if your going to make a change fucking make it. We are the internet we have no feelings towards you, so stop looking to us for help, so stop trying to make us feel sad for you because of your life troubles, im sorry for being rude but its true. all you do is bitch and complain, you got to fucken stand up for yourself and be who you wnat to be, do what you want to do and live your life the way you want to.

god damn.




random_soldier1337

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#24 10 years ago
Liquid fire;4778440What do you do when you have a college class with your old crush, and she now has a baby and a serious BF/ Husband who is way buffer than you ... I know that one of the things you may do is feel like crap about it. All I can think of is her thinking that I am a looser, or something , or how much happier she is with another guy. Hell, I'll just move on . I guess this is good for me. It would be easier if I did not have to watch her move on with her life...[/quote] No, really? C'mon, how long are you going to keep this up? Enough is enough. Deal with it. She's gone her way and you've gone your way. And for that matter, why the hell is she even in college if she has a baby and a husband? She should be a housewive at this point. You have to learn to suck it up and move on. No point in crying over spilled milk. I don't even know why you expect all this in college. Wait till you get a job and settle down. At least you know you'll be able to handle the responsibility at that point.
Liquid fire;4778449My life may be relatively simple to you, but this girl is the same girl who I had a crush for over 6-7 years of my life. I was in love, ever been there yet? This kind of stuff could hurt anyone, even a 100 year old man. Ask any real man, about women, and he will tell you that there is the one woman he will never forget. Maybe if he is drunk, but most guys have that woman in their lives.[/quote] Search in yourself and actually think about it. Do you really even like her after all this time even though you haven't really even talked to her or anything? I think all of us have been through that "special woman/man (if one is a woman)" stage. However, if you think about it, you realize that you don't really care. It's all just a dream. One time you wake up and you find out that it was nothing but a fantasy in vain and a foolish thought. At least you should if you are to survive.
Liquid fire;4778449I guess you're right it wouldn't be too mature of her, but having blown her off, and turning her down, may of have rightfully left spite in her heart. Guess I have to live with it, its just not cool trying to move on with my life like a man, but having to watch her move on with hers too.
Why did you do that in the first place, if you "loved her so"?? I swear, if you had the opportunity in your hands then you should have seized it. Too bad you didn't. Live with it. It's not doing anybody good, especially yourself being emo and going around moping. [quote=Liquid fire;4778455]Certain women can make a guy weak, its not every day I run to make emo threads. I agree with you though, guess its time to try to grow up a little more again.
No. One makes themself weak. I don't know why men are caught up in the notion that they need to do this and that to have that "special" someone to like them. For all you know that girl could be a total biatch and then all you would have done would be for nothing. You should actually get to know the person rather than "fall in love at first site". If they get to know you as well, then they should like you for who you are, not for what you do. Even then, I doubt anyone can truly be trusted, even if you get to know them well enough. Anyone can change just like that. Oh and it's not everytime we make a thread that it's emo much less even make one everyday. [quote=Sh0wdowN;4778509]To be fair, he has a point. It is a bit rough when you actually like someone and they move on with someone else, and especially when you see them enjoying themselves without you there. But, yeah, the only thing you can do, really, is to wait it out. You'll probably never stop caring about her, but at least hearin' 'bout her won't mess ya up eventually, and you'll be able to move on. Don't rush things, or go looking for someone else to pour your feelings into, 'cause things like that aren't meant to be rushed. Seize the opportunity should it come around, but don't go out of your way. Just do the regular routines of your life, keep yourself busy, and don't submerge yourself in endless trains of thought - they lead nowhere good. He's buff? Who cares, you start doing something, because you saying that just reeks of a lacking self-esteem. Take up a martial art or start proper weight training, as it's obviously something you'd want, and you'd be happier with yourself that way. Besides, it's a good way to fill your schedule.

You... showing sympathy... especially to Liquid Fire? Wonder what's up with everything? And since when did you care about being fair and offering advice? Not that you are incapable of giving advice, just that most posts from you don't offer any. Could it be that you can empathize with him because you experienced it yourself first hand? Oh well. Gonna miss the old Sh0wdowN. Or maybe not. Who knows? Who cares? Meh.




crisissuit3

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#25 10 years ago

just move on, my best tip is to find a new GF. thats what i usually do. just do stuff that will get her off ur mind. talk to friends, like what i just said find a new GF, drown urself in ur work. if she thinks ur a loser thats her problem and ur open to more people... and means less competition for me.... uhm... *runs out the door*




Nemmerle Forum Mod

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#26 10 years ago

Liquid fire;4778440What do you do when you have a college class with your old crush, and she now has a baby and a serious BF/ Husband who is way buffer than you ...

I know that one of the things you may do is feel like crap about it.

All I can think of is her thinking that I am a looser, or something , or how much happier she is with another guy.

Hell, I'll just move on . I guess this is good for me. It would be easier if I did not have to watch her move on with her life...

That sort of thing is only what it is because you can't have it. What you don't get to see is when they're woken up in the middle of the night by their spawn, when they argue over who's going to do the dishes or worry that they're getting old, when one of them wants to take up a job on one side of the country to where the other wants to live, when all the minute bits of a relationship that eventually come into play if you extend it for long enough happen.

You think she's thinking of how much better off she is without you, or that you're a looser? I doubt it, no offence but there are more important things for her to think about.

The sort of love you have is glorious because it's based upon a very small portion of existence and the rest is idealised from there. You haven't necessarily lost out on what you think you have.




Blank Stare

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#27 10 years ago

Liquid, you are always here. There is no reason for you to say "Just stopping in".

She probably doesn't even think about you enough for her to think you are a loser. Sorry, it's the truth.




Deanoz

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#28 10 years ago

(smacks head). The way that I suggest you view this entire situation with your "7 year crush" is to take it as a learning experience. You can learn quite a lot from this if you evaluate it.

-You aren't acting socially in a way that you can get what you want. Be more assertive? Things aren't always going to throw themselves at you, so advantage of the opportunities you are given. Try and fail, try again and fail, on one of those tries you might succeed. If you give up or never try, you will never succeed. There will be more opportunities.

-You don't need a girlfriend to be happy. Also, you first have to be happy with yourself, she alone or any other girl that you have a crush on can't make you happy by themselves. Things start with you.

-I'll leave the rest up to you.

if anything is throwing itself at you, it is the truth's contained in this thread.




Liquid fire

I pretend I'm cooler than AzH

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#29 10 years ago

I never agreed with more negative feed back in my entire life, but to the guy who said I never leave here...

http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h206/marcusbroady/VIDEO_TStitle1ch2frame1891.jpg

Speaks for itself

I could be here less though, more time could go into definition.




Orchidea

Concentrate on the NOW.

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#30 10 years ago
Deanoz;4779711 -You don't need a girlfriend to be happy. Also, you first have to be happy with yourself.

Yeah this is a common mistake people do. i've tried long enough to get a girl and actually, i just cant be arsed to TRY, ill just be myself. NOTE: this does not mean i'll go nerd and stop being social!!! GO TO PARTIES AND GET LAID. with this said, there should no longer be a problem. voilá