ßeef FlapsJust feed em alcohol and take advantage of them.
Quit being a gentleman and start being forward with them. Most women are not attracted to passive men, especially young chickies. Take control of the conversation and when you get on a date make sure you do not ask them what they want to do, have something planned out and do your thing. Sometimes you just have to lie to them to make them happy, hey whatever works and gets you in their pants. If you really have a strong feeling for someone then be a little nicer but never a puss. There are so many females out there to be had. Now get out there soldier and nail one.
Do not listen to him, at the most that would get you a one night stand. Keep the qualities that you have those qualities are what girls that are worth a damn look for. Further more, don't go out looking for a girl, it makes you look desperate. Just be patient one will come.
I'm sure that you don't believe me but if I'm picturing you right my husband was just like you. When I met him he had practically given up on relationships. He was over-weight and not so cute but he showed me respected me, was a total gentleman, and very smart. We have now been married for 6 years and have two very beautiful children. So don't give up and don't turn into a jerk.
Good luck, Assesina Maja
Listen to me and you will get some play. You do not just sit home and wait for a female to come to you that is retarded. Looking for a female does not make you look desperate Where do nice guys finish? Thats right. You don't have to be a jerk but never take a womans shit and never let them walk on you. Hell most good looking women love being treated like shit. And what is wrong with one night stands? He is 18 FFS, have fun.
Oh and ass, you need to have more rep to give me bad rep. Thanks for the grey block. :lolpoint:
First of all Flaps, you're full of shit... on practically every shred of advice and logic that you just gave this poor guy. Second, I didn't try to give you a bad mark, I don't give people bad marks for disagreeing with me. Nor do I give people bad marks if I think they are vulgar and have their head up their a$$. I feel that to give someone a bad mark is the equivalent of punishing someone for their opinion. Assesina Maja
solietjake ive been trying fora while now to get a gf, im 18, no gf, never been kissed, im a loser yes. never even been fcking hugged by a chick. yeah thats pretty sad. Ive come to know that 90% of all women are superficialistic ******. And im friggin sick and tired of it. Ima gentlemen, im nice to girls, but that doesnt seem to cut it
Im 19 and only had one (and she ended up cheating on me) so your by no means a loser. Lots of pressure is placed amoungts young people now, and especailly on guys by their mates to 'go out and get some'. However this isnt really what i wanted and it doesnt seem to me as tho that is what you want, i want a proper relationship not just a pull or a shag. Its true that a lot of girls (and guys) our age are superficial, its down to immaturity really, you seem to more mature than most your age. You approach of being a gentleman may not work with girls your own age may not work now on the girls you try, but then if they arent interested in being treated well and being cared for they're hardly great catches are they, not it they only want a boyfriend who is 'well fit'. The biggest mistake people our age make is that they feel they have to be in a relationship,go out for the wrong reasons (eg. just looks) then a few weeks or months down the line it all goes wrong. My advice is to remain optismistic, know in yourself that you are a good guy and as those around you get older and (hopefully) more mature you will find your luck with girls changes.
assesina_majaFirst of all Flaps, you're full of shit... on practically every shred of advice and logic that you just gave this poor guy. Second, I didn't try to give you a bad mark, I don't give people bad marks for disagreeing with me. Nor do I give people bad marks if I think they are vulgar and have their head up their a$$. I feel that to give someone a bad mark is the equivalent of punishing someone for their opinion. Assesina Maja
First of all ass, I am far from full of shit. Your touchy feely advice from watching Oprah isn't always the best who are you to think just your advice is good? Your just one female with one opinion, you don't like mine then tough shit and deal with it.
Sorry if that wasn't you that tried to give me bad (or good who knows) rep. If it was someone trying to give me bad rep then it's just another spinless coward on theese forums afraid to show thier pathetic name.
Never trust anything that bleeds for 5 days straight and doesn't die :) :beer:
First of all ass, I am far from full of shit.
Ok Flap, since you are not full of shit then please enlighten me; where do you find girls that fall for that crap that you have been saying? Further more, what kind of girls are they?
Never trust anything that bleeds for 5 days straight and doesn't die
What really baffles me is that you are able to find girls at all making comments like this.
assesina_majaOk Flap, since you are not full of shit then please enlighten me; where do you find girls that fall for that crap that you have been saying? Further more, what kind of girls are they? What really baffles me is that you are able to find girls at all making comments like this. Assesina Maja
Just like a woman always gettin the last word in. What do you want me to enlighten you about? You need to find a woman? What kind of girls are they? Normal everyday ones I guess. I've been with many girls to have an idea how they tick. I will never admit to fully understanding how they tick and even the females have no clue as it changes with the weather. I stand by my advice to him when I say never let a woman walk on you or you are doomed. being nice is one thing, getting taken advatage is another and women love to take advantage. Us men will do anything for that pie and they know it :) Don't preach your Oprah fantasy crap to him and expect others to swallow it. Take each bit of advice given and form your own ways. him waiting around for a woman is not going to happen and then he will feel to "settle" for the one he does find, not really knowing any better and never experience all the flavors to be had.
assesina_majaDo not listen to him, at the most that would get you a one night stand.
what's wrong with that?
for a god sake woman, tell me
what's wrong with one night stand ?
I didn't make it!
I suggest downloading a hack/ keygen and installing it on her or.... Get The... KEY!!!
Jakkc: I severly hope that that post has been misplaced by the server or suggest that you refrain from any more comments, ever. Not that you should be talking about warez anyway...
PA (FR)what's wrong with one night stand?[/quote] Nothing, there's nothing wrong with a wank either but neither will bring you long term happiness. If you want to do either then fine, its your choice. However if you read solietjake's post you would of noticed that he wanted more than that;solietjakeive been trying fora while now to get a gfNote girlFRIEND, not one night stand or 'fuck buddy'. If the only reason you want a girlfriend is for sex then you are not worthy of one. [quote=solietjake]Ive come to know that 90% of all women are superficialistic
Not usually a concern for a one night stand.