Shintsu;4686854So, what would you do if you saw your dream girl while you were eating at a food court in a busy mall? She's walking up to a place to get something to eat when you spot her and she's all alone. She has the looks that attract you the most and make her stand out like a ray of sunlight from everyone else. What would you actually do (Not what you say you might do, I mean if it happened right now). Personally, I would probably stop eating my food and just stare without her noticing. I would say in my head I would go talk to her but then my mind would come up with objections and I would just sit there and watch her until she left. After the fact, I'd probably feel like a fool but I would definately remember what she looked like. In the same note, if I saw Alizee somewhere I would probably just float away into the sky or up to the ceiling. Knowing who she is, lol I would actually have no problem walking up to her and saying something. If she were standing in a line, I would throw down a $5 right behind her and pick it up and tell her she dropped it. Then when she turned around I would just melt. :bows: So, what would you do if you saw your dream girl in a busy mall setting?
This is funny because it's obviously already happened to you. Yes it's probably nice to know that there are people equally pathetic out there, but it doesn't help a whole lot.
Hey, at least I'm honest. It really hasn't happened to me, but something made me start thinking about what would happen if it did and I'm quite sure that's exactly what would happen lol.
Since looks make up the least important part of a dream-anything, i wouldn't do anything even if she scored 100/100 on looks.
I didn't make it!
Bs|Archaon;4687192Aye, well the friendship screwing up wasn't because I tried anything, I did speak to her about it so she did know but wasn't interested so we left it at that. Hardly what I'd call ideal and I can't say I ever got over it (I'm still not and fuck knows if I ever will be), but I learnt to deal with it over time. I guess my motivation was that having her as a friend was better than not having at all. As you said, everyone's been there, just sucked really bad as she was my best friend for close to a year, and my first (only) love and then I completely lost her in about 5 hours flat. I mean, a few things had happened that weakened our relationship slightly over the last couple of months but we were still very close, so yeah...that one hurt.
If she's anything to go by, I think by the time I discover feelings for someone I'm always going to be in the friendzone. But then again, to put a (sort-of) positive spin on it maybe the hypothetical girl that I become friends with and then 'break out' of the friendzone with is the right woman for me...
I've always been in the exact same boat, and in fact the exact same thing happened to me. Difference was the girl I developed feelings for I was friends with for oh about 10 years before I developed them. It's even harder at that point to make it into anything. Luckily we've at least stayed good friends now. At this point I've known her for a good 12 or so years now.
Anyone else I've ever had any interest in I was friends with for at least a year or so.
In response to the original post, I'd probably go up and say high and start hanging out, since my dream girl is actually just a close friend of mine right now.
Tas;4687823Since looks make up the least important part of a dream-anything, i wouldn't do anything even if she scored 100/100 on looks.
Well it sure is great to know that the world is so full of nice guys.
I saw a girl, or should I say woman, that scored a 98/100 (her skin could have been a bit lighter, not sure if it was a tan or natural). The only thing I really did was casually follow her around a little bit until she got into her car. Yes, I am a S.T.A.L.K.E.R.
I've been on that situation, except it wasn't a busy mall. I saw her, she was GLOWING (not due radiation, haha). She just stood up from everyone. I kicked by pussyness up in the ass (what a methaphor?) and actually came up and talked to her. Well, after we were calling to eachother like a month or half, i asked her out. She declined and hasn't talked to me since. Wasn't my first time - won't be my last. you just have to live with it and keep telling yourself that you can get anyone you want. Unless you're a nerd or a pussy.
to the title: Marry her! Oh wait, I did that...love them German women.:)
:agreed For that matter, European women FTW.
Sh0wdowN;4686869Introduce myself and say 'This is where I say something witty and ask you out for a cup of coffee.' and then hint to the irony that I don't like coffee at all.
That sounds strangely familiar.