i just dont get how i am a normal looking guy but i can sense that no girls are phyically attracted to me...ive never had a gf in my life ( im 17 years old)...how do you guys go about getting a relationship?
well, I don't suggest doing this.....but if you want the girls, this is how it's done. the girls for some reason like to go out with guys that have a job that pays and are absolute JERKS when they aren't around the girl. i'm emphasizing jerks b/c that is a key point. girls like to go out with these jerks for a couple months and then break up and go out with another one.
The following is from the link at the bottom of this post. These are not my words:
"All I want is a nice guy that will make me feel special, that will listen to me and love me forever..." Lie. She left off the part about "and a guy that will have plenty of raunchy sex with me because that's all most girls are really looking for, but we're too shallow to admit that to you because we want to keep this 'virgin-girl' image we have going on and we don't want to sound too slutty, so we're going to pretend that all the nice guys we've met so far haven't fit the bill when in reality, they've treated us infinitely better than any guy we could ever hope to meet at a club downtown." I've said this before and I'll say it again:
GIRLS DON'T WANT NICE GUYS. END OF STORY.
I know there are SOME out there that do.. the ratio of honest girls that want nice guys to sleazy girls that are in it for money and sex is very small, if not non-existant. However, I won't consider this possibility at this time.
Almost every guy that goes to a club goes there for one reason: ass. More often than not, they get it. Way to go champ, you got laid, now wipe off the disease and try your luck again. That's all they want and girls aren't so stupid as to not realize this, but they want to make it sound like they're perpetual victims that can't find the elusive "nice guy." Why don't you actually TRY LOOKING for one, you moron? That's like a guy trying to find a "nice girl" by cruising the streets downtown. You tread the grounds of prostitutes, so don't complain that all you have to show for it is a yield of whores. I'm so sick and tired of girls giving the false impression that they want a nice guy; this is only true for women in their 30's that have already spent a decade getting their brains screwed out and now they're finally pulling their heads out of their ass and they're looking for a decent guy to settle down with. It's not going to happen moron, you blew your chance. I see girls fall for bad guys every day. I see girls abused, cheated on and insulted in public ALL THE TIME. What the hell is wrong with them? They think that there's something wild and untamable about bad guys that's attractive? WAKE UP. WAKE UP. You're getting abused, hurt, murdered and taken advantage of. Holy shit, how can people be so stupid? Is there no end to the barrel of stupid they drink from?
The nice guy rutine never works, unless you want a fake love.
17th June 2002
This ratio might be small, but I have first hand evidence that it exists. Seven months and counting...
You just have to be yourself. If girls don't want that, you wouldn't be happy with them anyway.
Be yourself, one day youll find someone, no point being someone your not :)
be upfront and confident... That's what alot of girls look for...
It's all about the vibe you give off when around them, often more than physical traits
Mr. MattThis ratio might be small, but I have first hand evidence that it exists. Seven months and counting... You just have to be yourself. If girls don't want that, you wouldn't be happy with them anyway.
you should try an be yourself... unless your a complete retard.
badcombover, your words are very wise. even the most ugly girls at my school act like they were fucken hot bitches and dress like sluts... i got pretty sick of that hard to find honest girls nowadays, indeed. btw I'm moving this to the Pub :)
Well, badcombover, no matter how funny your article maybe, it's NOT true. I don't know any girls who are like that, they don't go clubbing -- probably because they're only 15, but so what? This kid's only 17.
Anyways, finding a girlfriend isn't that hard. Just act like yourself. If they like you - they like you, if they don't - they don't. There's a whole lot of other fish in the sea.
Don't give up hope, buddy, I'm sure there's a girl waiting for you somewhere.
Oh yeah, (mod voice) Due to this content of Life tips (hooking with girls) this thread is hereby moved to the pub.