I take what n0e says way too seriously
1st March 2003
Well, if you're an ugly guy it doesn't help. I think its rather apparent that you're down in the dumps about this. That is your problem.
Powersaucelook under rocks....they alaways say ur most likely to find love under a rock.
never hard that, but I guess its true enough. like a long-time friend or the really quiet girl in the back of class... ...or GF! but hey no worries, I'm 15 and still haven't had a girl frind either, worthwhile ones are very hard to find where I am (no offense to anyone!) AAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGG!!! I just realized! I've let my age slip! now I must kill you all for knowing too much! sorry.
Powersauceit means look in unusual places...
*has eyes on Powersauce*
The way i see it..yu can really sit down and wait for girls to come to you...you have to go after them...but that´s really the problem...i got a crush on a girl that is on another class ....and i dont know how da hell am i supposed to hook her up...I dont even know the girl...
yeah...and a lot of them already are taken...well i have a plan...kill their bf and they are weak and vulnerable then...then you be the shoulder to cry on then work up from there.
Don't you hate it when you make a joke, and everyone goes on acting as if it did not even happen? I sure as hell do. This means either my jokes are bad, or require too much thought, or people don't care. Man I love this town.
I pretend to do stuff.
16th January 2004
young Obi-Wanthese days it's really hard to find some love between all the bitches and sluts who're either just going on a good fuck (these days with 13 years or below) or wanna abuse they're BF until the resources are gone. honest girls are, at most places, hard to find.
they are hard to find, but not impossible, in the past 2 months 5 nice girls, not sluts, and not going for the recources fel in love with me, and all i had to do was act nice. only prob is i like 2 of them :uhm: . but thats an other thing.
TheMiragenever hard that, but I guess its true enough. like a long-time friend or the really quiet girl in the back of class... ...or GF! but hey no worries, I'm 15 and still haven't had a girl frind either, worthwhile ones are very hard to find where I am (no offense to anyone!) AAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGG!!! I just realized! I've let my age slip! [/QUOTE] No way! I had you down as a professor of Scholarly subjects with many doctorates in varied academic subjects of high prestige such as 'Public Cubicle studies' & 'Sheep Science'.:rolleyes: Ok more seriously. [QUOTE=badcombover]if you want the girls, this is how it's done. the girls for some reason like to go out with guys that have a job that pays and are absolute JERKS when they aren't around the girl. i'm emphasizing jerks b/c that is a key point.
Yep you are certainly more near the mark when it comes to actual reality over the fairy tale concept of dating & mating than most 'nice guys' & girls will ever be. I honestly know of guys who date most girls *they* want, & get the girl to pay for their dates. So no, looks & money are not what makes you successful with women; although it can *appear* like, to us clueless unfortunates, it does. Think about it gents...who would you rather be with a girl who is great fun to be with most of the time or a rich girl who is a nightmare to be with all of the time? The answer will be the same for most ppl including girls/women although perhaps you wouldn't think so at first. If anyone is 'in love' with your credit instead of you - what the hell are you with them for? Alot of people are actually sincerely interested in being with other people & not their money - let the rich mess with each other - they will get bored soon enough ...(drugs & alcohol anyone?). The only thing I can expand on badcombover is that when you think like a woman she expect to be looked on a beautiful, to be wanted, to be complemented & admired. She knows if she gives you her number you will call, if she talks to you even that you will think she likes you. She expects this to be the development for just about every 'nice guy' she meets. For us its the opposite. Every encounter fills us with the dread of failure - going up to an attractive member of the opposite sex can be like a white knuckle ride. Not so for her. Through her eyes its dreadfully boring, passe, almost pathetic & most uncomfortable & embarrasing. Getting the picture? So for us - whoa! For them 'oh no...sheesh'. Now why doesn't that set her world on fire? :uhm: :rolleyes: Mr jerk behaviour on the other hand does not 'play' nice. She does not know the outcome anymore. He won't be polite, nervous, excusing - in short- he won't be wet, *uncomfortable* & certainly not predictable. He's the closesest women have to introducing excitement into their dating lives that we inadvertently suffer by being the way we are. This is why bad gets you further than nice. Its to do with it being rare & so perhaps 'exciting' & 'refreshing' more than anything else. One problem some guys are not doing this to meet those requirements they really are unpredictable dangerous people or simple very emotionally 'unstable' & capable of taking out anyone who helplessly loves them. For the reasons outlined above women cannot help but feel great levels of attraction for these 'special' unique men. NOW lets get it clear they are not CONSTANTLY abusive - but they do display behaviour that communicates (& women are primed to pick up on) that they are poised, assured, self-reliant, decisive, fearless, intrepid, positive & can be cocksure, bold & collected. They see themselves to the envy of those who see them clearly as jerks, that they are hotshots; & that is the way they present themselves to the world. It does not seem to matter that this attitude may have no foundation or basis. We see jerk, but women react to it, & go along with it. Alot of the best 'hotshots':rolleyes: also know how to make people & women laugh. (women are people remeber?) As I asked who would you rather be with someone who is great fun to be around or a rich stale runt? Anyone who selects rich wants purchase power not a date. Avoid. Thems the breaks. It does not make sense on many levels but I'll be damned if anyone can show me any different. It is a generalisation & to some people something will take them out of this general category. Some people will be far too shy to be able to deal with jerk moves. With a shy or ultra-sensitive individual your task is trust & breaking them free - giving them the world. No showy tactics though they will soon after seek something more challenging - be more jerky & never be clingy with anyone. The sure fire way to make someone closer to you is by not allowing them to get close!
i cant speak for others but i go for guys that you can be serious with and have a good laugh with. as for being funny, make some good jokes but dont be absolutly stupid. most girls hate that. you might also want to do something with your hair.and zer0sum, the mirage is realy nothing like that. i should know;)
holy crap that a long ass post...