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Ev_en_so_n

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#1 14 years ago

Ok, it starts........ well what I mean is life SUCKS!! I have no reason to be here and don't tell me everyone has a reason of being! I hate that! I'm on the literal verge of .........well not being, I've no point anymore! I'm always pushed around and I feel that even my closest friends are enemies. So all I have to say is that with every passing moment I waste a little bit more of the life, I want to live to the fullest because of not knowing who I am!!!!:furious:




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#2 14 years ago

If you're being pushed around, resist. Don't allow yourself to be pushed. Stand up. Push back. Or try to find a more permanent solution by eliminating the problem by means of discussion. That's all the advice I can give you on that, you'd have to be more specific for more advice... And on the issue with your friends you'd have to be more specific aswell. As it is, it sounds like you're a little paranoid...if you can't trust your friends, who can ou trust? Edit: Also sounds like you're going through the typical teenage depression. Cheers :cheers:


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alex_gen

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#3 14 years ago

All is not lost yet Ev_en_so_n you still have all ur GF buddies :) you can trust us!




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#4 14 years ago
Ev_en_so_nOk, it starts........ well what I mean is life SUCKS!! I have no reason to be here and don't tell me everyone has a reason of being! I hate that! I'm on the literal verge of .........well not being, I've no point anymore! I'm always pushed around and I feel that even my closest friends are enemies. So all I have to say is that with every passing moment I waste a little bit more of the life, I want to live to the fullest because of not knowing who I am!!!!:furious:

i was mor or less like that when i was thirteen, and i have scars to prove it.... I used to wonder constantly if my friends were really friends, or just keeping me around to laugh at me. i became very depressed and paranoid, and eventually overdosed on painkillers one evening (paracetamol f**king HURTS). I learned then that a lot of my friends actually did like me a lot... The way you're feeling now isn't particularly uncommon, all I can say is don't do anything you won't have a chance to regret. I got lucky, you might not. I say you should talk to someone you trust, not your parents (they can be hard to talk to) but a friend you trust completely. Talking really does help (i know it's a cliché, but only 'cause it's true).




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#5 14 years ago
alex_genAll is not lost yet Ev_en_so_n you still have all ur GF buddies :) you can trust us!

Try not to rely on GF, though. GF will give you ideas as to how you can solve your problems, but the final decision is yours. You can either do it your way or follow GF's advice. It might work, it might not work.... Decisions, decisions...:beer:


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Napalm

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#6 14 years ago

Dude, If you are getting picked on, fight back! Not with weapons, but with your brain and if they swing first, then you have a legit reason to fight back. But remember, dont instagate.




TheShad0w

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#7 14 years ago
Lord WienerTry not to rely on GF, though. GF will give you ideas as to how you can solve your problems, but the final decision is yours. You can either do it your way or follow GF's advice. It might work, it might not work.... Decisions, decisions...:beer:

Take that back you scum! :furious: :rolleyes: :coffee:




NiteStryker

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#8 14 years ago

NapalmDude, If you are getting picked on, fight back! Not with weapons, but with your brain and if they swing first, then you have a legit reason to fight back. But remember, dont instagate.[/QUOTE]

The dude is asking for real help, not some sarcastic, 19 year old 'think with your fists' mentality....

[QUOTE=TheShad0w]Take that back you scum! :furious: :rolleyes: :coffee:

You never cease to amaze me with your idiocy...

You can only push somebody so far until they begin to push back.

Take some time alone and think about your life. Examine it. Think about the worst it could be, and what would have to happen. Think about what you want right now. A girlfriend/boyfriend? (sry, I dont know ur gender), more friends? Popularity? What do YOU want? Now, think about how you can get it. Take some chances. If you have nothing to loose, then you have everyting to gain. Talk to people you normally dont talk to. Hook up with some people that you have in classes and talk to them a bit more.

Think about what you want to do in your future. That holds me down. I want to be a Marine, so I am doing everything I can do be ready for that. I dont talk to anybody, because they dont understand or have what I want. I do alot pf physical activity, I read alot of military history, etc.

Talk to your friends. Ask them why they are your friends....

Just a few ideas.




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#9 14 years ago

If people are making you sad, face up to them and give em a piece of your mind




JonSultar

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#10 14 years ago

How I remember this state... I was in it about... A few weeks ago! The point is not to give up. Truly! You have to be sure that you don't try to make yourself more miserable... Fight, live... All will change in time... Trust me... Many of us have been there. First of all... Do not act toward your friends as if they were youre enemies. Recall weather (if they are unfriendly toward you) you haven't said something wrong or anything. Don't blame yourself if you did just try to repair it... You'll be fine. The point is you always have someone who will listen... :rolleyes:




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