Im sorry about this gay ass drama and dont read this if you are tired of it.
Hey yall this is tony again... and i need advice... agian... Unlike my last thread "need some opinions" after my g/f hit me and cussed at me and screamed at me... I felt tough and strong... i felt good that she was crying but yah i feel bad that i hurt her feelings... But now today... things are not what i expected :( I expected Tonya (my g/f) to apoligize to me or come to me... But yah she was still with the other boy, It seems like they are "secretly together" but no one told me yet, She completly ignored me when i walked by her... I take the hint that she doesnt want me anymore... I take the hint that she hates me. I mean she wouldnt do this if she did love me... Oh well... I plan to ignore her too unless she comes to me. I plan to let her to make the first move... I mean im not really as upset as before... i feel weird and i feel sad and missing her although.
Yall has something like this happened to you in your life?
should i move on, Ignore her and see what happens, or talk to her?
Piercing the veil.
9th August 2003
TonyMontanashould i move on, Ignore her and see what happens, or talk to her?
My advice would be to ignore her and see what happens. From what you describe in your other thread, she's dangling you on a string. She does this to intentionally make you hurt, in which she has apparently succeded. Just see what happens when you don't give her any attention. If she really wants you back, she will make the first move. If she doesn't, she's being sadistic. If I misread the situation or if I'm not making sense, then please forgive my ramblings.
No i actually agree with you and i stood up for myself... well first she wrote me a sorry note and said how she wants to be with me and misses me and want to be together agian... But thats probably bullshit, So i wrote her back a note saying that She knows that i love her but she is pushing me away.. i told her that we shouldnt talk anymore UNTIL she is ready. I told her everything that she does to me... yah she is really mean to me and she has issues... but we'll see what happens... Most of the people agree that she is playing mind games with me... She wants her cake and eat it too.
I pretend to do stuff.
16th January 2004
i agree, just ignore her and stop opening letters. and my advice is if she comes to you with the words ''i'm sorry and i want you back'' then you stop ignoring her, but if you don't trust it or think she is still fucking with you you should probably say you don't want her anymore. oh and if she did that before, don't trust it and move on.
Piercing the veil.
9th August 2003
KillorLive I had a GF that used to hit me, I'd just let her do it unless she went for the face, in which case I'd grab her and put her arm behind her back, then she'd try to kick me in the nuts. It didn't last more than a month, the first time she honestly tried to hurt me it was over.
uh, she ...hit you? in the face? and tried to kick you in the nuts? dude....doesn't sound like much of a relationship......:p
Ehhhhhh shit happened today ... its werid that im not crying... Im just a little upset... im not sure why... But today i went to her house to give her pictures of me so that she can think of me... and then all of sudden... Chris called and threaten to beat me up cuz i was at her house... So i told tonya that i was moving on and i left... and i saw chris in his truck flippin me off, I GOT SO PISSED that i went back... We didnt fight... we discussed things... and i found out that Tonya and chris are going out EHhhhhHHhHH What a sadictic bitch. and i told chris that tonya needs him and i also told him to go in the house and talk to her... and i told them that i told tonya that im moving on. Tonya used me... what a fucking cruel bitch... she hit me in the face and then fuck me over like this... wow so gay... oh well... i dont know why im not crying... im just a little upset... a little upset cuz i wish she would come back to me but no she wont lol... oh well... i got whipped by her. You guys are right... She did the same thing to me last july... and now shes doing it agian, but its much worst cuz Tonya didnt even tell me that they are going out... She kept saying that she loves me and she kept touching me and hugging me.... what a sadicitc bitch.. she has issues... I bet that chris and her already had sex behind my back, and i know that they cheated on me... I just know, so Fuck tonya, im moving on (at least i'll try)
im really upset :( i thought i was strong but ... i went to see tonya agian and we talked... she told me that she still loves me and likes me... I mean she did the same thing 6 or 7 months ago... (it was a month long) and she still loved me ever snice.. so i believe her... and knowing that tonya and chris are together... makes me feel worthless and it makes me feel lonely... completly lonely... I mean i miss her alot.. and she says that "do you think you will start being nice to me and we will get back together happily" yea i feel like i want her so bad... i just feel like wanting her i dunno... I called her eariler tellin her how i need to talk to her and see her... and her dad wouldnt allow her... so i got upset and she got irritated and she said that she will call me back and said "I love you" and hung up, didnt let me say i love you to her... I just dunno what to do :( i am just lonely... i feel like running away.. i feel like everyone is against me... i feel like hurting myself... cuz i am worthless accoring to most people... I just wish that she would just come back to me and care about me... she seemed like she didnt give a shit about me. what can i do... I just cant move on, i just cant leave her... thats how much i love her... i dunno what to do...
i dont know
Voice of joy and sunshine
26th May 2003
It sounds to me as if you are just remembering the good times you had with her do you feel hapy just because she walks into the room ? can you have just had the worst experience of your life and she smiles and sudenly your happy again like the suns come out from behind the clouds ? If not then its time to start asking yourself if you still love her or if you just remember loving her. she might say "I love you" but these are just words without the feeling to go with them they are a holow mokery of the real thing. If you really love her and she doesnt reciprocate then you should love her enouth to respect her choice. If you find you dont love her then atleast you'l know and be free to move on
1st January 2004
Get yourself a new hotter chick to to parade in front of her and make her jealous to let her knoe that you are a playa and don't need her.
Im moving on, Thats the final answer.... Thank you