:( Ok, this is whats happening. I have the gold patch and everything installed. I load the multiplayer up. I do all this. I set it so im on Cable Modem I click the thing that shows the computer and an arrow pointing to it. I click INTERNET games I put punkblocker thing off I click Get List... And no list!!! I click it like 20 times and no list. I click refresh and no list! I tried everything! Can anyone help me?!
Are you behind a router/firewall?? If so you probably have to open a port to play SOF2 on the i'net...
If you don't have a hardware router/firewall but you are running WinXP you might have XP's crappy firewall activated (is ON by default).
As godH said, there may be a internal windows firewall, I dont have XP so i cant tell you how to disable it. I usually sometimes cant get a list to show, I usually just reboot and it works.