Would anyone be kind enough to point me in the direction of some One Life To Live servers?
Check out www.udpviper.com.
I'd try gamespy.
=swat= has a server that is OLTL only 16 players
^1=^3SWAT^1= ^5OLTL One Life To Live|68ms|220.127.116.11:27980
most instagib items are turned off; like airstrikes, panzers, poison knife destroyable dyno.
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I love 1 life to live servers..they are most of the time the most realistic of all the servers