wo i just stumbled on to something....pming in wolf without any shrub mod or anything :D !!! ok heres the scoop...if u ever played star wars jedi outcast online u know that u can bind messagemode3 to a key..then poinbt ur curser on that guy hit the key u bond it to and send him a little private message....well in wolf i tryed it and it works!!..what u need to do is /bind (pick a key) messagemode3
cause global chat is messagemode and team chat is messagemode2 and so private chats messsagemode3...very neat...
You probly mean;
tell_target = shows message to you and the person you aim at
tell_attacker = shows message to you and the person who last inflicted damage to you