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Natasha K

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#1 14 years ago

OK, I need to know what all you think. If you thought that your partner was having an affair but you were not totally positive, what would you do? Before you ask, its not my problem. I have a friend who thinks his girlfriend has been doing the dirty on him and he's spoken to his girlfriend but she has denied it. Best Wishes, Natasha




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#2 14 years ago

:uhm: If he doesn't trust her when she flat-out denies that she's having an affair, there doesn't seem much point continuing the relationship whether she is or not. What sort of evidence does he have? Any reasons for his suspicions? If there is no evidence and no tangible reason, I'd just take her at her word till something came along and proved her wrong. If I didn't believe her, I'd call it quits anyway... If you find you don't trust your partner, things are only going to get worse from then on. Because, besides simply believing her, there's little else you can do but snoop. Ask her friends, follow her, hell, go the whole hog and hire an investigator. What the hell are you trying to save if you need to go through all that to believe her?




Guns4Hire

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#3 14 years ago

:agreed Does she have a sister? He should bang her sister, that always works :naughty:




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#4 14 years ago

Oh sweet jesus beef.roll%20eyes%20%28sarcastic%29.gif




Mr. Matt VIP Member

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#5 14 years ago

Jesus beef? Where can we get that? Sainsburys?

Oh, MonkeY FlaPs... no. Just... no :p.




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#6 14 years ago
Mr. MattJesus beef? Where can we get that? Sainsburys?

:lol: Try Tesco's.




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#7 14 years ago
BeeF FlaPs:agreed Does she have a sister? He should bang her sister, that always works :naughty:

:vikki: That's, well you know, sick.




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#8 14 years ago

I agree with Mr Matt. If there is no proof at all he should wait until he canprove it (bit he shouldn't look for proof, not to activly anyways since that will only anger her and threaten the relationship. If he really doesn't trust her then why have her as his GF? Partners should be able to trust eavhother, if you can't trust eachother there is little use in continuieing your relationship.




Guns4Hire

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#9 14 years ago

How is that sick :confused: Not his sister, HER sister...revenge. do I have to speeel it out for you? Like Matt said, the trust is gone if he suspects it, no matter what she says. Relationship is sinking at this point and will only get worse. bang her sister :deal:




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#10 14 years ago

how much fun it could be banging her sister, i wouldnt do it before i had proof.

and about that friend, he should ask himself if he loves her enough to go on with the relationship, because trust is a great deal of the relationship, and if its gone, its going to be very hard to make it work.