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Covin Narcissus

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#1 13 years ago

Some friends and I are making a mockumentry about our ex-buddy (we'll call him 'Stiny'), because Stiny is such a weird guy!

He basically hates me after he fell off the back of my car and "broke" his arm (what a pussy, he didn't even get a sling, or anything). Of course I appologized (although it wasn't my fault) for it a thousand times right after it happened.

I had even called him after he had missed over a week of school to tell him that we should just forget about it and be friends again, but he said, "no" to which I replied, "well, okay." I'm not all that hurt that he's not my friend anymore, more like releived.

He's also really angry at another friend of mine (who we'll call "Estaban") for no aparent reason.

Anyways, I guess the main reason why we're making a 'mockumentry' is because we're all really frustrated with him, and after tireless efforts to get him to be our friend - nothing has worked! So we're just making this to get the frustration out.

Is that really so wrong?




freek_on_a_leesh

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#2 13 years ago

Well...Let's try roll reversal. say you broke your arm in a humiliating way...in fron of your friends i am assuming...And you (and the rest of your friends think you are a pussy for not getting a sling [like it matters or something...]) Would you be hurt? I would be embarrased, and therefore mad. How hard have you tried to make it up to him. And what did you do... I mean, by making fun of him further (which is the acuse of the problem) you are fueling the fire with liquid hydrogen...Eventually, you have to have a serious conversation with him, make it clear you are sorry for what you did. And leave it at that. The ball is now in his court. If he chooses to recline your humble apology, then fuck him, he wasnt a true friend. And then you move on,but dont make fun of him after, you might cripple any thoughts that he might have to try to repair the friendship.




Covin Narcissus

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#3 13 years ago
freek_on_a_leeshWell...Let's try roll reversal. say you broke your arm in a humiliating way...in fron of your friends i am assuming...And you (and the rest of your friends think you are a pussy for not getting a sling [like it matters or something...]) Would you be hurt? I would be embarrased, and therefore mad. How hard have you tried to make it up to him. And what did you do... I mean, by making fun of him further (which is the acuse of the problem) you are fueling the fire with liquid hydrogen...Eventually, you have to have a serious conversation with him, make it clear you are sorry for what you did. And leave it at that. The ball is now in his court. If he chooses to recline your humble apology, then fuck him, he wasnt a true friend. And then you move on,but dont make fun of him after, you might cripple any thoughts that he might have to try to repair the friendship.

Well, it wasn't "humiliating" at all, we didn't laugh or joke around about it when it happened, although one person did try to make light of the situation with his strange and funny antics. And the reason why I said he was being a pussy about it is because he made a -huge- deal out of it, when it wasn't all that bad.

I did sit down and have a serious conversation with him and he still declined. He told me it wasn't because of the whole car thing but it was from things that had been going on in the past "four months", which I asked him about and he had one example to which I gave a perfectly reasonable explaination to. He didn't have any other examples he wanted to share, though (hmm...). Although, I have my own theories about the "Stiny Situation" (which I think I'm right on) I dare not bring them up to him.

Honestly, I don't care, at this point (it's been nearly two months) if we're ever friends again, it's more irritating that he tries to desperatly to ignore me. He sits infront of me in two of my classes and I always try to innitiate in conversation with him, but I'll usually just end up talking at him the whole while he sits there, all irriated-like, and ignores me. I guess I was hurt at first when he said he didn't want to be my friend, but now it's just funny to see how far he'll go to push me out of his life.

Also, to clear things up, we're not making this to poke fun at him and show to everyone at school, it's just for us.




Μαjïç MushrøøM

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#4 13 years ago

I cannot argue with your intentions, Lust. What goes around comes around; if he is going to be so unforgiving of an accident such as that after you have sincerely apologized (even considering that it was not your fault to begin with), then he is not worth the effort of socializing with.

I would personally not waste my time with a mockumentary, but I can understand your reason(s) for doing so. My sister has been involved in such before. All I can say is, have fun with it. ;)




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#5 13 years ago

freek, you need to re-upload your avatar.




DavetheFo

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#6 13 years ago

But it looks good as it is dread.........

As for the mockumentary, it sounds like quite a good idea, so knock yourself out!