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Aeroflot

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#1 13 years ago

Yeah, well. Umm, I thought I'd never post a thread like this, but times change, eh? I think I've finally got enough courage to ask this girl who I really like to a dance. The dance isn't for another couple months, but I've got my reasons. She's quite popular, not that she's one of those girls who goes out with everyone. However, there are a few people who I know who will want to go out with her, and I want to ask her out before they do, that's why I want to ask her a few months in advance. You see, I've known this girl for about two years now, and she is one of the only girls that I feel comfortable around, you know. She's a church girl, but she's not someone who quotes from the bible, if you know what I mean. I don't get this nervous feeling around her, I'm quite calm when I talk to her. I know that if I ask her out, that she will say yes. I know her well enough that she won't turn me down unless she's got a good reason (like someone else asking her out before me.) I don't know why I have been scared to ask her out. I guess the only thing I'm scared of is someone else asking her out before me. Anyways, I'm not asking for advice really, I just wanted to post something, I'm just excited/nervous I guess.




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#2 13 years ago

Man don't listen to me but seriously fuck man just go up to her and be all smooth about it dont pull some fucking pussy shit and be like hey want to go to the dance because that shit doesnt work dude you get a rose just one rose she will dig that shit it works everytime seriously then you go up to her and be all cool about it and be like hey I need a date for the dance or you know what fuck that dont even listen to me that worked for me but it is difference for everyone see we have homecoming so I had to ask a chick out and yeah I was all smooth with it none of that nervous pussy shit and now Im downloading music.




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#3 13 years ago

just listen to Jak, and everything will be ok :rolleyes: go for it aero


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#4 13 years ago

Dude don't listen to me I am slightly fucked right now wait until morning so I can be coherent with my thoughts and all that cool stuff. Stalker man you know I love you don't hate.




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#5 13 years ago

@ JaKoB 88 WTF.gif I just about died from lack of air after trying to read your entire post. Check this link out. ;) @ Aeroflot, ask her out as soon as you feel comfortable. I missed out on a girl I really like(d).




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#6 13 years ago

Fuck you dude don't tell me how to use a fucking period I kow what a afucking period is dude seriously I will use a period for this sentence dude just relax man.




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#7 13 years ago

same here, i totally fucked up....didnt ask when i should have, and now....well, there just isnt a chance...... moral of story....dont pass it up, its better to try and be rejected, than to not try and forever wonder "what if" I know Jak, i know :D


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#8 13 years ago
JaKoB 88Man don't listen to me but seriously fuck man just go up to her and be all smooth about it dont pull some fucking pussy shit and be like hey want to go to the dance because that shit doesnt work dude you get a rose just one rose she will dig that shit it works everytime seriously then you go up to her and be all cool about it and be like hey I need a date for the dance or you know what fuck that dont even listen to me that worked for me but it is difference for everyone see we have homecoming so I had to ask a chick out and yeah I was all smooth with it none of that nervous pussy shit and now Im downloading music.

amazing . . . I count one period in that entire thing :lookaround:

Anyway, good for you Aero, sounds like you've got it all down. Just one word of advice, make sure you don't scare her.

A friend of mine wanted to go with another friend of mine and I know they both liked each other, but she was going with someone else, which he was unaware of (damn faulty intelligence :mad: ). So he went out and bought a dozen roses, a box of chocoletes and a teddy bear and put them on her car and watched her walk out to it after school (I was told to watch as well for another set of eyes and facial interpretation). She was extremely happy, but found it slightly creepy considering she was involved, and the act, while she was extremely flattered and happy (this coming both from my visual interpretation of events and what she told me herself), but it only alienated them at that point and at half a year he still hasn't got another shot.

Moral of the story, don't go full-court press unless you know you have all the information or you might make her uncomfortable

But so long as you know the situtation as much as you sound like you do, you should have it covered, just act natural ;)

[edit]Thanx amoreelitesoldier, I was just looking for that period thing ;) [/edit]




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#9 13 years ago

Rejection sucks man but when you are like 20 just be like whatever that bitch probably had nothing on this anyway and just be all cool about it be like if she rejects you just be like oh well what the fuck did I have to lose just virginity lmao.




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#10 13 years ago

If you are asking about this on an internet forum, odds are that you don't have a chance in hell. Oh well, never hurts to ask. Maybe she'll get a laugh out of it.