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#1 11 years ago

Fuck, fuck, fuck...

Sorry for being a cow I just feel like you say all that stuff out of convienience because certain other girls you like have rejected you or something, and I'm just kind of an easy nobody you can just pretend with until someone else comes along. You don't love me, you don't know me. I'm boring and strange, I make big deals out of fuck all and I treat people like shit. Not that it matters even if you did, we're never going to meet again or get back together. I am going to die alone, not even with cats or anything.

Anyway, basically the point of the message is to say I'm really sorry if I hurt your feelings. I'm going home now so talk soon, or not.

Why not just rip my heart out?

Fuck sake, things can never go right. First, I get refused my loan for my future plans then the one girl whom I thought genuinely liked me, and would help me get my back together with my life, tells me that. I don't fucking get it. How come its the nice guys who have crap lives? I haven't actually done anything to deserve being treated like crap, and doubted like that. I do genuinely like her, she fails to see that, and now she's told me to piss off. Oh, and on top of that my future plans came crashing down, my family still hate me, I live in quite possibly the crappiest city in England, and I have a fucking dead-end job. Yeah, life is fucking sweet...




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#2 11 years ago

Echonomix;3680090Fuck, fuck, fuck...

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Why not just rip my heart out?

Fuck sake, things can never go right. First, I get refused my loan for my future plans then the one girl whom I thought genuinely liked me, and would help me get my back together with my life, tells me that. I don't fucking get it. How come its the nice guys who have crap lives? I haven't actually done anything to deserve being treated like crap, and doubted like that. I do genuinely like her, she fails to see that, and now she's told me to piss off. Oh, and on top of that my future plans came crashing down, my family still hate me, I live in quite possibly the crappiest city in England, and I have a fucking dead-end job. Yeah, life is fucking sweet...

Things just keep getting worse and worse your way aye mate? I'm going to say this straight out. A lot of the words, advice, and help that people are going to offer to you in this thread really won't mean much in the long run. All it'll turn into is a debate about whose advice is better anyways.

Ill say what I can never-less. Quite recently I came into a problem with a lady friend, stuff happened between us, and well, it got me quite down. But a wise old friend of mine, he said to me;

Don't ever let yourself get down over a girl. There are plenty more out there, plenty, and all is required is a little looking.

While this girl is important, obviously, do your best to make things right. Unless you are determined enough to let if slide, chase after her, be a romantic, girls love that.

Not much I can say about your life plans.. as I don't know what they are. Keep your chin up. Around the corner there is always something new. And all that optimistic junk.

Fact is, determination, attitude and perseverance will see you through anything. And if all else fails, why not go for a job in the military? I'm serious there too. From my point of view it builds character, can give you a lifetime experience, and set you on your feet.

I know that last part might sound a wee bit stupid and ignorant, just throwing things out there.

Hope stuff works out mate.




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#3 11 years ago

Milo;3680184Things just keep getting worse and worse your way aye mate?[/quote] You honestly have no idea, man. I thought I was beginning to get it back on track, like I said, then all these things happen at once and it just comes crashing down. I don't know - they say your life is laid out for you the moment you are born. Maybe I was supposed to lead this pathetic excuse for a life, or maybe its Gods way of telling me that the time has come for me to move on, and is pushing me to death.

I just don't know.

Milo;3680184While this girl is important, obviously, do your best to make things right. Unless you are determined enough to let if slide, chase after her, be a romantic, girls love that.

I'm trying my best man, but she isn't having any of it.

I'm afraid I've lost her for good.

[quote=Milo;3680184] I know that last part might sound a wee bit stupid and ignorant, just throwing things out there.

Hope stuff works out mate.

Naw, man, I'm glad I got a mature response.




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#4 11 years ago
You honestly have no idea, man. I thought I was beginning to get it back on track, like I said, then all these things happen at once and it just comes crashing down. I don't know - they say your life is laid out for you the moment you are born. Maybe I was supposed to lead this pathetic excuse for a life, or maybe its Gods way of telling me that the time has come for me to move on, and is pushing me to death. I just don't know.

Nah. Mate, life is never on a set path for you. While fate may take a hand in some things, we are in control, at least in a free world. No. Don't let the voices in your head, those around you, or whatever the hell tell you that you are leading a pathetic excuse for a life. That is caving in, giving up. And when you give up, you have nothing left.

I'm trying my best man, but she isn't having any of it. I'm afraid I've lost her for good.

Sometimes things just don't work out. I understand that, and there isn't anything we can do. If you've lost her you've lost her. Look around you. There is always someone where you least expect it. And thats speaking from experience.

Naw, man, I'm glad I got a mature response.

It's the only kind of response things like this deserve, and hell, I'm happy to help!

I understand things are easier said than done. But you need to find something rewarding in life. Join a humanitarian program, community service, something. Just get out and do something you could never see yourself doing. Leave home, get a fresh start, get a haircut maybe. Anything to change your attitude, it's amazing what the smallest things can do.




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#5 11 years ago
Echonomix;3680090 Fuck sake, things can never go right. First, I get refused my loan for my future plans then the one girl whom I thought genuinely liked me, and would help me get my back together with my life, tells me that. I don't fucking get it.

She sounds like a depressed, insecure twat and I wouldn't bother with her. In fact, good luck finding a woman that isn't emotionally insecure (no, that isn't sexist...it's the truth).

How come its the nice guys who have crap lives? I haven't actually done anything to deserve being treated like crap, and doubted like that.

Don't act like you need or depend on her. You probably put her up on a pedestal and it freaked her out.

I do genuinely like her, she fails to see that, and now she's told me to piss off.

Did you actually tell her you love her? If so, that is what your downfall was. You need to take it a bit slower and get to know each other a bit more. Don't share emotions with her or you'll stay in her friend zone for eternity.

Oh, and on top of that my future plans came crashing down, my family still hate me, I live in quite possibly the crappiest city in England, and I have a fucking dead-end job. Yeah, life is fucking sweet...

Things will get better for sure. Life is a roller coaster ride filled with wonderful highs and suck-ass lows. Hang in there. :beer:




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#6 11 years ago

What she is trying to say to you is "FIGHT FOR ME". She wants you to prove her statement wrong. Girls say things for a reaction. She wants you to say...I know you, I want you and I will not go to the next girl I find more attractive. She wants a positive reaction from you.




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#7 11 years ago

I told her that tonight, and we giggled and had a laugh.

It was nice.

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But I don't think it'll ever go back to how it was.




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#8 11 years ago

Hmph. You seem to be eager to light up your beacon of hope only to fall back into a pit of self-pity. Stop overestimating things. Stop putting hope in things that have not yet happened. Stop dreaming. Stop thinking you're the only one in the world with problems.

Think about this moment; the one you are in. Not the one you wish you were in, or the one you used to be in - neither will do you any good. Wishful thinking never got anyone anywhere, actions did. Think of your current situation, whatever it may be, and how it can be improved. Realistically, that is, not "I might win the lottery"-style thinking, but things you could go out tomorrow and improve. You care too much for insignificant things.

Your girlfriend doesn't matter. Your family doesn't matter. Your location doesn't matter. Your job *does* matter, but only for the money to improve your situation.

You have three options; do what I said and improve your life, wallow in self-pity or catch the bullet-train.




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#9 11 years ago

If its any help, I downed more vodka and pills tonight.

I'm also considering trying harder stuff.

I need help...




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#10 11 years ago

An addiction on top of all other problems you have is probably not going to make things better. Pull yourself together and stay away from drugs, it's only a small step from drinking Vodka when you feel bad to becoming an alcoholic.

If you need help this is most likely not the best place, look for someone who is trained to give advice for such situations instead.