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#31 13 years ago
styphonWhy should two people be misserable with each other just because they made a mistake. Divorce can be a good thing. Although people always talk about the destructive effects it has, look at how destrcutive a disfunctional mariage is to everyone involved? Think about the concequenses of your ideas before sticking to you guns.

The idea is to make it so they are aware of how important the decision is. If they married the right person divorce would not be necesary.




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#32 13 years ago
OverwatchThe idea is to make it so they are aware of how important the decision is. If they married the right person divorce would not be necesary.

and if I only bought the right winning lottery ticket...:rolleyes: No offence but you really have a lot to learn about life. opinions are fine but don't enforce your uneducated, inexperienced ones on others who are actually in this situation, in real life.

Dys, I'm not sure on the terms you guys are on but I hope you have a good Lawyer? I can't help ya with the emotional stuff,, only time and another piece of ass is going to heal that. Women are something else, eh.




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#33 13 years ago

ßeef Flapsand if I only bought the right winning lottery ticket...:rolleyes: No offence but you really have a lot to learn about life. opinions are fine but don't enforce your uneducated, inexperienced ones on others who are actually in this situation, in real life.[/quote]

[quote=Overwatch]The idea is....

Don't take it the wrong way.




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#34 13 years ago
OverwatchDon't take it the wrong way.

How should I take it? You can NEVER know someone until you live with them for a a certain amount of time. There is no guarantee of a perfect marriage. When two people can't live together any longer for whatever reson it's healthy for them to go their separate ways. Staying together for religious or whatever reasons is NOT healthy. Some problems in life cannot be "worked out" and must be dealt with. Someday you will understand all this. Sometimes parents will stay together if they have young children, but that only fools the kids for so long anyway.

Marriage is nothing more than a written contract and contracts are broken everyday. Making divorce illegal is a very silly statement to make. If anything make marriage harder to obtain. I can approve of that from a financial POV but that's about it.




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#35 13 years ago
ßeef FlapsIf anything make marriage harder to obtain.

Do that then.




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#36 13 years ago

Separating from someone you love always is and always will be a suck-ass thing to (have to) do. I also recently broke up (well, she did) and well, it sucks. Yeah, I know, me 'only being 16', I know i've still gotten a whole life in front of me, but at this moment, it sucks like hell. The 'good' thing about this extremely bad happening is, dysfunctional, that you also are young enough and also still have got a whole life in front of you. You aren't too old; you have plenty of time to find some else. If you still love your wife, I know you won't find any other woman as lovely as your wife, but time will heal. I've yet to find that out, but I'm sure of that.

Well, I wish you good look with your divorce. Try to stay friends with her? Oh, and talking about it helps.

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About divorce in general.

As some have said, marriage isn't taken to seriously these days, that's what the main problem is. Las Vegas, alcohol, (celebrities), and voíla you've gotten another one-night-marriage. One-night-stands aren't good enough these days anymore, it seems ;). With these 'easy' marriages, divorces are also rappidly increasing, more and more are coming. This causes a whole lot of 'there is no true love' scenarios.

Should divorce be illigal? No. Maybe marriage has got to be taken more seriously, but banning divorce isn't a smart option. There are people, who really thought they had found their 'true' (differs in opinions) love, but (either after 2, 3,4 - 10 years) found it didn't work out. Should they live their next 40 years being unhappy?

Also, I've noticed many negativity about 'true' love. Well, call me optimistic, I still believe so. If two people meet, they might be lucky and be happy with eachother with the rest of their lives. I'm kinda.. 'romantic' in these sort of things; I believe in it. I wouldn't mind spending my whole life with the one I love.




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#37 13 years ago
OverwatchDo that then.

and how would you plan on getting that to happen? Tell people they can't get married because the Govt doesn't feel it's time? People just need to use some common sense when getting ready to commit. Their stupid heart and emotions do all the thinking. "I am going to be with her/him forever" "I love everything about her/him"

Then they live together and find out about everything that they like and hate about that person. Or one half doesn't know how to handle money... oh yeah this is a big problem in relationships that will end in divorce real quick. Time goes on and feelings change sometimes.

My advice is live with that person you think you love and will be with forever. If shit goes South you both walk away and move on. No Lawyers or hitmen.

Pre-nup Pre-nup Pre-nup. I can't state it enough.




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#38 13 years ago

ßeef Flapsand how would you plan on getting that to happen? Tell people they can't get married because the Govt doesn't feel it's time? People just need to use some common sense when getting ready to commit. Their stupid heart and emotions do all the thinking. "I am going to be with her/him forever" "I love everything about her/him"

Then they live together and find out about everything that they like and hate about that person. Or one half doesn't know how to handle money... oh yeah this is a big problem in relationships that will end in divorce real quick. Time goes on and feelings change sometimes.

My advice is live with that person you think you love and will be with forever. If shit goes South you both walk away and move on. No Lawyers or hitmen.

Pre-nup Pre-nup Pre-nup. I can't state it enough.

You just won't quit will you, I quoted you because I agree with you, now you're arguing with your own opinion?? I didn't even read anything past the first sentence, I was going to continuing stating my opinion, but I knew I wouldn't have proven my point to you. So even when I agree with you I get cut down..... *bails




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#39 13 years ago
OverwatchYou just won't quit will you, I quoted you because I agree with you, now you're arguing with your own opinion?? I didn't even read anything past the first sentence, I was going to continuing stating my opinion, but I knew I wouldn't have proven my point to you. So even when I agree with you I get cut down..... *bails

I was not cutting you down. I was just rambling what was on my mind about this subject. Now how are you going to learn if ya don't read? :beer:




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#40 13 years ago
OverwatchThe idea is to make it so they are aware of how important the decision is. If they married the right person divorce would not be necesary.

How do you know if it's the right person? I fell in love with one of my best friends. We never got together because she had a boyfriend (who, is now one of my best mates). I knew her like the back of my hand. We were involved in a car crash (I was driving, but it was her fault, not going into details here). After which, even though she knew she'd caused it she was (undistandably) scared of going in a car. She got over that but she still became a safety freek. It started to realy affect her, and now she has changed so much that we had a huge argument and fell out. I would have been willing to spend the rest of my life with her when I realised how I felt. I thought she was going to be the one. But she changed... How can you know who the right person is? What if that right person changes? You seriously have no clue about what you are talking. You're thinking of a fairy tale world where everything is perfect and you instantly know when you're with the right person. It doesn't work like that kid.