Im 13 years old and i only have 2 friends at school i don't know whats wrong with im nice to everyone but i can't make any friends :/:bawl: can someone help me with this?
no, i am not a girl,but thanks
30th January 2005
13? i thougth you where 16 . o well . the best way to make friends is to find people who are into what you are into no mater how outside the norm that may be. joining after school clubs is good too.
I'm too cool to Post
30th April 2004
Everyone point and laugh at the looser. Kidding... Get off of GF and socialize man! It really helps. Oh yeah, change your age, you say here that you are 16.
Voice of joy and sunshine
26th May 2003
You're friendly with their enemies who in turn see you being friendly with their enemies and so on. You're nice to everyone, therefore people see you as weak and unreliable, a liability. Decide who you don't like and who you do like.
4th August 2003
Well, you are only 13. That is a pretty tough time for many kids, as you're going through social and physical changes. Hormones are raging. Other kids usually suck. Just wait a few years, and try to hang out with kids that you most easily get along with. You're not going to become friends with everyone, that's just a fact of life.
I garantee you that things are not as bad as they seem.
40 years of the Ford Escort!
10th October 2004
The best thing you can do is find out what your classmates are interested in, once you know that you should be able to start up a conversation, if they respond negatively then it's most likely that you won't get along with them (though it could be possible they are just shy), but if they respond positively, then you could well be on your way to making a new friend, well that's how it usually works with me. A GSOH is usually a good thing for making new friends, though you wouldn't want to be too OTT, that'll just make you look stupid.
So if ur saying for Ex: I ask someone if they like rap and they say ya and then i start up a conversation?
I'm way cooler than n0e (who isn't though?)
14th April 2004
dont worry its just a phase everyone goes through it , it will pass
I would die without GF
29th November 2003
The best thing to do, scoop, is to talk to a variety of people, idealy those who you have observed for some time, and see if you can make friends with them from common points of interest. Don't be afraid to be turned down...kids are almost never so mean that they will turn away from you quickly without at least being friendly and continuing with the conversation. Show interest in people, get involved, mingle and I'm sure it'll work out for the better.
As yod@ here says, it is a phase that we as teens all go through and that you will work your way through just like everybody else. ;)
Oh cool thanks but half the kids at my school hate me Because i just am crazy sometimes but i try to make friends but it never works :/