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monkey_05_06

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#1 13 years ago

I'm just wondering...Is it completely freakishly weird to find yourself falling in love with someone you've never met? You're all going to laugh when I say who it is, but I have only recently started listening to the music of Avril Lavigne. And watching some of her videos I swear I'm falling in love. You have to realize that I don't use the word lightly. She has got to be the most amazing person I have ever seen. Well...that's pretty much it I guess.




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#2 13 years ago

It can't be love. A physical attraction, perhaps. That's called "lust." It is impossible to love someone when they've never spoken directly to you in any way.




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#3 13 years ago

the concept of love is up to individual interpretation so i wont tell you if what you are feeling is love, what i will tell you is that you may see in Avril more of the ideal woman, a muse if you will. it can be a positive thing to be inspired by someone , as long as you dont make an altar to her or start stalking. just look for those qualities in a girl you are actually able to interact with, then you will now if your feelings towards Avril where love.




monkey_05_06

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#4 13 years ago

It's actually not a physical attraction. Yes I am physically attracted to her, but there's a lot more to it than that. Basically I think it has to do with how much she reminds me of...someone else I know (personally).




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#5 13 years ago

Well then you're probably in love with that person.




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#6 13 years ago
monkey_05_06I'm just wondering...Is it completely freakishly weird to find yourself falling in love with someone you've never met? You're all going to laugh when I say who it is, but I have only recently started listening to the music of Avril Lavigne. And watching some of her videos I swear I'm falling in love. You have to realize that I don't use the word lightly. She has got to be the most amazing person I have ever seen. Well...that's pretty much it I guess.

Not weird in the sense of unusual, plenty of people have a crush on singers when they're your age. Weird in the sense of perhaps a little unhealthy though, yeah, yeah I do think it's weird. I mean you've never met her, you might want to do her and I sympathise, she's a nice piece of arse; but love, no, not just from watching her videos. You might love her music, you might love her appearance, you might create a personality you imagine the person having based upon what you know of their music and appearance. But I don't think you actually love the person, you perhaps love the fantasy you've created of the person but that's probably it.




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#7 13 years ago

:gpost: Such eloquence... why can't I explain things like that? >.




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#8 13 years ago

Avril Lavigne is a poser biotch. Mack




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#9 13 years ago

Well, that was a worthless post.




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#10 13 years ago

Agreed with forge, The dude is spilling his guts and because the MTV generation has told you what to like you call her a, "poser biotch"? Intellegent... Personally I find her music to be quite good, I also enjoy Nine Inch nails and The who, so what I wont call her a "poser biotch" because of her choice in style, music, or lifestyle. Now to get on topic. I Tend to see myself agreeing with 'The contender' And 'Nemmele' on this matter. I would hardly call it love, more along the lines of lust, if anything. Now as you mentioned A possibility of an attraction to another Girl, I would advise speaking to her, this could be a sprouting of a love for this girl, and then i would say Never, Never miss an oppurtunity in a matter like this, if you even sense love, (in real life mind you ;)) go after it, don't let it slip away over minor things such as Modesty and what-not, go for the Real life girl. Good luck. :)