Girlfriend cheated on me. 64 replies

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Natasha K

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#21 16 years ago

Whatever you do, dont lay a finger on her because she could land you in the courts and you may find yourself worse off:( If my boyfriend cheated on me, I'd first find out if it is actually true and then I would sit him down, talk about it for hours and then come to a conclusion about whether to dump him or not. Just thinking about it though, if he did cheat on me, I'd have to let him go as soon as possible because not only would it show that he would of been untrustworthy to me, but also the fact he couldnt give a damn about me and my feelings. Yes thats my advice. Talk to her about it. Violence gets nowhere though ... Best Wishes, Natasha




Hiroyoshi

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#22 16 years ago
magicmacehey i have this gf, and I found out that she cheated on me, I saw it too, im gonna tell her pretty soon, but what should i do to her, should i beat the sh*t out of her or pretend nothing happened and f*ck the Hell out of her.:uhm:

I'm not sure why you're entertaining either of the last two options--one is a crime and totally undeserved, the other ignores the problem and that'll create secrecy and bad feelings later on. No matter what she does, you should NEVER touch her in violence. You don't have the right to take out your frustration on her; and if you did, I wouldn't blame her for leaving or sending you to jail. We don't know enough details about your situation, but the best bet is probably to discuss and work things out with her, expressing how you feel and seeing how she feels. If she wants the other man more, that's her choice. It's your job to be the best you can be for her and to love her as much as you can. If she doesn't value that, then it is her loss.




Yannick

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#23 16 years ago

yeah dont touch her at all. in america she will sue and win.




Grimme

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#24 16 years ago

Mt Über-Romantic Advise. Fuck the Brains out of her [joke] and afterwards have a long lecture about loyalty and faithfulness. Put her under pressure [I'm talking about the lecturing here] and start asking "Would you be loyal to me?". Try to get her to admit, that way you get satifaction.....




Yannick

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#25 16 years ago

Cruel, but effective.




colonel_bob

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#26 16 years ago

Just start making really snide comments about it and see if she notices or feels guilty about it. Then break up with her.




JizzyB

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#27 16 years ago

Haha thats clever. Beat her? No I dont think that will accomplish much...




Mastershroom Advanced Member

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#28 16 years ago

Beating a woman is one of the lowest things any man could do. If I were you, I would have a talk with her and make sure she understands that this is her last chance and it will be over if you ever find out she cheated again. Shedding a tear while talking wouldn't hurt. But do not beat her, she (and no other woman, for that matter) doesn't deserve that unless she physically assaulted you first, which she didn't.




NiteStryker

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#29 16 years ago
magicmacehey i have this gf, and I found out that she cheated on me, I saw it too, im gonna tell her pretty soon, but what should i do to her, should i beat the sh*t out of her or pretend nothing happened and f*ck the Hell out of her.:uhm:

O yea real good idea...go ahead and beat this girl to within an inch of her life :rolleyes:

Even I think thats a bad idea...and people who kno me will be shocked that I said that :lol:

How about, instead of physicially harming her, you just end it? Call her up and say 'hey baby its me...yea, its over, buh-bye', hang up, and move on?

Cuz there is one tiny problem with beating her to a pulp: You would get arrested.




Exploder

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#30 16 years ago

Nah don't beat her up, calm yourself down, and ask her politely about the truth.

But if it happens again don't give a second chance.