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Sephirias

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3rd January 2004

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#1 15 years ago

Right now i know there are a couple of girls on GF, but really listen to this...

Right back on sunday, i broke up with my girlfriend, Jess, she said it was the "distance", she broke with me after 7months of happiness...

but on monday i was talking to another girl, called Katrina, now today i asked her to go out with me, and she said yes, but the thing is, Jess doesnt know, and Jess just asked me to go back out with her just after i asked katrina out, now this isnt funny, i know its 2 girls and someone hardly ever gets the chance, well 3 days ago, i was choosing between 4...

right i need some advice, i mean Jess and Katrina Know each other, and they both live not far from each other... i really feel sick because jess doesnt know... and i dont want to turn her down after all this... but i dont want to hurt Katrina,

i really need help, any of it would be appreciated, the thing is, i know they both have feelings for me, and i have feelings for them, and thats why i dont want to hurt either of them you know? thx i hope i can have this sorted by the end of this weekend, the faster the better, because my whole week has been like this, and its starting to really annoy me...:mad: thanks anyway GamingForums Members...




DnC

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#2 15 years ago

Jess seems the one that wil understand the most, tell her whats happened then go from there.




suzukiltd

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#3 15 years ago

Why do we need to know their names? Also you cant have feelings for 2 girls. More like you dont have real feelings for them and your just experience a small crush. Also what advice can you possibly get from anyone that you dont already know?

Jess seems the one that wil understand the most, tell her whats happened then go from there.

Like that would ever work lol. Also if you ask somebody out right after you break up, then you probably never had reall feelings for her in the beginning. The fact that she broke up with you and wants you back should give you the hint that you are being used like a sucker. If I were you, I would say screw you, let other girls have their chance. (In a more formal way of course)




Sindrevike

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#4 15 years ago

wtf is wrong with u ppl? pimp em both man. ;)




Sephirias

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#5 15 years ago

getting used for what tho, coz me and jess never ever did ANYTHING like that... she didnt want me to spend money on her, i stayed at her house everytime we were together, so i really dont know what you mean by saying i was getting used..




Darknight

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#6 15 years ago

You have already said you would go out with Katrina go with her...........




Giz Advanced Member

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#7 15 years ago

i suggest explaining to katrina the situation. that you just got out of a long relationship, and you are unfamiliar with these feelings that are going on inside of you. tell her that you needed compassion and wanted the pain to go away and felt close to katrina. now however the girl you loved has come back and want's to give it a go again. explain to them both that you didn't get involved with katrina to hurt anyone, but rather were confused (and still are). they should understand. should.

word to the wise, don't rebound so quick. this is a good example why.

hope it work's out m8.




Μαjïç MushrøøM

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#8 15 years ago

Yes, I would advise the you discuss the matter with both of them, Jess and Katrina, and explain your internal feelings about what how the situation is going. You are obviously torn between the two of them, so I would make it a duty to reveal your feelings to both of them in the most frank but polite manner possible. Attempt to work out a compromise, depending on how each of them feels toward you, your relationship with each of them and their feelings toward one another.

And as gizmo states, do NOT rush this, but take the time that is needed. That will help to keep the situation vastly more stable for all three of you.

Good luck with it anyway. ;)




Spyder F-16

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#9 15 years ago

Well... Talk to them.

Tell Jess that you thought she made it official, and you were going to start dating another girl. People need to be careful on their actions...




Nusentinsaino

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#10 15 years ago

The Truth wont hurt forever Ben, Just choose what is best, and after all you are 15 and there are billions of fish in the sea to fry!