You are still very young, and all this seems very important to you, Just think of it this way- In five years, will any of these people matter in your life? Most likely, you will move to college, and never see them again. So who cares, just make a desision and stick to it.
Shizzle my nizzle
28th July 2004
If you have been going out together for seven months then suddenly broke up, I think you both made a mistake and hadn't really thought it through. Go for Jess as you lasted seven months with her and if you lasted that long there must be something going on. I am sure Katrina is nice but she must understand what you have with Jess.
Aww. I found myself in a similar situation when I was about your age. A guy I'd been dating for 4 months split up with me, another guy asked me out, and then the old bf wanted me back. It's quite possible to have feelings for more than one person. And it can be difficult, because you don't know which one to choose, and don't want to hurt either of them. My thought is you should just be honest with both of them. Honesty is always better than lying, because you never have to remember what you said. See how they react, and take it from there. If either of them are worth your time at all, they'll understand and be sympathetic to your problem. If they decide this makes them not want to be with you, then quite frankly you're better off, hun. I know if I was one of those girls, I'd rather have honesty. Lies hurt a lot more in the long run, because quite often they are found out. Whatever you decide to do, good luck! :)
or you can pimp them both...
Tap112wtf is wrong with u ppl? pimp em both man. ;)
What he said :D
Jess broke up with you so dont take her back. Whatever the reasons she wanted it, so let her have it. Find out what u can do with Katrina.
What, is this some internet relationship?
18th November 2004
Jess said you broke because of "distance" and yet you claim you were happy for 7 months. If it were me, I would see how things work out with Katrina, and if you are right for each other, that's great. If not, talk with Jess about rekindling your relationship. I recently broke up with my girlfriend (although it was a completely different reason) and this is what I would do if she and another girl both wanted me.
I would die without GF
29th November 2003
NiteStrykerWhat, is this some internet relationship?
If that is the case, then I would, from personal experience long past, not expect it to last long at all. :vikki:
If that is the case, then I would, from personal experience long past, not expect it to last long at all.
Also only suckers go for internet relationships.
NiteStrykerJess broke up with you so dont take her back. Whatever the reasons she wanted it, so let her have it. Find out what u can do with Katrina.
yeh. Jess said she wanted to break up so thats that. Just say that u already asked out another girl and u thought she meant it when u broke up. If she gives u any crap just say that it hurt when she broke up with you. We (girls) can be sensitive to our guys feelings if it is something like that. Just like u dont want to hurt Katrina. I am not really expirienced in this area but its what I would do.