How Guys Think? Tell me if I'm right or wrong 33 replies

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Crazy Wolf VIP Member

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#11 12 years ago

I concur, good sir!:lol: 1. Depends on the guy 2. In a way, but I prefer to not get into fistfights, as I am always the one who gets most of the blame. I would prefer to poison or infect someone, rather than getting into a fight with them. Works just as well, and with less problems for me. 3. I think that some people are logical, but some are too stupid, insecure, etc. to use logic. I prefer to use logic. This is one reason why my answer to 2 was what it was. 4. This is an odd one. Prioirities vary from person to person. my primary priority in life: avoid death.




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#12 12 years ago

*moved to the pub*




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#13 12 years ago

Those points may apply to a lot of men, but I don't think that it covers all of them. And there are also a lot of women who behave along those lines, it seems to be connected to the way they were brought up.

Besides, I think it's not a good idea to categorize genders that way, chauvinists and feminists do that all the time. Isn't it better if there remains a bit of mystery about the other sex?

As for the specific points; 1. I think this is true, as you wrote in your mail, many men try to be appear not very emotional but are rather soft at the core. On the other hand you've also got those who try not to appear soft until they become hard with no soft spots whatsoever. There are also those who had to suffer from different things and harden up emotionally. 2, 3 and 4: I think that's true. Maybe it's in the nature of male beings, or maybe society expects this from us, but most men behave like this.




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#14 12 years ago

Guys can get just as cut up about relationships as girls can. Being lied to or cheating on hurts anyone, whether they chose to show it or not depends on the person, not the gender.




Guns4Hire

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#15 12 years ago
Jill Once guys fall in love, they let their guard down. They are completely vulnerable just like what just happened to BLANK . We girls have complete control over their emotions. We will be the only thing that matters to him in the whole world. Now here is the tricky part. If we burn the guy at this time and he know he is played and was in love, he will be ruined forever. There is no way in the world is he going to let his guard down again

You are right. Most guys do let their guard down after falling in love and you females can pretty much stomp on us and we'll take it, providing you are worth it ;) Once a guy gets burned he is not ruined forever but he will be prepared and on guard BUT that guard will go down just like the last one. It takes a few fires to really affect most of us. As long as you are giving up the good stuff and give a decent back massage you have an ace in the hole.

If a guy has a problem with another guy, it is attacked head-on like with a fist-fight. He wants to solve the problem fast and to the point. On the other hand if we girls face this problem, we use the back-door approach. We fight our battles in a-round-about way instead of straight toe-to-toe battle. We spread rumours and spread insults where you know it will get back to the person you are dealing with. True or false?

I don't know, I have seen some pretty intense cat fights in my time. Women are no angels but yeah they like to go the verbal route first. Not all guys are physical, some will avoid a fight at all costs either because they are afraid of getting hurt or just are not aggressive.

3. Guys are logical. My Idea - Guys don't waste as much time thinking about things as much as we girls. They look at a situation, weigh the pros and the cons, and they go for it. It is simple yet they do it. You may think they are putting their fate in the wind, but they know this going into it. It is part of the risk they take. They accept it and feel ....if it happens, it happens. True or False?

That one really depends on the person, not really a gender thang IMO.

Some love cars. They can spend a lot of time and money with these vehicles of transportation. They baby them and build them up. It is important to make their rides perfect. They take pride in the work they do. Speed demons tweek their cars to go faster. 4wd guys get big tires to climb hills, rivers and big mud pits. True or False?

100% true. I am one of them. I've lost a few girlfriends due to my hobby. Eff them.

I really don't think guys "love" their cars to that extent. It's really just a hobby.

You have no clue just how much some guys love their cars. Some would put you in the hospital for just leaning on it ;) We car nuts spend un godly amounts of money to have good looking, fast fun cars that standout from the shopping cart grocery getter trasnportation mobiles you see everyday. Females would be wise to listen when a guy talks about his car ;)

I'm just really curious on how guys think. I'm I even close or way off?

Jill

You are pretty close depending on the age group. As we grow older we become much more wiser and do not put up with the games. Use your powers while you can.




Raven002

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#16 12 years ago

Well it is thought that girls are more sneaky and manipulative as I hear. You're right about the most of what you said, but I feel my mind is stronger than a lot of others in most areas. I follow people who I want to follow and do not do things because other people do it. I do what I want and I am myself, that's what makes me me. Although I am not sensetive at all, I used to be and it's worthless to be so. I'm just me.




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#17 12 years ago

There are also indeed a lot of guys out there who think of young women as nothing more than fuck toys.

Take whatever a guy tells you with a grain of salt and use good judgement.




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#18 12 years ago
JeffroWe need three things: 1.) Sex 2.) Beer 3.) Food And possibly television too. ;)

Well. At a certain age yes. The food part, i think it is limited. We dont want to get fat. The beer, that is limited to so i dont get drunk. Hey im not 21 yet so ill have to wait. :(




Biggus Dickus VIP Member

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#19 12 years ago

Jill1. Guys are sensitive (See above)[/quote] Extremely. Guys could never undergo what women can suffer.

Jill 2. Guys are problem solvers. My thoughts - Guys are natural problem solvers. they attack their problems head on. They are not like us girls that use the back door approach on dealing with matters. They want to assist the situation and solve it as fast as possible. Example: If a guy has a problem with another guy, it is attacked head-on like with a fist-fight. He wants to solve the problem fast and to the point. On the other hand if we girls face this problem, we use the back-door approach. We fight our battles in a-round-about way instead of straight toe-to-toe battle. We spread rumours and spread insults where you know it will get back to the person you are dealing with. True or false?[/quote] Well not obligatorily with fight. That depends of how old the guy is, I guess. As years are passing, I do prefer...talk.

[quote=Jill] 3. Guys are logical. My Idea - Guys don't waste as much time thinking about things as much as we girls. They look at a situation, weigh the pros and the cons, and they go for it. It is simple yet they do it. You may think they are putting their fate in the wind, but they know this going into it. It is part of the risk they take. They accept it and feel ....if it happens, it happens. True or False?

True, we loves simple things. Actually, we are simple persons ("simple" doesn't means obligatorily "idiot"). We talk just to ask for, or to share an information. No more. We don't like to talk just for the pleasure of a discussion. We don't see it that way.

[quote=Jill] 4. Guys have different priorities in life. Guys think different, therefore they have different priorities. They dwell and dream about certain things that most girls could care less about. Some might call them hobbies. Others theri life's ambitions. Example: Some love cars. They can spend a lot of time and money with these vehicles of transportation. They baby them and build them up. It is important to make their rides perfect. They take pride in the work they do. Speed demons tweek their cars to go faster. 4wd guys get big tires to climb hills, rivers and big mud pits. True or False?

Our priorities are not necessarily differents. But the fact is we can't have too much things to manage at the same time (still simplicity), not because we can't do it, but because we want to lead each priority to the end.




Jill

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#20 12 years ago

You know something....after reading several of these comments...I think I know what guys really want in life. I think guys just want to be happy. So girls...if you can keep your guys happy...they will be yours forever.:)