How Guys Think? Tell me if I'm right or wrong 33 replies

Please wait...

Biggus Dickus VIP Member

I would die without my life.

195,640 XP

19th January 2004

0 Uploads

18,764 Posts

0 Threads

#21 12 years ago

If only it was that simple...




Crazy Wolf VIP Member

Snipes With Artillery

277,420 XP

22nd March 2005

0 Uploads

27,192 Posts

0 Threads

#22 12 years ago

Hey, for you, BD, it should be:p




Biggus Dickus VIP Member

I would die without my life.

195,640 XP

19th January 2004

0 Uploads

18,764 Posts

0 Threads

#23 12 years ago

It's not the size. It's the way you use it.




Jackthehammer

You can either agree with meor be wrong.

50 XP

12th November 2003

0 Uploads

16,767 Posts

0 Threads

#24 12 years ago

Jill1. Guys are sensitive (See above) [/QUOTE] yes, how it shows, however, depends on the person.

jill2. Guys are problem solvers. My thoughts - Guys are natural problem solvers. they attack their problems head on. They are not like us girls that use the back door approach on dealing with matters. They want to assist the situation and solve it as fast as possible. Example: If a guy has a problem with another guy, it is attacked head-on like with a fist-fight. He wants to solve the problem fast and to the point. On the other hand if we girls face this problem, we use the back-door approach. We fight our battles in a-round-about way instead of straight toe-to-toe battle. We spread rumours and spread insults where you know it will get back to the person you are dealing with. True or false?[/QUOTE]

You are half right by saying we will deal with the matter at that given moment, either by words, or fists. (but it really depends on situation and person when fists are involved)

[QUOTE=jill]3. Guys are logical. My Idea - Guys don't waste as much time thinking about things as much as we girls. They look at a situation, weigh the pros and the cons, and they go for it. It is simple yet they do it. You may think they are putting their fate in the wind, but they know this going into it. It is part of the risk they take. They accept it and feel ....if it happens, it happens. True or False?

Partly true, in every day life, I myself make decisions that way. However, I do know that (specially in relationship situations) I can really fuck myself up in the head by thinking to much.

[QUOTE=Jill]4. Guys have different priorities in life. Guys think different, therefore they have different priorities. They dwell and dream about certain things that most girls could care less about. Some might call them hobbies. Others theri life's ambitions. Example: Some love cars. They can spend a lot of time and money with these vehicles of transportation. They baby them and build them up. It is important to make their rides perfect. They take pride in the work they do. Speed demons tweek their cars to go faster. 4wd guys get big tires to climb hills, rivers and big mud pits. True or False?

quite so, I love my car, and Im proud whenever I fix things, or build it up with my own urned money and free time. That is just the hobby part. I will not for instance kiss my car goodnight, that would be very materialistic.




emonkies

I'm too cool to Post

50 XP

17th July 2003

0 Uploads

15,096 Posts

0 Threads

#25 12 years ago

Difference in values. I have had g/f's who were obssessed with color coordinating the living and the furniture had to be just right.

To me a room is a place of comfort and looks are a secondary nature.

On the other hand my car is my hobby and obsession. I spend lots more money and time on my car than I should.




Raven002

Texhnolyze!

50 XP

24th June 2005

0 Uploads

69 Posts

0 Threads

#26 12 years ago
jackthehammeryes, how it shows, however, depends on the person. You are half right by saying we will deal with the matter at that given moment, either by words, or fists. (but it really depends on situation and person when fists are involved) Partly true, in every day life, I myself make decisions that way. However, I do know that (specially in relationship situations) I can really fuck myself up in the head by thinking to much. quite so, I love my car, and Im proud whenever I fix things, or build it up with my own urned money and free time. That is just the hobby part. I will not for instance kiss my car goodnight, that would be very materialistic.

Lol, anybody that kisses their car needs help. :p

Another difference is that guys rather talk or not talk, while women really like to bitch. And every dude knows it, either by mom or a female friend....I don't know why, it's just like women will keep arguing or just won't shut up. Seriously, but I guess that's just part of life.




Jill

Idiot Action-Adventure Girl

50 XP

7th July 2006

0 Uploads

3,415 Posts

0 Threads

#27 12 years ago
Raven002Another difference is that guys rather talk or not talk, while women really like to bitch. And every dude knows it, either by mom or a female friend....I don't know why, it's just like women will keep arguing or just won't shut up. Seriously, but I guess that's just part of life.

For sure. Most girls love to talk and talk and talk. We love to piss and moan too. It just makes us feel better.




Chris

I pretend I'm cooler than AzH

50 XP

20th February 2006

0 Uploads

5,663 Posts

0 Threads

#28 12 years ago

Well, for me, you're bang on the money.

We're human too! ;)




Jackthehammer

You can either agree with meor be wrong.

50 XP

12th November 2003

0 Uploads

16,767 Posts

0 Threads

#29 12 years ago

Anlushac11Difference in values. I have had g/f's who were obssessed with color coordinating the living and the furniture had to be just right.

To me a room is a place of comfort and looks are a secondary nature.

On the other hand my car is my hobby and obsession. I spend lots more money and time on my car than I should.

very good comparison :thumbsup: I couldnt think of one that quickly :)




Cap'n Rommel

The Good

50 XP

7th August 2004

0 Uploads

8,766 Posts

0 Threads

#30 12 years ago
1. Guys are sensitive (See above)

Indeed we are, we are just not always very good at showing it... which annoys some people..

2. Guys are problem solvers. My thoughts - Guys are natural problem solvers. they attack their problems head on. They are not like us girls that use the back door approach on dealing with matters. They want to assist the situation and solve it as fast as possible. Example: If a guy has a problem with another guy, it is attacked head-on like with a fist-fight. He wants to solve the problem fast and to the point. On the other hand if we girls face this problem, we use the back-door approach. We fight our battles in a-round-about way instead of straight toe-to-toe battle. We spread rumours and spread insults where you know it will get back to the person you are dealing with. True or false?

I wont say we beat eachother up each time we have problems... the big problem comes when a guy and a gal gets mad on eachother... they might want to be friends again, but the big difference on how they will solve the problem screws it all.

3. Guys are logical. My Idea - Guys don't waste as much time thinking about things as much as we girls. They look at a situation, weigh the pros and the cons, and they go for it. It is simple yet they do it. You may think they are putting their fate in the wind, but they know this going into it. It is part of the risk they take. They accept it and feel ....if it happens, it happens. True or False?

I would say its true... but I know from myself (not that im gay) that I like to think about things very long... and not always get them done.

4. Guys have different priorities in life. Guys think different, therefore they have different priorities. They dwell and dream about certain things that most girls could care less about. Some might call them hobbies. Others theri life's ambitions. Example: Some love cars. They can spend a lot of time and money with these vehicles of transportation. They baby them and build them up. It is important to make their rides perfect. They take pride in the work they do. Speed demons tweek their cars to go faster. 4wd guys get big tires to climb hills, rivers and big mud pits. True or False?

The main thing on a guys mind is sex... it cant be made otherwise, therefore to resist we find other things for hobby or to think of.. fx. fast, big cars and pehabs guns

I'm just really curious on how guys think. I'm I even close or way off?

Jill

The only thing you can do is to give any boy/man time, dont get pissed because of a simple accident.. if we do something terrible wrong: Tell us rigth up, the most will admit, pehabs not say sorry... but even boys have feelings so it will come...

But sometimes we also need a serious kick in the butt, if we gets to proud to do anything about troubles with a girl and just let her cry and miss him... Even though you love him, tell him that you'll break up if he doesnt change for the better, if he deciline... he obvious doesnt love you enough.