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Liquid fire

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#1 11 years ago

Wherever I go Im stuck in flirt mood guys. Im serious

At college durring class I flirt so much that Ive gotten so good at it and learned tricks and gestures women love so well that I have rows of women looking at me . Hoping I look back but that wouldnt be the cool thing to do, to look at them once and then ignore them the rest of class so I just keep the flirting to myself because to be honest no matter how cool I act around the laddies Im afaird to talk to em :lol:

I was at a restraunt today and chicks were laughing at my gestures that I was using to be funny. Mexican food and I pretended to be nervous and gestred some how that I feared I would get the shits but I did it in a clever and "cute" way. These women looked at me and were across the room. The hair playing game and the titled head on there palms as they watched me and smiled....

OH MAN !!! I HAVE SUCH A WAISTED GIFT MY FELLOW MEN :lol:

I dont use it to pick any chicks up.

Once a girl finds out I am sigh I fall apart and loose my cool and appeal...and Im very sigh to girls ...Im a kick ass flirt though. English class I pretend to ignore 2 girls that cant stop looking at me. One cute one that wears glasses a secretary type looking for an adventure and escape if you know what I mean...she is already pregnant too....

I CANT STOP FLIRTING!!! ITS STUCK ON!!! I go to the libery and talk to middle aged women and the like and they show signs that they enjoy my charm and flirting. Im good and almost every woman enjoys it but Its stuck on!

I think Im damn unstable I go into public and I put on a show ...Im unstable guys I go into public and I act appealing I cant even act normall. I just act damn sexy :lol:

Im so good at yet girls even asked me out that I never talked to. I turned them down brook there hearts and lead them to smoking because Im afaird of relationships.....

I cant stop flirting though its insane man. I think Im messed up.




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#2 11 years ago

Shut your hole man, you don't have a problem. You have a gift.

Use your charm to get a date and then get drunk while out on the date. It might unstick your mojo past the get-to-know-her stage.




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#3 11 years ago

Bob L. Scrachy;3519268Shut your hole man, you don't have a problem. You have a gift.

Use your charm to get a date and then get drunk while out on the date. It might unstick your mojo past the get-to-know-her stage.

IF I could grow a set. Pretending to be a cool dude and awesome and all that shit is alot more easy than it is to actually keep it up for severalll hours with a laddie Id suppose.

A gift...hmmm....maybe. If only I wasnt shy :lol:

This thread is so stupid yet I made it so it was worth my time....:beer:




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#4 11 years ago
briankory;3519254Wherever I go Im stuck in flirt mood guys. Im serious At college durring class I flirt so much that Ive gotten so good at it and learned tricks and gestures women love so well that I have rows of women looking at me . Hoping I look back but that wouldnt be the cool thing to do, to look at them once and then ignore them the rest of class so I just keep the flirting to myself because to be honest no matter how cool I act around the laddies Im afaird to talk to em :lol: I was at a restraunt today and chicks were laughing at my gestures that I was using to be funny. Mexican food and I pretended to be nervous and gestred some how that I feared I would get the shits but I did it in a clever and "cute" way. These women looked at me and were across the room. The hair playing game and the titled head on there palms as they watched me and smiled.... OH MAN !!! I HAVE SUCH A WAISTED GIFT MY FELLOW MEN :lol: I dont use it to pick any chicks up. Once a girl finds out I am sigh I fall apart and loose my cool and appeal...and Im very sigh to girls ...Im a kick ass flirt though. English class I pretend to ignore 2 girls that cant stop looking at me. One cute one that wears classes a secretary type looking for an adventure and escape if you know what I mean...she is already pregnant too.... I CANT STOP FLIRTING!!! ITS STUCK ON!!! I go to the libery at talk to middle aged women and the like and they show signs that they enjoy my charm and flirting. Im good and almost every woman enjoys it but Its stuck on! I think Im damn unstable I go into public and I put on a show ...Im unstable guys I go into public and I act appealing I cant even act normall. I just act damn sexy :lol: Im so good at yet girls even asked me out that I never talked to. I turned them down brook there hearts and lead them to smoking because Im afaird of relationships..... I cant stop flirting though its insane man. I think Im messed up.

This is an incredibly positive change from that thread a few weeks back asking for help. Like I told you, flirting is an incredible self-esteem booster, isn't it? So now you're at the next level. Last time, you couldn't flirt and you couldn't start a relationship. Now you can flirt, but you can't start a relationship. So the next step is, quite simply, to get you flirting and in a relationship. Baby steps. You're making progress (seriously, the difference in energy and tone between you and you the last time is pretty remarkable) The big thing seems to be your recollection of the past. I've heard your stories about your first relationship, the one you're alluding to when you say

Im so good at yet girls even asked me out that I never talked to. I turned them down brook there hearts and lead them to smoking because Im afaird of relationships.....

This is the most difficult lesson you'll learn: the past is past. First relationships which fail (as 101% of them do) can seem to drill the idea into your head that nothing will go right, but you have to shake it off. People who forget the past are condemned to repeat it. But you are conscious of the past, so it's time to move forward. Baby steps. You're going to start casually. You can flirt already, you're comfortable with that skill. Ask a girl if there she's heard of any good movies. You invite a girl to see a movie with you. Make it as casual as possible: you can even meet at the theater if you don't want to pick her up the first time (although do pay her way, always). It's a dark theater, you don't converse much. After the movie, you don't have to buy her dinner the first time. Just part ways. Casually. The next day, call her to ask her if she enjoyed herself (or ask her in class if you see her). No commitments, if she enjoys it say 'we should do it again some time.' Baby steps. Do that with a few girls (but do not make the mistake of asking a girl out in front of another girl you've already said 'we should do it again sometime' to. Our egos are all fragile). Casual stuff, like movies, Starbucks, buying her a quick lunch. A relationship doesn't have to start with hugs and flowers and anniversaries. It starts out with casual contact, conversation, and that you can do.

-Edit- Bob, that's not the way it works. Getting drunk on a first date has the following possibilities A) Crash and burn. 80% probability of occurrence. Destroys self-esteem, and she'll never look at you again B) Success with awful consequences. 19% probability of occurrence. You're stuck in a relationship you regret, or in the worst-case scenario get a disease or get pregnant C) Ideal success. 1% chance of occurrence. Not worth it to try.




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#5 11 years ago

Pb2Au;3519276This is an incredibly positive change from that thread a few weeks back asking for help. Like I told you, flirting is an incredible self-esteem booster, isn't it? So now you're at the next level. Last time, you couldn't flirt and you couldn't start a relationship. Now you can flirt, but you can't start a relationship. So the next step is, quite simply, to get you flirting and in a relationship. Baby steps. You're making progress (seriously, the difference in energy and tone between you and you the last time is pretty remarkable) The big thing seems to be your recollection of the past. I've heard your stories about your first relationship, the one you're alluding to when you say

This is the most difficult lesson you'll learn: the past is past. First relationships which fail (as 101% of them do) can seem to drill the idea into your head that nothing will go right, but you have to shake it off. People who forget the past are condemned to repeat it. But you are conscious of the past, so it's time to move forward. Baby steps. You're going to start casually. You can flirt already, you're comfortable with that skill. Ask a girl if there she's heard of any good movies. You invite a girl to see a movie with you. Make it as casual as possible: you can even meet at the theater if you don't want to pick her up the first time (although do pay her way, always). It's a dark theater, you don't converse much. After the movie, you don't have to buy her dinner the first time. Just part ways. Casually. The next day, call her to ask her if she enjoyed herself (or ask her in class if you see her). No commitments, if she enjoys it say 'we should do it again some time.' Baby steps. Do that with a few girls (but do not make the mistake of asking a girl out in front of another girl you've already said 'we should do it again sometime' to. Our egos are all fragile). Casual stuff, like movies, Starbucks, buying her a quick lunch. A relationship doesn't have to start with hugs and flowers and anniversaries. It starts out with casual contact, conversation, and that you can do.

Ive learned how to act and now I must be a real man :uhoh:

Ok Im going to try it , you're right. You guys are always right. Hmmm good posture. Eye contact. Smiles. Gestures. Respect...let them talk about themself ....listen . Comment. HmmmLet them feel important.

Check check. I'll give it a go....

Oh and just all of that other bs that goes along with it.....




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#6 11 years ago
briankory;3519275A gift...hmmm....maybe. If only I wasnt shy :lol:

Been there, done that. I also develeped a techinique that I call teleflirting (tele= distance, flirting= you know this) I have other people pubblicizing me while I am in a different part of the city. I was very very shy but in one year of true life I managed to loose a lot of this shyiness. Don' t really remember how though, maybe it was the friends, maybe the experience, maybe the weather, who knows, if I knew I' d tell you...




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#7 11 years ago
I dont use it to pick any chicks up.

You have a gift, but you don't use it:vikki: I would kill to have that gift for women my own age. I have no problem getting freshmen to like me, but I can't take freshmen to prom:p

Check check. I'll give it a go....

Good luck and have fun. Don't worry about anything, if something goes wrong, you can get another girl. Trial and error is the best way to learn. Dating is a blast.




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#8 11 years ago

It's the "I'm good" part youl eventualy be sorry about.




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#9 11 years ago

You know, do not take this to heart, but the amount of times you complimented yourself above, really made me think you thought yourself too self important.

Honestly, if you have so much confidence, you wouldnt sound so self-assuring.




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#10 11 years ago

Why is it a problem? as long as you keep your pecker in your pants when your commited, no harm no foul.