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Death_Korp_Of_KRIEG

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#1 13 years ago

Hi,

I have a problem going on in my life.

Well I was forced to come live with my dad in the U.A.E because of my poor behavior at school in Australia and because of my school work. Well I have recently got here and started school, school is good I like it I have made friends but my father is a idiot he make same do extra study for school for no reason I don’t need to study the work here is to easy but yet he makes me study each day he makes me right a page on each subject I did for the day what I learnt and so on so forth… Also Last night I was in bed n dad crept in quietly so I pretended to be asleep he creped around searching, then he found my phone he sat down on my chair face away from me but I could see my phone screen he went in and went threw my messages he put my phone back n crept out. This made me wonder wtf r u doing you fool going threw my god damn messages; he has no right NO RIGHT I SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t know what to do the fag tells me he is a good role modle for me, a good role model goes threw other peoples stuff I THINK NOT.

Well what do u think I should do?

SpaZy




DavetheFo

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#2 13 years ago

He is your father, and at the minute, he is still also your guardian, so therefore, at the minute, he does have the right to do what he is asking and doing.

Just go along with it, for the studying, as it will proove to him that you are willing to learn, and that you want to.

As for the phone, just delete your messages and call history before you go to bed.




Death_Korp_Of_KRIEG

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#3 13 years ago

but dont you think thats wrong that he goes threw my phone and doesnt give me privacy




Gauntlet

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#4 13 years ago

Are you muslims?

Just wondering.




LIGHTNING [NL]

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#5 13 years ago

Well, seeing as how you spelt 'know' as 'no', I think you should listen to your father.

Gauntlet, what does that have to do with anything?




Bowie992

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#6 13 years ago

Don't worry about your phone too much. There's a feature called phone lock I suggest that you use. Dave's right though you can't do anything much about him because he his your guardian.




Aeroflot

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#7 13 years ago

SpaZyHi,

I have a problem going on in my life.

Well I was forced to come live with my dad in the U.A.E because of my poor behavior at school in Australia and because of my school work. Well I have recently got here and started school, school is good I like it I have made friends but my father is a idiot he make same do extra study for school for no reason I don’t need to study the work here is to easy but yet he makes me study each day he makes me right a page on each subject I did for the day what I learnt and so on so forth… Also Last night I was in bed n dad crept in quietly so I pretended to be asleep he creped around searching, then he found my phone he sat down on my chair face away from me but I could see my phone screen he went in and went threw my messages he put my phone back n crept out. This made me wonder wtf r u doing you fool going threw my god damn messages; he has no right NO RIGHT I SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t know what to do the fag tells me he is a good role modle for me, a good role model goes threw other peoples stuff I THINK NOT.

Well what do u think I should do?

SpaZy

I don't want to critisize you, but your father is right, atleast for the most part. If your English in school is this croppy, then you really do need to write those pages on each subject, everyday. Afterall, he is only trying to help you, no harm can come from writing. As for him checking your messages, I think that's wierd, but he's just trying to make sure you are staying on task.




Flash525

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#8 13 years ago

Everyone is entitled to a life, your fatherc an't take that away from you. Just tell him that you don't feel the need to do this 'extra work', tell him your doing well at school (as you said you are), and tell him that if he doesn't believe you, that he can phone up the school and speak to your teachers, thus he will find out for himself that you were telling the truth. As for your phone, use a sim lock or something and as people said, delete your texts and call lists before hand (may also be wise to put your phone somewhere he wouldn't think of looking).




MR.X`

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#9 13 years ago

You need it! YOU DESPERATLY NEED IT.

I don't "no" what to do? Makes me "right" a paragraph...

Education is everything, everything!

And your father is right to go through your stuff. What kind of a parent lets his son grow up smoking or drinking? From the sound of it, you have a very good father who cares a lot from you. The only mistake I see in this whole thing is that he took you to the United Arab Emeraties, and not a country like England or the United States for private schooling.




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#10 13 years ago

Well education is very important so it's understandable that your dad wants you to make good progress. I can't say wether he is pushing you too far though, it depends on how your marks are in school. If he is trying to keep your marks above the six then I would agree on his actions, however if you are doing just fine and are getting proper marks without too much trouble he might be overdoing it.

If I were you I would just talk to him about it, how your marks are etc. and why you think your dad is making you do too much for school. He probably is just adraid to see you fail in school, though sometimes parents are so over obsessed with their kids marks that they actually harm the child with their over-concernedness. (is that a word? I think not :p ).