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#1 12 years ago

Im in college there is a girl who is all that I think about in my art class.She sat next to me today to talk with me and flirt. She is awesome. She really seems interested in me. Im only 18 but she seems to want to really become a close friend. Myabe just a friend but she seems more serious about me than that.

The conflict is that she is older than me. I cant say how old. She has taught a preschool class once though and I dont know how old she is.

I dont think she knows that I am younger.Older woman go nuts over me. Im a laddies man for older women and apparently those my age as well. Ive never been so happy and lucky in my whole life. Women finally notice me and this girl seems awesome but I dont know how old she is.

Even if she was 27 or 30 though at 18 I still think that I would want to be with her. I know that may sound odd to some people. We havent asked ages yet but with my voice and the way I handle myself so smoothely I seem older than I am.

I know its wrong to say that Im hawt but Im doing just fine with laddie interest. Older women love me. She is older and Im starting to think of her more and more and we talk more and more. She is the 1st woman that I have ever thought about with everything else in my life.

If she knew I was younger though I might loose my appeal.

I dont care though if she were 9 or 12 years older than me because as long as Im with her I know that I would have the happiest days of my life. Being with her would make my life worthwhile for all that it is worth and it would be worth it if I ended up 9 or 10 years alone. A life time full of such joy and happiness would so be worth it.

I really like her now but I really dont know how she feels about me. She expects me to say goodbye to her after class everyday. She looks for it and we talk alot now. She sits and stands next to me in the halls and in class . She thinks Im cute and and hot and like other chicks that have noticed me she says it out loud in the middle of class.

Im very pleased to have such luck with the laddies

I dont know how serious this woman wants to be with me but I think Ive found a woman that I care for. If she doesnt want to be friends then I think that she strongly wants my sex.....

Anyways, I dont know what to do once again.

She is awesome , beautifull and she does have a FINE body and cute face but Im only 18 and she talks about how she remembers being that age.

I have no idea how old she is. I could easily habdle anything in the 20's range though. She lives with her parents still though so I think its all good there and she isnt 30 or what have you. Could she be 20 something though and have taught a class already?

As much as I like her and she seems to like me I wonder if the age difference would bring us apart even where I stand now with her in a relationship.

I once heard that age makes a big difference but I dont even care about that when Im with her its all sexuall and mature interest. Its not all sexuall no , I want to find out more about her and be her friend.

She seems to hint to me time to time about hanging out. Thats a big step for me. This could all be a elaborate game for her to get into my pants but I think that she might become one of my good friends. I just wonder if I could be more to her , which I think she might want from me.

I feel good but Im also confused here.




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#2 12 years ago

If she only just talked to you today, then perhaps you should give it some more time. My the last girlfriend I had was a good friend of mine for many years, and the only reason we broke up is because we were going to colleges in different parts of the country. Build a solid base to stand on, then move forward.

At least that is my advice to you.




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#3 12 years ago

Well...love is a strange animal. To each their own. Love is the master and we are the slaves.

briankoryThe age difference doesnt matter though?

Well..I don't think age matters as long as both of you are comfortable with it. Love is a two way street. Oops. Sorry about that post jump. I didn't mean to do that. It just happened.




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#4 12 years ago

The age difference doesnt matter though?




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#5 12 years ago
briankoryThe age difference doesnt matter though?

It does matter at the point when you will go out. If you live in the US and that she likes to go out in bars, well, she might get annoyed after.

But yea, normally age won't kill a relationship.




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#6 12 years ago

NostradamouseIt does matter at the point when you will go out. If you live in the US and that she likes to go out in bars, well, she might get annoyed after.

But yea, normally age won't kill a relationship.

Ok thanks everyone. Honestly the fact she is attracted to me and older than me has me real excited inside if you know what I mean....:naughty:

:uhm: ....Im a guy....

She is coming on to me strongly. Like she wants to keep me...Ever get that feeling? Where you feel that some one is trying real hard to be with you or that they just want you at 1st sight? Thats what this is like. I just dont want her to get hurt and realize Im younger.




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#7 12 years ago
briankoryShe is coming on to me strongly. Like she wants to keep me...Ever get that feeling? Where you feel that some one is trying real hard to be with you or that they just want you at 1st sight? Thats what this is like. I just dont want her to get hurt and realize Im younger.

Well..she is an older girl...she knows what she is doing. Do you know what you are doing?




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#8 12 years ago
JillWell..she is an older girl...she knows what she is doing. Do you know what you are doing?

No.....:rolleyes:

Hmmmm what does that mean though?




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#9 12 years ago

NostradamouseIt does matter at the point when you will go out. If you live in the US and that she likes to go out in bars, well, she might get annoyed after.

But yea, normally age won't kill a relationship.

Depends on the bar. I consider myself lucky in that way.




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#10 12 years ago

Just tell her you're 18, you can't hide it forever and it's better you tell her in a good way then her finding out some other way. She might not even mind that you're younger. If you're then both happy with the age difference then I'd say just go with the flow, it is better to regret something you did rather than something you didn't. PS. I don't think you love her though, it doesn't seem that you know her well enough, infatuation perhaps. (Don't mean to sound condescending, just my opinion)