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#1 13 years ago

I need some help mannn... I dont know what to f*cking do... Heres my situation: Okay I just had a fight with my mom because I was doing drugs to a party, my first time doing it tho. And now my girlfriend left me because I hadnt enough money to give her stuff... And well even worser im might going to end up in jail because of some gang wars going on :( Some good adverise here would be verym appreciated for no doubt bawl.gif And please dont flame and whine at me, im not feeling very good right now :(




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#2 13 years ago

You have my greatest sympathy at a time like this myrkul. I'm sure that you must feel quite scared at the anticipation of what is to come, as well as depressed at what has already happened.

I would advise that you explain to your mother that you were involved with drug use merely as a form of experimentation, since it is for the first time (assuming that you were indeed experimenting). I think that she should at least sympathise with you if you are able to explain to her that you feel at a very low point in your life, and that you need her support, not an angry lecture.

And speaking of support, I personally think that if your girlfriend left you because you did not have adequate finances to support her or even just buy gifts for her, then she is (was) in a relationship with you for the wrong reason. If she seriously loves you, then she should stick with you during this hard time and offer her utmost support.

Lastly, it is very difficult for me to judge this situation of you possible going to jail due to gang wars when I know virtually no details of it. My suggestion, for now, is that you do your best to lay low and hope for the best. As I said, it would be helpful to be further informed on this.




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#3 13 years ago

Unfortuneatly i can't say i am sorry for you. Frankly, you deserve it. But not the punishment you are getting, maybe one of those but not all three. Anyway, get into drugs anonymous support group thing, screw the gf, if she only stays because of gifts then she was a bad person to begin with, as for the gang war thing, ummm.......run like hell? i dunno.




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#4 13 years ago

You might try going to school and concentrating on the specific areas of "grammar" and "spelling." winkx.gif These are key activities that will land you a lot of decent jobs that pay good money and will give you independence from the shithole life you appear to live in. Just so no one takes this post the wrong way...school is really important. It makes things so much easier.




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#5 13 years ago

Wow stay away from drugs. Ive seen way to many friends go bad doing that shit. Now if you were out drinking and you smoked a fatty thats a different story. Weed is not as bad as the government would lead you to believe. But one thing I can tell ya from experience is that is blows your short term memory. So leave alone till you get done with school. If your g/f left you because you don't buy her enough stuff, forget that money grubbing twat and tell her to get a f**king JOB if she wants nice things. Gangs are for people with no self esteem, you have a problem deal with it yourself. People in gangs are one of the lowest forms of life IMO.




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#6 13 years ago
CataphractYou might try going to school and concentrating on the specific areas of "grammar" and "spelling." winkx.gif These are key activities that will land you a lot of decent jobs that pay good money and will give you independence from the shithole life you appear to .........

Lmfao at that^ :nodding: ;) Yer that. But dude are you for real!?? If so listen to what these fellas are saying! Feck mate, dump ya girl too. If she only hangs with you cause of the things you buy her well boot her to the curb. ... oh one more thing, use ya brain and think before ya act! Peace my Danish homeboy lol. :lol:




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#7 13 years ago
myrkul_8I need some help mannn... I dont know what to f*cking do... Heres my situation: Okay I just had a fight with my mom because I was doing drugs to a party, my first time doing it tho. And now my girlfriend left me because I hadnt enough money to give her stuff... And well even worser im might going to end up in jail because of some gang wars going on :( Some good adverise here would be verym appreciated for no doubt bawl.gif And please dont flame and whine at me, im not feeling very good right now :(

If you have a girlfriend whois with you only because of what you spend on her, I suggest you find a new girlfriend who does not use you.




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#8 13 years ago

Oh thank you guys all good help and well I did really love my girlfriend and she loved me but.. It was like I gave her to much stuff and now that I dont have anything it cant continue :( About my mom oh well she never really been into me, so no change that she would now...




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#9 13 years ago
myrkul_8I need some help mannn... I dont know what to f*cking do... Heres my situation: Okay I just had a fight with my mom because I was doing drugs to a party, my first time doing it tho. And now my girlfriend left me because I hadnt enough money to give her stuff... And well even worser im might going to end up in jail because of some gang wars going on sad%20(frown).gif Some good adverise here would be verym appreciated for no doubt bawl.gif And please dont flame and whine at me, im not feeling very good right now sad%20(frown).gif[/QUOTE] I'll start of by telling you that if your girlfriend left just because you hadn't bought her something, she doesn't deserve you. Drugs are serious offenses, and I hope that the "once" you did them will be the last. I don't know your mother, but I am guessing that she will forgive you, though her trust will probably take time to gain. If there is gang wars, I would seek help and make known that you want nothing to do with them. [QUOTE=myrkul_8]Oh thank you guys all good help and well I did really love my girlfriend and she loved me but.. It was like I gave her to much stuff and now that I dont have anything it cant continue :( About my mom oh well she never really been into me, so no change that she would now...

If your girlfriend loved you should wouldn't dump you because you didn't have money, that's not love. I think you have a lot to learn about love. Anyway, I'm sorry for your mom, I hope you are wrong. -lord saber




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#10 13 years ago
myrkul_8Oh thank you guys all good help and well I did really love my girlfriend and she loved me but.. It was like I gave her to much stuff and now that I dont have anything it cant continue :( About my mom oh well she never really been into me, so no change that she would now...

If your girlfriend loved you should wouldn't dump you because you didn't have money, that's not love. I think you have a lot to learn about love. Anyway, I'm sorry for your mom, I hope you are wrong. -lord saber




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