Indeed, Love hurts. 48 replies

There is this girl, I recently made a thread about meeting her parents. The thing is I really like her more than friends and im not quite sure if she does like me more than friends... She probably likes me just as a best friend. Well last night me and her brother got drunk and she was the driver, She was completly fine with me being drunk but I was not. I was extremly depressed because alcohol increases the depression i already had - The reason why i was depressed was because i Like her more than friends and i have no one to talk to about this other than you guys on Gaming Forums anc i cant possibly tell her that i like her more than friends because it surely will ruin the friendship, so last night i acted depressed and weird around her which i really regret the most. I did not talk that much, and things were not the same as before .... Maybe im worrying too much? :uhm: I just get this painful feeling in my chest whenever i dont get to see her sometimes. Its annoying and its making me mad! I am in complete Regret, Disapointment and Depression. What do i do?

You have 2 options:

1) Act normal, and let time will decide if she loves you.

2) Make some small moves on her.

I'd go for 1), because I have a tendency to f**k up things when I try to talk with girls...

Just get your true feelings out. I was in a similar situation a while back (minus being drunk, lol) where me and the girl were best friends. I really liked her, and I worried about what might happen if I tried to go any further because she had shown no sign of liking me like that. It worked when I told everything to her though, we had a great relationship for a month, but the breakup was something entirely different. PM me if you really need to know... And if she says anything about how you were acting that night, just blame it on the alcohol, lol. Best of luck to you, brother.

I would just tell her & see what she says, you never know she could feel the same about you :)

good advice guys, It is still chewing up my ass because for some reason she has not emailed me or text messaged me on the phone today. Do you guys hate worrying about little things that are not important? I get paranoid of losing friendships or our relationship because shes not replying anymore, At least for today and tonight.

relationships are tough. i've liked one of my best friends for a while. and i actually got up the nerve to kiss him. (and yes, i'm a girl) i had thought for sure that i'd lost a friend. but luckily we found a way through it and everything worked out. but it wouldn't take that in every case. you can just be a good friend. if she thinks anything like me, then she'll start to like you just because your always nice.

oh, and you should never really worry when a girl doesn't call or something. maybe she's just been busy. or just flat out forgot. i know i've done that a few times to guys.

and paranoia is common. but even if things never work out. life goes on, there are other oportunities. don't let anything get you down.

:-D Finally an advice from a girl's perspective which is rare these days... I will try to stick with your advice, and the reason why i am worried that she is not replying was because i was Drunk around her, I might have done something weird... :uhoh: but i will try not to worry this time.

Making jokes always should give you a less depressed image and if you are talking to the correct person for thise type of joke then make jokes about how stupid you acted while you were drunk.

well, being drunk doesn't really help the situation. but i'm sure that if she likes you she won't let it get in the way.

Agreed.....in my experience you're allowed a few f*ck ups....just dont get drunk all the time, and as for the friendship thing......DONT date ur best friends.....it fuks things up if and when u break up.....but hey thats me.....go ahead and go for it..can be alot of fun =P