Okay, I cant belive I am going on a forum with this, but here it goes:
There is this girl I go to school with, and for the past several weeks she has been flirting with me. It's not that I don't like her or anything, but what would be a nice way to tell her I am not intrested without hurting her feelings?
I mean I am just not ready for that kind of relationship (Please, no cracks about me being 16 and never having a GF). I just prefer to keep to myself most of the time.
So, any suggestions on how to deal with this "Problem" for lack of a better term?
If she asks you, just say no. But if you want her to stop flirting with you because its getting annoying, the only idea i can come up with is for you to start commenting on how good looking some of the other chicks in the school are while she's around, then she'll probably realize your interested in others. Or, You can just ignore her.
ARe you realy not ready for women or are you just not conformtable. The easiest way to lose a woman's interest is not to give her attention.
Dont make the same mistake I made though, Woman are worth the fear and effort to work through. Ask yourself are you just not confromtable around women yet and use "not ready" as an excuse to avoid making the moves to be in relationships with them and to allow them to care for you and to put trust in them and have faith in their trust for you...??
Anyways, if you want to rid her...there is no nice way. She is a woman, a fool who will think she is fat or ugly or going to die alone...just because you simply do not show any interest to her in return.
The answer is time though , yes she will be hurt but she will bounce back...unless it is true love and you arent letting her in. That is a different and much harder story...much harder....much..
ANYWAYS time , just dont pay attention to her. Do other things in the room...but if you do love her, just arent confromtable around her yet and if you blow her off ....it is going to mess you up for a long time after....a long time...too long of a time...
Why arent you interested in girls giving you attention? Are you ill? Stop pussyfooting around and get your moneys' worth son.
I say you hang out with her a few times. Perhaps you'll realize you don't 'connect' whatsoever, or you could end up changing your mind about relationships and figure out she's someone who's just plain awesome to hang out with. What's there to lose?
P.S. she ain't an ugly duckling is she?
If she is completely crazy about you, see will feel rejected and sad no matter how you said it. The best thing to do is taking the ''Friends'' route; say you aren't interested in a relationship but tell her that she is nice and you would like to just friends.
If she is just only interested in you, you could just sway here of by saying that you aren't interested in her ( in a nice way though ).
UNDIESRULES;3685911Why arent you interested in girls giving you attention? Are you ill? Stop pussyfooting around and get your moneys' worth son.
LMAO! A bit harsh though, just keep having a laugh, all the flirting will come in as good practise for the future, trust me im 29! The wonen in the office flirt with all the lads all day long, but it dont mean owt. If she really likes you though then you best just man up & tell her you not interested (but dont forget to say you are really nice though & all that shit girls like)
i have been through the exact same thing, you could tell her you have a girlfriend at another school
Tell us the truth. She' s a pain in the ass. No, wait! Better: she' s ugly.
Anyway, I would know how to let her know by hurting her feelings. People love me for this. Seriously. It would be rather impossible to explain you how since it' s all in the voice, the pause, the face and the hand. (you look up toward left, not very high, just above her head, lift your left hand with your second finger up with non-chalance, say "ehr", pause, look her in the eye, point your finger at her quickly, quickly and firmly look her in the eye and say "no")
But, no, seriously. Tell us why.
I didn't make it!
You don't have to say anything. I don't see the problem in being friends with someone who already likes you. If you really don't like her though, just look uninterested (not pay much attention, look bored, not look at her when she's talking to you, etc and she'll go away).