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Nusentinsaino

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#1 13 years ago

What do i do?

I have a girlfriend of 4 months... not really a long serious relationship... but we like each other a lot. The thing is, i am leaving for college on the 19th this month and it makes her very sad and she tells me that she wants to stay with me while im away. Mind you, i will be gone for multiple months and i hate long distance relationship. I already explained it to her... So what can i tell her? I think me and her need to break up and still contact each other and perhaps (you never know) we will eventually end up back together when she goes to the same college 2 years later... Your thoughts?




Admiral Donutz VIP Member

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#2 13 years ago

Just keep your relationship, if you both like eachother distance shouldn't be an issue. Your contact will be less but if you really car for eachother you will except this temporarly thing. Besides you two can always stay in touch via the internet, phone and meet eachother in the holidays. Never break any relation unless it turned bad, you will regret it in the end if you do!




Dragokatzov

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#3 13 years ago

I agree. Keep the relationship. It very well could pay off in the long run when you two are finally able to be together and relize how special it is. i know i am sounding like a chick here, btw, but it could ultamently strenghten the relationship




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#4 13 years ago
Nusentinsainoi hate long distance relationship

Do you like her more than you hate long distance relationships? If you don't, you should break up with her, because if that's the case she obviously doesn't mean enough to you to try and keep the relationship together. Besides, thinking you'll break up for two years and get together where you left off is naive. It'd never happen. It's either you're together or you're not. You really need to ask yourself how much you care about this girl. That's how you will make your decision. Not based on what we think.




Miltonmonkey

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#5 13 years ago
NusentinsainoWhat do i do? I have a girlfriend of 4 months... not really a long serious relationship... but we like each other a lot. The thing is, i am leaving for college on the 19th this month and it makes her very sad and she tells me that she wants to stay with me while im away. Mind you, i will be gone for multiple months and i hate long distance relationship. I already explained it to her... So what can i tell her? I think me and her need to break up and still contact each other and perhaps (you never know) we will eventually end up back together when she goes to the same college 2 years later... Your thoughts?

Keep the relatationship. But will have to be long-distance.




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#6 13 years ago

Could she go to the same college as you? Either way, stick with it, the only thing is that you two both can't get caught up worrying about the other cheating on the other...as a long distance relationship brings that along. Just stick it out and visit when you can.




NiteStryker

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#7 13 years ago

You shouldnt pick which institution will further your learning based on where your boy/girlfriend goes to.

I'd say end your relationship. Long distance ones never work.




Zab

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#8 13 years ago

College = many chicks... You have to break up with her now, and maybe end up back together later. There are too many oppurtunities in college to pass it up.




carl4286

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#9 13 years ago

If you are even considering the posibility of breaking up with her so that you can see other women for the next few months, then the relationship isn't going to last much longer anyway.




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#10 13 years ago
ZabCollege = many chicks... You have to break up with her now, and maybe end up back together later. There are too many oppurtunities in college to pass it up.

However what them college honays don’t know don’t hurt them!


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