13th October 2004
Pethegreat™ Why place your self at a large risk when you don't need it?
thats the most sence that i've heard on this damn thread....
honestly... you will only get hurt emotionaly.... or you will be setting your self up for a large conflict with your self... i know this one girle who like most of you here enjoys sex. she slept with her boyfriend. well i know the guy and some of the shit he says about her when she's not looking is slightly amazing to me... he calls her a whore and a slut. and thats suppost to be her boyfriend? well later she found out about the hurtful things the guy was saying to her. she left him and went on to someone else... the whole thing repeated again... and then she went on to one more guy... and again it repeated.... she found her self so depressed as guys were only using her for one thing only... sex. women i will let you all know somthing... there are men out there that are willing to take advantage of you. i havnt because im not like that... and though you may be thinking your man would never use you in such a way and soly for one thing... you have to ask your self... how well do you know that guy you are sleeping with? what does your mate realy think of you? this is the cold hard trueth to it all... most of the guys in there teans will use women in that way... not all men are like that but majority are. to finish up my story about my friend and her emotional problem... well she never had gotten over it... she almost commited suicide but was stoped... i dont know were she is now but with all that she went threw being used like that... im almost not surprised she was so depresed... plzz think before you let your urges get the better of you... even if your having safe sex what ever you are taking or you got your man wearing wont protect you at all if he is just using you...
i had not had sex mostly because.... we have an std problem at out school... O_O eww...
Jeff is a mean boss
28th July 2002
i aint reading all of this thread..........but I dont plan on having sex until im married, its getting tougher, now that im in college, and there is a lot more temptations than back in high school
I didn't make it!
It is fine if you want to wait, just don't get on a moral high horse or tell us we are in danger when we really aren't in too much danger. Human beings are different. And to me, marriage is just a legal contract that doesn't mean much to me at this point in my life. I am going to enjoy my teen years, drinking alcohol, having sex with all the hotties I can, getting some boobies, etc. It is what I want. I would not live any other way, and I am happy.
Jeff is a mean boss
28th July 2002
its a free world, you have free will.....although i disagree with the way your living your life, im not going to cram my conservative Chrisitan values down your throat for it
I don't believe in Sex After marrage, some people don't get married till they are 40+ or even older, but i don't think it should happen like it does. Some people seem to think of it as a joke now a-days, 16 (for the legal age) is there for a reason, i think it is resonable. Don't think you should have to wait until after marrage, but i do think a certian amount of months. This is just me, but i say three months (about that time you get the idea on if the relationship is going anywhere or not). Edit: The people that are waiting for it (wheater just waiting for the right person, or waiting till marrage, good on you) - don't let people put you down over it.
Pethegreat™:lol:. Millions of pepople die from aids each year wile only 100,000 die in car accidents.
Most of us live in first world countries. Most people who die from AIDs are in poor hellholes like Africa. In first world countries, AIDs is quite rare compared to car crashes.