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#101 13 years ago

I do listen. im not a stone hearted guy. i try to comfort her and talk to her about her problems, but sometimes i just dont want to hear it. all she does is call me and give me a massage sometimes. damnit i want something too! i always put women first but after awhile i expect something in return.




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#102 13 years ago

I do listen. im not a stone hearted guy. i try to comfort her and talk to her about her problems, but sometimes i just dont want to hear it. all she does is call me and give me a massage sometimes. damnit i want something too! i always put women first but after awhile i expect something in return.

Well, every man eventually wants something in return. Now, if your woman doesn't know that, then it becomes a problem. My adivce: don't push it. Try to hint at it. Or just directly tell her that you need some attention. Remember to state the reason(s) why, and try to keep her comfortable. Don't make her do something she doesn't want to do.




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#103 13 years ago

TUSSE,NUCLEAR and BRIA i wanna thank all you guys! you guys somehow got my confidence way up! i talked to her and we really connected! we havent had sex yet but i cant wait to see how this turns out! still talk on this thread tho so i can still get some help.




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#104 13 years ago

Well, go ahead and do it (I'm not rushing you; do it when you're ready), and if you wish to, report back with what happened. Now, if you still have a problem, then.... ya, come back. But if you don't, then (hopefully) it should be smooth sailing from here on out. Good luck!




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#105 13 years ago

ok here is waht happened. i went over my ladies house today and we talked and such. one thing led to another and bam, we are on her bed. i still had trouble, but not as bad as last time. i kept thinking to myself what you guys told me so it really helped. still felt nervous, but not as much as before.




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#106 13 years ago

Congratulations! Glad to hear that you two are getting somewhere! Just remember that Rome wasnt build in one day... But it sound like its going the right way! You dont have to thank me... Im just glad to help others try to avoid the mistakes Ive made!




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#107 13 years ago

This is excellent! I'm very happy to hear that things have improved. Yes, it may take a while, but it's great that your problem is well on its way to being fixed!




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#108 13 years ago

i just cant shake that feeling though.




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#109 13 years ago

Is the reason you're nervous any more clear? (At the risk of using leading questions.) Are you afraid of doing something that will ruin the moment, and thus blow the chance of sex actually happening? Are you afraid that she will be insensative and make fun of you for some percieved failing? Chew on the question of "why" you may be nervous for a bit more.




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#110 13 years ago

i think i just want to live up to what i know i am but am afraid of failing.