Sex... the first time... when? 163 replies

Please wait...

young Obi-Wan

I pretend I'm cooler than AzH

50 XP

17th October 2002

0 Uploads

4,137 Posts

0 Threads

#1 14 years ago

hi I'd like to know: When do you think ppl should have sex for the first time? When should it be legal to ppl to have sex? or... you can even select the age when you had sex for the first time in the poll above, if you are willing to. i think 16 is a good age. many ppl have sex earlier, some start with 12. but that's way too young. first, they do not think about the responsibility. some don't even use condoms etc... and could either get pregnant or infected with the HIV....




Mr. Matt VIP Member

#BanRadioActiveLobster

356,406 XP

17th June 2002

7 Uploads

33,654 Posts

779 Threads

#2 14 years ago

Doesn't really matter. It's nearly impossible to police, and nearly everybody ignores the law and does it anyway. But yeah, if it mattered, I'd say 16/17.




young Obi-Wan

I pretend I'm cooler than AzH

50 XP

17th October 2002

0 Uploads

4,137 Posts

0 Threads

#3 14 years ago

uhm... ok, it took me too long to add the poll, Matt was faster ;)




AzH

I'm too cool to Post

269,650 XP

17th September 2003

0 Uploads

24,050 Posts

0 Threads

#4 14 years ago

*waits for poll*

I was 18, legal age here is 16. I wasn't emotionally ready so I didn't bother pursuing a sexual partner. A legal age for sex.... *to be continued. need to go shopping*




CHAKA VIP Member

Anti-antidisestablishmentarian

50 XP

15th January 2004

0 Uploads

5,038 Posts

0 Threads

#5 14 years ago

the law is pretty much unenforcable, but by about 15 you *should* have been warned of the dangers.




Nemmerle Forum Mod

Voice of joy and sunshine

298,365 XP

26th May 2003

0 Uploads

28,147 Posts

5 Threads

#6 14 years ago

It should be 16, your old enough to pay taxes you're old enough to die for you're country. You should be old enough to pursue intercourse and any other perks of being an adult. You're old enough to know the risk's, the funny thing is your not allowed to vote, or drive, or........




ScOrPY VIP Member

Advanced Member

50 XP

17th November 2003

0 Uploads

15,582 Posts

0 Threads

#7 14 years ago

16 is a good age, it is that here




AzH

I'm too cool to Post

269,650 XP

17th September 2003

0 Uploads

24,050 Posts

0 Threads

#8 14 years ago

Al*waits for poll*

I was 18, legal age here is 16. I wasn't emotionally ready so I didn't bother pursuing a sexual partner. A legal age for sex....

... needs to be considered along the lines of other things where there is an age consideration. For example, at 16 I was able to have children, smoke, join the Army/Navy/Airforce but I wasn't able to go see an 18 rated movie, drive or vote for the rulers of my nation.

I think that 18 should be the watershed for these things. Everything should be defaulted to 18. Maybe even 21.




AmericanSaint

Your mom goes to college

50 XP

12th May 2004

0 Uploads

96 Posts

0 Threads

#9 14 years ago

I think that you should save yourself until marriage. Obviously I cannot enforce that, but it is my opinion on the subject. I wish more people than just myself and one other person felt this way, but whatever. Honestly, I just think that you get to emotionally attached to a person when you have sex before marriage. But since I never have, then I suppose I shouldn't talk, eh?




AzH

I'm too cool to Post

269,650 XP

17th September 2003

0 Uploads

24,050 Posts

0 Threads

#10 14 years ago

See now, this is something I totally disagree with. Sex between two people is an important part of a relationship. You might meet the most beautiful woman in the world and yet she is a damp squib in bed. I'm talking sack of potatoes... If that is the case, would you really want to spend your whole life with this person?

They don't call it making love for nothing...