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AmericanSaint

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#11 15 years ago
AlThey don't call it making love for nothing. It is a meaningful and important part of a relationship.

:agreed :agreed haha, gotcha! Which is exactly why I think you should save it. It is so important in a relationship that it should be saved and cherished so that you can get intimate with your lifelong partner. This takes the relationship to a whole new level. And I think getting a home run before you're even on the team is a bad idea. (did you like the analogy? :nodding: )




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#12 15 years ago

Well i'de say 16 and above for legal age. I'll be over 18 when it happens to me i think. Also i wouldn't more than one partner either.




AmericanSaint

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#13 15 years ago

All I'm saying is that I think squwandering sex while you're a teenager is a bad move because I do have friends that have had sex, and they got so attached to their partner. Every time you have sex it takes something from you that should go to your wife (or husband).




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#14 15 years ago

as for the being married thing... i would like to experience sex with the pertner I'm going to spend my whole life with before marrying... as Al said. or else I might be very disappointed, maybe she likes SM and I like more tender sex etc etc.




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#15 15 years ago

I agree with Obi-wan. However i don't think i would leave my wife just because of a crappy sex life.




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#16 15 years ago
:agreed :agreed haha, gotcha!

Meh. I deleted it because I already said the same thing previously. Seems like you didn't 'get' anything...

Which is exactly why I think you should save it. It is so important in a relationship that it should be saved and cherished so that you can get intimate with your lifelong partner. This takes the relationship to a whole new level.

I agree that is important, and that it should be cherished. I didn't have sex until I found someoe I wanted to be with, not for life, but for the immediate future. Sex was very important in enabling us to express our feelings for each other in a way which words never could. There is something magical about it which you don't see in the movies (especially not in MY collection :naughty: ).

I don't want to sound like I'm dismissing your point, but until you have experienced that you really have no clue. I wouldn't want to marry someone until I knew that we had a close, loving, intimate relationship. You may wish to, and that is your choice.

And I think getting a home run before you're even on the team is a bad idea. (did you like the analogy? :nodding: )

Good analogy... :D




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#17 15 years ago

When they are ready to face all the possible consequences. As for the legal age, 15 is quite good.




AmericanSaint

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#18 15 years ago

I think the legal age should not even be established, except for the laws of not having sex with underage girls after you turn 18. I agree with that law. But I still am convicted to staying un-"sexed" until I'm married. I just think it's foolish to waste sex before you have a life-long partner. I know it's hard to wait. Trust me, I do, but I think it'll be worth it.




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#19 15 years ago
Pvt. AchillesI just think it's foolish to waste sex before you have a life-long partner.

Can you explain how (or why) it is a waste. I'm not really getting this bit...




AmericanSaint

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#20 15 years ago

Mainly because it is such an act of bonding, literally, that the emotional bit should be saved for the person you will spend the rest of you life with. If you were to marry a girl and never have sex, you woul miss out on the emotional one-ness it brings, but also, if you've already become "one" premaritally, then it is what i consider a waste.