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Pb2Au

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#521 13 years ago

Regardless of the gender of the person you or your husband was cheating on (put that whole issue aside for a moment), consider this: If husband was cheating on you, and did not tell you about it, would you be hurt? Regardless of reasons, the gender or characteristics of his new lover; deep down, would you be hurt? If not, I'm sorry to say that I don't believe you have a good relationship. Never having been married, and not knowing you and your husband, I cannot say that for sure, but unless you would be seriously wounded by him cheating I would guess that the relationship is not good. Therefore, look at it from his point of view. He (I believe) trusts you are faithful to him, and you are not. You have been hurt before by cheating partners, yet you are doing the exact same to him. Motives and excuses aside, that is fundamentally wrong. Not according to my own morals, but according to your own personal views as you have described to us.




Flash525

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#522 13 years ago
assesina_majaOk, sure, he could have an affair with anyone he wants but if it's a woman I will break his nose :)[/quote]Fair enough :rolleyes: - I can see we are never going to reach a point we both agree on. So I'm just going to leave it here. You already know what I think, need I go on! [quote=PB2AU]Regardless of the gender of the person you or your husband was cheating on (put that whole issue aside for a moment), consider this: If husband was cheating on you, and did not tell you about it, would you be hurt? Regardless of reasons, the gender or characteristics of his new lover; deep down, would you be hurt?

I believe she has already said that she would care. I do see where you are coming from though, and yes, if one found the other cheating (in many relationship) the one not cheating may be hurt deeply.

It's a crewl world, and we all have to live in it. :(




Joe Bonham

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#523 13 years ago
assesina_majaOk, sure, he could have an affair with anyone he wants but if it's a woman I will break his nose :)

An affair is an affair regardless of gender.