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Tank!

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Hey guys, i just had a pretty depressing weekend. So it started during the week when i met this girl named Amy. Very pretty, very nice, down to earth girl. So i hung out with her friday night, but she couldn't stay for long, she had other obligations, but we had a nice dinner and chilled at my dorm for a bit. So later that night i got stoned out of my mind, and i thought it was a super duper idea to text her while i was stoned. Well, when i get high, i get, umm, how to phrase it...over friendly? Basically, i texted her some things that were a little too romantic for someone i just met. The next day she texted me saying that she's sorry she gave the impression she was interested in a romantic relationship, bu that's not what she's after, she just wanted to be friends. Then we had a conversation about that...except i was baked like a cookie...so yeah...So finally yesterday, i texted her twice, and she didn't respond all day, i think she's totally weirded out by me.

But that's not really the whole point. What got me most upset is that i'm almost 19 years old and i haven't had a real girlfriend yet. My roomate and suitemates all have very steady girlfriends, some for over 2 years, and others no less than a year. I fuck up every relationship with a girl that i have, by doing something stupid. I talked to my best girl friends, and i was like, wtf is wrong with me? Do ihave some fundamental character flaw that is preventing me from getting a girlfriend? They both said no, that i would totally make a great boyfriend, and everyone i tlak to says the same exact fuckin thing. That i'm a great guy, blah blah blah, then why the fuck have i never had a girlfriend?

They always tell me, ohhh there' s more fish in the sea! You'll find yours one day! Well you know what i have to say to that? I've been fishing way longer than your ass, and i'm so sick and tired of fishing. Every time i get a nibble on my line, i fuck up reeling it in, and it's really gettin on my nerves.

Sorry guys, i just needed to spill my guts somehow, all my friends tell me the same thing, and i don't wanna talk to my parents, they're useless.




Dalt

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#2 10 years ago

Tank!;4799517Basically, i texted her some things that were a little too romantic for someone i just met. [/quote] give your cell to someone who is not stoned and tell them not to give it to you until tomorrow.

[quote=Tank!;4799517]I talked to my best girl friends, and i was like, wtf is wrong with me? Do ihave some fundamental character flaw that is preventing me from getting a girlfriend? They both said no, that i would totally make a great boyfriend, and everyone i tlak to says the same exact fuckin thing. That i'm a great guy, blah blah blah, then why the fuck have i never had a girlfriend?

read this: Urban Dictionary: nice guy

and this if you want: Nice guy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia




iDeekz

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#3 10 years ago

Right. You have to admit, it was pretty stupid to Text a girl while stoned but then again, you don't exactly know what you're doing now, do you? Anyway, you seem fine, you just need to make them moves, but not the silly ones.




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#4 10 years ago
Tank!;4799517 The next day she texted me saying that she's sorry she gave the impression she was interested in a romantic relationship, bu that's not what she's after, she just wanted to be friends.

That basically means "at one point I was interested in you, but somehow you blew it" OR "I'll use you as a pillow talk buddy and spill my guts about my problems, however I don't actually want you sexually/emotionally" OR "Sorry, you're too fucking boring".

Never talk to her again, move on, and try to bag some other broad.

And this time be a complete asshole. Take charge, give them shit and see what happens. The worst case scenario would be for her to call you a "dick" or slap you. Women generally like being around assholes because it gives them something to bitch about to their girlfriends...

That i'm a great guy, blah blah blah, then why the fuck have i never had a girlfriend?

Read dalts post about "nice guy". If a woman starts talking to you about their boy problems, tell her to fuck off and find another sap who's willingly to listen to her bullshit.




Dalt

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#5 10 years ago
Jeffro;4799590 And this time be a complete asshole. Take charge, give them shit and see what happens. The worst case scenario would be for her to call you a "dick" or slap you. Women generally like being around assholes because it gives them something to bitch about to their girlfriends...

that's true. they all say they want a guy who is emotional and listens to them and blah blah. that's not true. they like assholes. 7/10 girls are dating an asshole (2/10 are lesbians) and those 1/10 are extremely rare.

if you listen to their problems and stuff, you will just end up in the friend zone. they have girl friends and marriage counselors to talk about that. don't be a too big of an asshole, but don't be too friendly either.




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#6 10 years ago

I've been slaped by a Girl before. It wasn't nice.




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#7 10 years ago

Gah, i totally hear what you guys are saying, but i guess that's my problem. I just am i really nice guy, i can't be an asshole. I'm a stoner musician with a 4.0 GPA in mathematics and computer science, why the fuck would i want to be an asshole exactly? I don't have any enemies, everyone i meet respects me, and i have too much pride in who i am to be an asshole to girls. If getting girls means being an asshole, then i guess i have a much longer wait ahead of me than i thought.




Dalt

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#8 10 years ago
Tank!;4799604Gah, i totally hear what you guys are saying, but i guess that's my problem. I just am i really nice guy, i can't be an asshole. I'm a stoner musician with a 4.0 GPA in mathematics and computer science, why the fuck would i want to be an asshole exactly? I don't have any enemies, everyone i meet respects me, and i have too much pride in who i am to be an asshole to girls. If getting girls means being an asshole, then i guess i have a much longer wait ahead of me than i thought.

well, since i've ended up a few times in the "friend zone", and my friends too, i've learned my lesson. and i want to help because i know how it feels when you've wasted your precious time on her.

women actually think that when you buy them drinks or are nice to them, you are doing it because you want to make friends. and we both know it's not true.

  • don't be a doormat - don't run to her every time she calls you, don't always be there for her when she is sad/depressed or whatever. If she calls and wants to go get a cup of coffee and talk, say you're busy, or you're going out with guys to a bar and say you'll make it up to her some other time.
  • don't change your beliefs because of her - if she likes "Bridges madison something" film, and you don't, say it. don't change your opinion or she'll know that she can manipulate you. say that a true Clint Eastwood movie is the one where he shoots some guys with his magnum.
  • if she wants to talk about her past relationships, don't immediately agree that her old boyfriend was an asshole. just same something like "tough luck" and change the subject

or else, the guy that just used her adorable puppies as target practice to test out his new desert eagle has bigger chances of having sex with her than you do. :)




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#9 10 years ago

Dalt;4799636well, since i've ended up a few times in the "friend zone", and my friends too, i've learned my lesson. and i want to help because i know how it feels when you've wasted your precious time on her.

women actually think that when you buy them drinks or are nice to them, you are doing it because you want to make friends. and we both know it's not true.

  • don't be a doormat - don't run to her every time she calls you, don't always be there for her when she is sad/depressed or whatever. If she calls and wants to go get a cup of coffee and talk, say you're busy, or you're going out with guys to a bar and say you'll make it up to her some other time.
  • don't change your beliefs because of her - if she likes "Bridges madison something" film, and you don't, say it. don't change your opinion or she'll know that she can manipulate you. say that a true Clint Eastwood movie is the one where he shoots some guys with his magnum.
  • if she wants to talk about her past relationships, don't immediately agree that her old boyfriend was an asshole. just same something like "tough luck" and change the subject
or else, the guy that just used her adorable puppies as target practice to test out his new desert eagle has bigger chances of having sex with her than you do. :)

Thanks man, i'll def keep that in mind! I like what you have to say though, cause that's more like just not being a bitch than being an asshole




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#10 10 years ago
But that's not really the whole point. What got me most upset is that i'm almost 19 years old and i haven't had a real girlfriend yet. My roomate and suitemates all have very steady girlfriends, some for over 2 years, and others no less than a year. I fuck up every relationship with a girl that i have, by doing something stupid. I talked to my best girl friends, and i was like, wtf is wrong with me? Do ihave some fundamental character flaw that is preventing me from getting a girlfriend? They both said no, that i would totally make a great boyfriend, and everyone i tlak to says the same exact fuckin thing. That i'm a great guy, blah blah blah, then why the fuck have i never had a girlfriend?

The best advice I can give is, don't get stoned out of your mind.




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